Starlight Serenade

Thanks. "Discussions" and "A place where members can discuss any topics!". I tried to make a page for it earlier, but it won't let me add new topics or anything to the page.

Thanks! Is there anyway to add a discussion page? I tried to add a page where anyone can post, but it is not letting me.

I just saw this notification! Thank you @Nitobit I appreciate it! Update: I just tried to see if I can make a discussion or open a chat, but it is not letting me.

It seems I always mix up @Sparklefan1234 with @Sparklefan1234 a lot.

Milk and cookies!

@Nitobit Can you please help out with this application?

Starlight Glimmer is my favorite and the inspiration behind my OC, Starlight Serenade, so I consider this an honor XD

Wow, a lot of these images are really good!

Thank you! I ended up completing most of those tasks. There are a few things that are going to take longer than I expected, but I'm going to keep trying.

It's disappointing that the backstage drama often seems more exciting than the actual shows, especially with how childish things have gotten backstage at these promotions. I stopped watching AEW a while ago and now mostly skim through recordings and highlights of other promotions, as it’s tough for me to sit through full wrestling shows. With rumors of even more troubling actions by Vince still hidden, I doubt everything will come to light, likely due to his connections. While Triple H is doing a decent job overall, I’m starting to think I might eventually move away from wrestling entirely and dive into a few other new fandoms instead.

Foreword Over the past year, I've embarked on a journey of learning and self-discovery, diving into the rich and diverse world of the asexual and romantic spectrums. This exploration has opened my eyes to experiences and identities that I previously knew little about. While I’m still learning and growing in my understanding, I’ve come to deeply appreciate the importance of acknowledging and celebrating the full range of human experiences. This blog post is a reflection of my ongoing journey. I hope it serves as a helpful resource for others who, like me, are seeking to learn more about asexuality, the romantic-sexual spectrum, and the incredible diversity that defines our world. I approach this topic with empathy and a desire to create a more inclusive space for everyone, regardless of where they fall on these spectrums. An Exploration of Asexuality and the Romantic-Sexual Spectrum Asexuality is a term that has gained more visibility in recent years, yet it remains one of the most misunderstood aspects of human sexuality. The intersection of asexuality with the romantic-sexual spectrum, as well as with other sexual orientations such as bisexuality and lesbianism, adds further complexity. This complexity reveals a wide range of human experiences that challenge conventional understandings of attraction, desire, and relationships. In this blog post, we will delve into the importance of both asexuality and the romantic-sexual spectrum, highlight historical and contemporary figures, explore media representation, address 15 common questions and misconceptions, and explore how asexuality intersects with other sexual orientations. Understanding Asexuality and the Romantic-Sexual Spectrum What is Asexuality? Asexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by a lack of sexual attraction to others. Unlike other sexual orientations, asexuality is defined not by who someone is attracted to, but rather by the absence of sexual attraction. However, asexuality is not synonymous with a lack of romantic attraction, emotional connection, or desire for companionship. The Romantic-Sexual Spectrum The romantic-sexual spectrum refers to the diverse ways in which individuals experience romantic and sexual attraction. It encompasses a wide range of orientations and identities, including: Romantic Orientations: Romantic attraction refers to the desire for a romantic relationship with someone. Romantic orientations include heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, panromantic, aromantic (lack of romantic attraction), and more. Sexual Orientations: Sexual attraction refers to the desire for sexual activity or sexual relationships with others. Like romantic orientations, sexual orientations include heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality, and asexuality. The intersection of romantic and sexual orientations creates a complex and varied landscape of human experience. For example, someone might be asexual (lacking sexual attraction) but still experience romantic attraction (e.g., heteroromantic, homoromantic, etc.), or they might be aromantic (lacking romantic attraction) while still experiencing sexual attraction. The Importance of the Spectrums The Asexual Spectrum The asexual spectrum includes identities that reflect varying degrees of sexual attraction or lack thereof. Key identities include: Gray-Asexual: Individuals who experience sexual attraction infrequently or only under specific circumstances. Demisexual: People who experience sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond. Lithosexual: Individuals who experience sexual attraction but do not desire it to be reciprocated or acted upon. The asexual spectrum highlights the diversity of experiences within the asexual community and challenges the binary understanding of sexual attraction. It emphasizes that sexuality is not an all-or-nothing concept but exists along a continuum. The Romantic Spectrum The romantic spectrum recognizes that romantic attraction is not universal and varies widely among individuals. Aromantic identities, for example, include: Aromantic: Individuals who do not experience romantic attraction. Gray-Romantic: People who experience romantic attraction rarely or under specific conditions. Demiromantic: Those who experience romantic attraction only after forming a deep emotional connection. The romantic spectrum is crucial in understanding human relationships because it acknowledges that not all relationships are based on romantic attraction. Friendships, queerplatonic relationships, and other forms of connection are equally valid and meaningful. Intersectionality: Asexuality and Other Sexual Orientations One of the common misconceptions about asexuality is that it exists in isolation from other sexual orientations. In reality, asexuality can intersect with a variety of other sexual orientations, such as bisexuality, lesbianism, pansexuality, and more. Understanding this intersectionality is crucial for recognizing the diverse ways in which people experience attraction. Asexual and Bisexual An individual who identifies as both asexual and bisexual might not experience sexual attraction, yet they may still feel romantic attraction to more than one gender. This combination can sometimes be confusing for those unfamiliar with the nuances of sexual orientation, but it is entirely valid. For example, an asexual bisexual person might enjoy emotional and romantic relationships with people of different genders but may not feel the desire to engage in sexual activity with them. Their relationships can still be deeply fulfilling and meaningful, even without a sexual component. Asexual and Lesbian Similarly, someone can be both asexual and lesbian. This means that they do not experience sexual attraction but are romantically attracted to women. For instance, an asexual lesbian might have a deep emotional and romantic connection with women, engage in romantic relationships, and even cohabit or marry without the presence of sexual attraction. Asexual and Pansexual A person who identifies as both asexual and pansexual might experience romantic attraction to people of any gender but not feel sexual attraction. Panromantic asexual individuals are open to forming deep romantic connections with people regardless of their gender, but their relationships may not include a sexual dimension. Asexual and Heterosexual An asexual heterosexual person might feel romantic attraction to someone of the opposite gender without experiencing sexual attraction. This is another example of how romantic and sexual orientations can diverge, allowing for relationships that are romantic but not sexual in nature. Understanding Romantic and Sexual Orientations The intersection of asexuality with other sexual orientations highlights the distinction between romantic and sexual attraction. Romantic attraction involves a desire for emotional closeness, love, and partnership, while sexual attraction involves a desire for sexual interaction or physical intimacy. These attractions do not always align, and they can manifest differently for different people. For example: A Biromantic Asexual might feel romantic attraction to multiple genders but not want or desire sexual relationships. A Homoromantic Asexual might feel romantic attraction only toward people of the same gender, without sexual attraction. A Heteroromantic Asexual might desire a romantic relationship with someone of a different gender but have no interest in sex. This differentiation is important because it allows individuals to understand their own experiences more clearly and find language that accurately reflects their identities. The Importance of Intersectionality in Asexuality Recognizing the intersectionality within the asexual community is vital for several reasons: Validation: Understanding that someone can be both asexual and bisexual, lesbian, or another orientation helps validate their experiences. It affirms that their feelings are real and legitimate, even if they do not fit neatly into traditional categories. Representation: Intersectionality in asexuality broadens the scope of representation in media and society. Seeing characters and public figures who identify with multiple orientations can provide visibility and support for those who share these identities. Community and Support: Intersectional identities within the asexual community can foster greater understanding and solidarity among different LGBTQ+ groups. Recognizing and supporting these identities helps create a more inclusive and accepting environment. Complexity of Human Sexuality: Human sexuality is incredibly diverse, and the intersectionality within asexuality reflects this complexity. By acknowledging and embracing this diversity, we can move toward a more nuanced and empathetic understanding of what it means to be human. Historical and Contemporary Figures Historical Figures While historical records of asexuality and aromanticism are limited due to societal norms and the lack of language to describe these identities, there are individuals whose lives suggest a possible alignment with these orientations: Emily Dickinson: The famous American poet is often speculated to have been asexual or aromantic. Her reclusive lifestyle and intense focus on her poetry, combined with a lack of known romantic or sexual relationships, lead some to believe she may have been on the asexual or aromantic spectrum. Nikola Tesla: The inventor and electrical engineer is another figure often cited as potentially asexual. Tesla was known for his celibate lifestyle and focus on his work, which he considered his true passion. Contemporary Figures In recent years, more people have come forward to publicly identify as asexual or aromantic, helping to raise awareness and visibility: Yasmin Benoit: A British model and asexual activist, Yasmin Benoit is one of the most prominent voices in the asexual community. She has been instrumental in raising awareness about asexuality and challenging stereotypes. David Jay: Founder of the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN), David Jay is a key figure in the asexual community. His work has been crucial in creating a space for asexual individuals to connect and share their experiences. Bojack Horseman (Todd Chavez): While not a real person, the character Todd Chavez from the animated series "Bojack Horseman" is one of the most well-known asexual characters in contemporary media. His storyline has been praised for its accurate and respectful representation of asexuality. Media Representation Positive and accurate representation in media plays a significant role in shaping public understanding and acceptance of different identities. Here are some notable examples: "Sex Education" (TV Series): In this popular series, the character Florence experiences confusion and frustration about not feeling sexual attraction. Her storyline brings asexuality into the mainstream conversation and emphasizes the importance of sexual education that includes diverse orientations. "The House in the Cerulean Sea" by TJ Klune: This novel features a central character who is asexual. The book is a heartwarming fantasy story that provides positive asexual representation in a genre often dominated by romance. "Bojack Horseman" (TV Series): Todd Chavez, one of the main characters, comes to identify as asexual throughout the series. His journey is portrayed with sensitivity and humor, offering a rare and much-needed representation of asexuality in popular culture. "Loveless" by Alice Oseman: A young adult novel that follows the journey of a character discovering and coming to terms with being asexual and aromantic. It's a powerful exploration of identity, friendship, and self-acceptance. 15 Common Questions and Misconceptions Understanding asexuality and aromanticism can be challenging for those unfamiliar with these identities. Here are answers to 15 common questions and misconceptions: Is asexuality the same as celibacy? No, celibacy is a choice to abstain from sexual activity, while asexuality is an orientation where a person does not experience sexual attraction. Can asexual people have romantic relationships? Yes, many asexual people have romantic relationships. Asexuality refers to the lack of sexual attraction, not romantic attraction. Do asexual people have sex? Some asexual people do have sex for various reasons, such as to please a partner, have children, or out of curiosity. Others may choose not to. Is asexuality a result of trauma? No, asexuality is not caused by trauma. It is a valid sexual orientation, just like any other. Can asexuality change over time? Sexuality can be fluid for some people, but for many asexual individuals, their orientation remains consistent throughout their lives. Is asexuality a medical condition? No, asexuality is not a medical condition. It is a natural variation of human sexuality. Do asexual people fall in love? Yes, asexual people can fall in love and experience deep emotional connections, even if they do not feel sexual attraction. Is asexuality a phase? No, asexuality is not a phase. It is a legitimate sexual orientation. Can asexual people feel attraction? Asexual people can feel various forms of attraction, including romantic, aesthetic, and emotional attraction. Are asexual people against sex? Not necessarily. Some asexual people are sex-positive and may support others' sexual choices, even if they do not desire sex themselves. Can asexual people participate in "self care"? Yes, some asexual people do perform "self care", while others may not. "Self care" is not necessarily linked to sexual attraction. Do asexual people date? Yes, asexual people can and do date. Their relationships may focus on emotional and romantic connections rather than sexual ones. Is asexuality related to low libido? Not directly. Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction, while libido refers to sexual desire, which can vary among asexual people. Can asexual people have children? Yes, asexual people can have children through various means, including adoption, IVF, or co-parenting with a partner. Is there a community for asexual people? Yes, there is a growing community of asexual people who connect through online forums, social media, and organizations like AVEN. Supporting Asexual and Aromantic Individuals Supporting asexual and aromantic individuals involves recognizing and validating their experiences. Here are some ways to offer support: Educate Yourself: Take the time to learn about asexuality and aromanticism. Understanding these identities is the first step in becoming an ally. Use Inclusive Language: Be mindful of the language you use, and avoid making assumptions about someone's sexual or romantic orientation. Respect Boundaries: Asexual and aromantic individuals may have different boundaries when it comes to physical affection, relationships, and intimacy. Respect their boundaries and communicate openly. Create Inclusive Spaces: Whether in social settings, workplaces, or educational environments, creating spaces where asexual and aromantic people feel seen and heard is crucial for fostering a sense of belonging. Media Representation: Advocating for more diverse and accurate representation of asexual and aromantic characters in media can help normalize these identities and provide role models for those who identify with them. Personal Advocacy: Speak out against acephobia and arophobia when you encounter them, whether in conversations, media, or social settings. Allyship is crucial in promoting acceptance and understanding. Resources for Asexual and Aromantic People Navigating the world as an asexual or aromantic person can sometimes be challenging, especially given the lack of widespread understanding and representation. Fortunately, there are numerous resources available to support, inform, and connect individuals who identify as asexual or aromantic. Below is a list of valuable resources, including online communities, educational organizations, and supportive literature. Online Communities and Forums Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) Website: AVEN AVEN is one of the largest and most well-known organizations dedicated to asexuality. It offers a forum where asexual and aromantic individuals can connect, share experiences, and find support. Reddit: r/asexuality Website: r/asexuality This subreddit is a community for discussions related to asexuality and the experiences of asexual individuals. It provides a platform for asking questions, sharing personal stories, and finding support. The Asexual Community Website: The Asexual Community This site provides resources, forums, and articles on asexuality. It’s a valuable place for individuals to learn about asexuality and connect with others. Arocalypse Website: Arocalypse Arocalypse is an online community focused on aromanticism. It offers forums, resources, and articles for those who identify as aromantic or are interested in learning more. Educational Organizations The Trevor Project Website: The Trevor Project While not exclusively focused on asexuality, The Trevor Project offers support and resources for LGBTQ+ youth, including those who are asexual and aromantic. Their crisis support and educational resources are invaluable for many. PFLAG Website: PFLAG PFLAG is an organization that provides support and education for LGBTQ+ individuals and their families. They offer resources and support for asexual and aromantic people, including educational materials for allies. Gender Spectrum Website: Gender Spectrum Gender Spectrum provides resources on gender and sexuality diversity, including asexuality and aromanticism. Their materials can help individuals and families better understand these identities. Books and Literature “The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality” by Julie Sondra Decker This book offers an in-depth look at asexuality, covering its definition, experiences of asexual individuals, and the challenges they face. It’s a comprehensive resource for both asexual individuals and those seeking to understand them. “Asexualities: Feminist and Queer Perspectives” edited by Anna Houghton and Lisa M. Harris This collection of essays explores asexuality from various feminist and queer perspectives, providing academic and personal insights into the experiences of asexual individuals. “The House in the Cerulean Sea” by TJ Klune While not a nonfiction resource, this novel features a central character who is asexual, offering a positive and respectful representation of asexuality in fiction. “Loveless” by Alice Oseman This young adult novel follows a protagonist who discovers they are asexual and aromantic. It provides a heartfelt exploration of these identities and their impact on relationships and self-understanding. Supportive Organizations Asexual Agenda Website: Asexual Agenda Asexual Agenda is a blog dedicated to discussing and promoting asexuality. It features articles, personal stories, and resources to support the asexual community. Asexuality Archive Website: Asexuality Archive This archive is a collection of essays, research, and personal narratives related to asexuality. It serves as a valuable resource for learning about the asexual experience and contributing to the academic discourse on the topic. The Aro-Ace Coalition Website: The Aro-Ace Coalition This organization focuses on advocating for the rights and visibility of aromantic and asexual individuals. It offers resources, support, and advocacy opportunities. These resources provide a wealth of information, support, and community for asexual and aromantic individuals. Whether you’re seeking to connect with others, find educational materials, or explore literature that reflects your experiences, these organizations and resources are valuable tools in fostering understanding and support. Remember, finding the right resources can make a significant difference in navigating your journey and connecting with others who share similar experiences. Conclusion Asexuality and the romantic-sexual spectrum are vital aspects of human diversity that challenge traditional notions of attraction and relationships. By exploring these identities, highlighting historical and contemporary figures, and addressing common misconceptions, we can contribute to a more inclusive understanding of human sexuality. Whether you identify as asexual, aromantic, or allosexual, recognizing and respecting the full range of human experiences is essential for building a compassionate and inclusive world. AI Disclaimer: This post was reformatted using Copilot AI for cleanliness and organization. - Starlight

I completely understand your decision and how meaningful wrestling has been for you. I went through a similar experience over a decade ago when I stopped following wrestling because I was frustrated with the product in 2010s. It wasn’t until several years ago that I started to follow it again. There are times when I feel disconnected from the current product, but then something random pulls me back in. Maybe one day I will move on too, I don't know. Wrestling has a unique way of drawing people back. Moving on from something you’ve invested so much in is never easy, but I’m confident that whatever you pursue next will be just as fulfilling. Whether you decide to leave it behind entirely or just explore new interests, I wish you all the best in your new journey

Yes, that’s what I meant- an Equestria girls version, sorry. If you could do both, that would be great. Either together or if it’s easier to do separate, that’s great too! I’m just happy and appreciate that you can do this request my friend :3

Mmm I’m wouldn’t mind seeing your interpretation! (Like however you want). I’m fine with any pose, smiling, maybe a space background with stars as that’s part of their backstory. Now there’s a part of me that wants to see an anime version of my OC as both a human and pony.

Okay, thank you! If there is anything you want me to clarify, please let me know!

Wow, I just came across this thread! I was wondering if you're still accepting requests. I'd love to see my OC, Starlight Serenade, in your art style, similar to Stary. I think they would look amazing! If not, that's okay too! Here’s a reference image:

Congrats, @Batbrony! I don’t think I’ve ever spotted you around here before, but it all makes sense now. Every time someone says, “Look, it’s Batbrony,” I turn around and—you’ve already vanished!

What a pleasant surprise this was! Posey is one of my favorite ponies from G5, so I really enjoyed this fun little episode. Posey's presence in the series is a reminder that every pony, no matter how different or shy, has a role to play and something valuable to contribute. Posey’s character resonates with those who may see a bit of themselves in her—those who might be cautious or introverted but are still capable of great things when it counts. Misty was absolutely adorable throughout as well! It was such a nice treat to watch after a long day.

Introduction In today's diverse world, understanding and respecting pronouns is a vital aspect of fostering inclusivity and empathy. Pronouns are not just grammatical tools; they reflect our identities and how we wish to be recognized by others. In this post, we'll explore what pronouns are, why they matter, how to use them respectfully, and address common questions and misconceptions. What Are Pronouns? Pronouns are words used to refer to people without using their names. Common pronouns include: He/Him/His: Typically used for someone who identifies as male. She/Her/Hers: Typically used for someone who identifies as female. They/Them/Theirs: Used for someone who identifies as nonbinary, genderqueer, or prefers not to be categorized by traditional gender pronouns. Additionally, some people use less common pronouns such as ze/zir/zirs or ey/em/eirs. It's important to use the pronouns a person prefers, as it validates their identity. Why Pronouns Matter Respect and Validation: Using someone's correct pronouns is a fundamental way of showing respect for their identity. Misgendering, or using incorrect pronouns, can be hurtful and invalidating. Inclusion: Pronouns help create inclusive environments where everyone feels seen and valued. This is especially important in diverse spaces, including workplaces, schools, and social settings. Communication: Understanding and using correct pronouns fosters clear and respectful communication. It helps avoid misunderstandings and supports a more compassionate dialogue. Affirmation: For many, being called by their correct pronouns can significantly affect their self-esteem and mental health, affirming their sense of self and belonging. How to Use Pronouns Correctly Ask and Use: When you meet someone, it's polite to ask for their pronouns if you’re unsure. You might say, “Hi, I’m [Your Name] and my pronouns are [Your Pronouns]. May I ask for yours?” Once you know their pronouns, use them consistently. Share Your Pronouns: By sharing your pronouns in introductions, email signatures, and social media profiles, you normalize the practice and make it easier for others to do the same. Correct Yourself and Others: If you accidentally use the wrong pronoun, a simple apology and correction can go a long way. Similarly, if you hear someone using incorrect pronouns for another person, gently correcting them can help maintain respect and inclusivity. Educate Yourself: Understanding pronouns and gender diversity can be a learning process. Seek out resources, engage in conversations, and educate yourself about different gender identities and pronouns. Common Questions and Misconceptions What if I make a mistake when using someone’s pronouns? Answer: It’s okay to make mistakes as long as you’re genuinely trying. Apologize, correct yourself, and continue using the correct pronouns. The key is to learn and do better next time. Why do some people use ‘they/them’ as a singular pronoun? Answer: ‘They/them’ is used as a singular pronoun to refer to someone who identifies as nonbinary or doesn’t want to be categorized by traditional gender pronouns. Singular ‘they’ has been used in English for centuries and is grammatically correct. Can pronouns change over time? Answer: Yes, a person’s pronouns can change as they explore and understand their gender identity. It’s important to respect and adapt to their current pronouns. Why do some people use multiple sets of pronouns (e.g., they/she or he/they)? Answer: Some individuals are comfortable with more than one set of pronouns, which can reflect different aspects of their identity or a fluid experience of gender. Use the pronouns they’ve indicated and ask if they have a preference in certain contexts. Are pronouns only for transgender or nonbinary people? Answer: No, everyone has pronouns. While discussions about pronouns often arise in the context of transgender and nonbinary individuals, respecting pronouns is important for all people, regardless of gender identity. Is it important to use non-standard pronouns like ze/zir or neo-pronouns? Answer: Yes, using someone’s preferred pronouns, whether standard or non-standard, demonstrates respect for their identity and individuality. It might take some practice, but it’s important to use the pronouns someone asks for. What if I don’t understand why someone uses certain pronouns? Answer: It’s okay not to fully understand someone’s choice of pronouns. What’s important is to respect and use them. Educating yourself about gender identity and expression can help you understand diverse experiences better. Can I just use someone’s name instead of pronouns? Answer: While using someone’s name is better than using incorrect pronouns, it’s still important to use their preferred pronouns when possible. Pronouns are part of a person’s identity, and avoiding them can feel dismissive. What should I do if someone doesn’t want to share their pronouns? Answer: If someone chooses not to share their pronouns, respect their decision. They may be exploring their identity or may not feel comfortable disclosing it. In such cases, use their name or neutral language until they indicate their preference. Is it okay to correct someone else’s pronouns? Answer: Yes, if you hear someone being misgendered, politely correcting the person can help create a more inclusive environment. However, be mindful of the context and ensure that your correction doesn’t draw undue attention or make anyone uncomfortable. Conclusion Respecting pronouns is a simple yet powerful way to affirm people's identities and foster an inclusive community. By making a conscious effort to use the correct pronouns, you contribute to a culture of respect and understanding. Remember, everyone deserves to be seen and valued for who they are, and using the right pronouns is an important step in achieving that. Embracing this practice not only enriches our interactions but also helps build a more compassionate and equitable world for all. AI Disclaimer: This post was reformatted using Copilot AI for cleanliness and organization. - Starlight

Me: (watching a lecture on segmentation and perceptual mapping.)

Club Name: Spanish Club About Us Welcome to the Spanish Club! Our club is a vibrant community where we celebrate and explore the Spanish language and the rich diversity of Spanish-speaking cultures. Whether you're just starting out or you're already fluent, we welcome speakers of all levels to join us in conversations, cultural activities, and social events. Our mission is to foster a love for the language and its cultures while creating connections between different communities through mutual understanding and friendship. Club Rules Mutual Respect: All members must treat each other with respect and courtesy, regardless of their Spanish language skills or cultural differences. Active Participation: All members are encouraged to actively participate in the club's activities and discussions. Practice is key to improving language skills. Cultural Diversity: We respect and celebrate the diversity of Spanish-speaking cultures. Every member’s opinions and experiences are valuable. Use of Spanish: Members are encouraged to use Spanish to improve their language skills. However, English or other languages can be used to facilitate understanding when necessary. Main Image: Cover Image:

That’s actually what I was going to mention. We can try to look at Spanish MLP media among other things. I will look into it later today as I have to go run some errands.

I love all of these XD Your humor always makes me smile