RainbowMau 291 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 I say at 20! Cause when I was 23 people said to me that I should hurry and I scared them, when I was in University the teacher asked in class how their first kisses were and I was the only one who answered I have never had it plus I saw videos on Youtube with people looking at someone who is 23 khaving his first kiss and they say: "Eeew, what a loser!!!" Sadly I'm now 28 and I'm super-loser, I'm pretty conscious that first kisses are not special and innocent at this age anymore, in fact looks like they shouldn't even happen at this age So, what's your opinion on this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(MARVEL) Blue Blood 991 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 I wouldn't say 20. I'd say at least 25 or 30. Then again, who cares what age you have your first kiss anyway? I'm 16, and I have yet to kiss my first girl... if I can find a girl... which I highly doubt would happen anyway... Second in Command of the Marvel Alliance!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archi the Atmomancer 564 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 Um, I'd say never. Because devaluing someone on the basis that they've never kissed someone is abhorrent and shallow. 22 "Humanity is the end; knowledge is the means; I will not rest until there are no more secrets to be discovered; I will not rest until there are no more ways to improve; I will not rest until there are no more problems to be solved; I will wield no weapon but my wits and intellect; With these weapons I will battle ignorance until the light of knowledge shines bright; When the light of knowledge shines upon us all, then I shall rest, and not before." - Atmomancer Creed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spirit Sparkle 71 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 Honestly, I don't think it matters. Some people have their first kiss at 13,some at 30. I say just live your life, be happy, and don't mind what other people think. If people are seriously calling people losers for not kissing at a certain age, THEY are the ones that need to rethink how they treat people. Don't worry! Just keep your head up, and I promise when you find someone to share a first kiss with, it will be amazing, no matter what age! 12 Image by: Spirit Rush Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celli 4,338 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 Honestly, I don't think it matters. Some people have their first kiss at 13,some at 30. I say just live your life, be happy, and don't mind what other people think. If people are seriously calling people losers for not kissing at a certain age, THEY are the ones that need to rethink how they treat people. Don't worry! Just keep your head up, and I promise when you find someone to share a first kiss with, it will be amazing, no matter what age! This. Take your time, don't let anyone tell you when you should get your first kiss. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkamena-Pills 6,839 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 The better question is "What age should you stop calling yourself a loser?",and the answer to that my friend is: All ages. 15 Oatmeal, are you crazy?! "Silly, you are already under my control."- Pinkie Pie Signature made by me, because resistance truly is futile, silly. Currently still undergoing maintenance. Yes, i can do that, im a program, silly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
User07832407840 177 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 There's no reasonable logic behind the idea that not having kissed anyone makes you a loser. I think that's just an idea that comes from society and what you learn growing up, but if you just stop and think about it for a bit you'll realize it makes no sense. At least, I see no logical connection between being a loser and not having kissed anyone. I haven't had a first kiss or a girlfriend, and I don't consider myself a loser. I'm 18. And I know plenty of other people my age and older (such as my cousin, and she's 24) who haven't either, and they're definitely not losers. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrator Sir Hugsalot 9,348 July 19, 2014 Administrator Share July 19, 2014 Well, 2 days ago I had 22 anniversary of being forever alone so as a veteran I tell You - don't bother Yourself with it - You will have a kiss when time comes and You will for sure enjoy it, I will tell You this much xD As one person I cannot change the world, but I can change the world of one person. Art, profile picture and signature by one and only Silky <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live Forever 316 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 That's practically calling asexual people losers. 5 Rarity is the best thing in my life. Where would I be without her? Nowhere I'd like to be, that's for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeric 46,851 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 Social conventions should not determine happiness, nor define your ideal self. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gernia 691 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 I don't think there's a specific age. I just think people out there like to act stupid and mean... and stupid. 2 Signature by Kyoshi Hymenoptera is the most superior order of insects. | I'm the best Street Fighter player ever... in my hometown. Rosalina's #1 fanboy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlbaTross 1,586 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 I'm 26, and haven't had my first kiss. I'm not sure if I would classify myself as asexual, but I figure I'll meet someone when the time is right, and won't bother rushing it. I figure I'll run into Ms. Right one day, and not because I went way out of my way to find her. I have plenty occupying my time and thoughts as it is, and strongly disagree with the notion that I must hook up with someone to find happiness. Besides, since I don't have a sweetheart, I have the time and money to spend on things like videogames and MLP merchandise. Being single isn't all bad, and TBH, I don't feel I need a significant other to "complete me", or any such nonsense. I have plenty of friends, so it's not like I don't meet people. I just don't bend to the norms of hooking up with someone just to make others happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkyDream 315 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 The better question is "What age should you stop calling yourself a loser?",and the answer to that my friend is: All ages.I felt fairly confident that with this post, I can implement the "[/thread]" tag. You'd be hard-pressed to find a more concise and useful post than this one. Thank you for this! My first kiss was with transgendered male-to-female. I gave not a damn. My second kiss was with a lesbian in an open domestic partnership with another male-to-female transgender. Not a damn. Who isn't a human being that a kiss would or wouldn't count? If you've found a wonderful person to spend time with, that can happen at any age, and with anyone. Your feelings are what matters. Feelings, and respect. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sigma 768 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 (edited) What age are you a loser if you haven't kissed anyone? (Implying that never kissing someone means that everything you've ever accomplished in life is meaningless.) Honestly, I find this to be very shallow. Edited July 19, 2014 by Asterisk Propernoun Deductive Reasoning Inductive Reasoning Abductive Reasoning Logical Fallacies & Cognitive Biases Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Invincible 2,091 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 Um, none? I only started seeing girls when i turned 17... My OCs for Roleplay purposes: o Lit Fuse (http://mlpforums.com/page/roleplay-characters/_/lit-fuse-r6608) o Dust Devil (http://mlpforums.com/page/roleplay-characters/_/dust-devil-r7357) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bailey2 114 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 There's no real age, being a "loser" is different to everyone, One person might think someone is a loser because they are unpleasant, Another person might think someone is a loser because they don't support the same sports team. When People ask questions like this I like to mention my idol, Nick Drake, Part of his success was due to him being lonely, shy and a "hopeless romantic" type, Yet he's still one of the most talented and respected folk musicians of all time. You just have to tell yourself "yes, I've never kissed someone, but that doesn't mean I can't be awesome", Don't let something so small define you, be yourself! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cosmonaut 76 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 Um, I'd say never. Because devaluing someone on the basis that they've never kissed someone is abhorrent and shallow. I agree. You don't have to be forced to have your first kiss quickly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genepool 224 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 I'm 30, going on 31 this coming week, and I've never kissed woman/girl before. There was one girl I liked, however, I didn't want to take any chances because I believe she had a boyfriend. I view kissing/relationships with a SO like an advertisement on billboard on the side of the road. It catches your eye, but that's about it. To me, there's no reason to be in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duidamasterXD 9,627 July 19, 2014 Share July 19, 2014 Since this thread is going in circles at this point, I'm just going to close this up and reiterate that a person's worth should not be determined by their romantic experience or lack thereof, and I'd discourage anyone from thinking otherwise. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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