Miss 6,223 January 2, 2021 Share January 2, 2021 Last time I chatted here I said I was aromantic and you know maybe I'm not? Like I started to explore myself more and I do want to date because I want to be emotionally bonded with someone or more than one person (poly if anything). Of course you don't need to be romantically involved in order to do that but I desire the romance portion/aesthetic of it now/again. There's alot of nuance with it that I won't go into but yea. Of course, maybe if I ever end up getting in a romantic relationship and it doesn't feel right then I'll just be like "guess I was aromantic." And that's fine. Not being around people is really making all this stuff fuzzy. Attempts on tinder and other websites didn't go anywhere so maybe I'll have more luck now considering that I moved? Kind of doubt it but not against trying. Still much more occupied with other things going on right now so maybe in a month or 2. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 February 21, 2021 Share February 21, 2021 Those moments when you can’t tell if she’s being friendly or if she’s into you/goes that way. 1 *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,276 February 22, 2021 Share February 22, 2021 I'm still a homoromantic pansexual who identifies as non-binary and isn't picky about pronouns (he/him or they/them don't care an awful lot, though they/them is more accurate). Still have moments I wish I wasn't in a closed relationship because I don't exclusively go that way and some girls/in-betweens are attractive, but that should stay here and not leave. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magic Note 2,748 March 11, 2021 Share March 11, 2021 I've also been questioning my sexuality a lot lately because it's confusing as hell. It's too difficult to tell if I'm grey-ace or not, or if I'm truly panromantic. It feels like it changes so much and I don't really understand it. 3 (coming soon) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluttershyfan94 5,742 March 31, 2021 Share March 31, 2021 I like keeping things simple, pansexual genderfluid androgynous person in other words I have ascended to another realm. That said I don't believe in these self labelling things, I like people I like and I like being who I like being uwu that's it. 2 DA: http://fluttershyfan94.deviantart.com/ Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/user/Fluttershyfan94 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stardust 641 April 12, 2021 Share April 12, 2021 Not sexuality but kinda fits here so yea Seeing all those 100 gender things confused me back then and the gender is personality thing doesn't make a lot of sense. Like the way I express myself do I really need a gender label for it xP If I feel both feminine and masculine or feel different like so what? Like trying to escape gender roles and that, just recreate them as even more boxes surely. I want people to value me for who I am not some socially constructed thing and to again divide myself against others even more. Just because you reject certain gender roles or stereotypes shouldn't change who you are. In fact it's kinda sad things like being a woman are associated with make up and harmful footwear and such. There are also equivalents for men but more subtle. I just wanna escape all these harmful social dynamics and live as freely as possible while maintaining some sense of harmony with others. Creating something like that doesn't help me or anyone, but neither do I want people to force stereotypes on me. And we are all still individuals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magic Note 2,748 June 2, 2021 Share June 2, 2021 Happy Pride month everyone! 2 (coming soon) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 June 7, 2021 Share June 7, 2021 Yes Happy Pride month everyone! 3 *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,276 June 13, 2021 Share June 13, 2021 (edited) Well it's pride month now (Late happy pride month I guess) and this thread hasn't been posted in, in 6 days so I guess I'll reiterate my whole situation. I'm a pan enby (non-binary, literally NB if it were made a word) only romantically interested in men (term for it is androromantic, forgot to edit this post after I re-remembered the term for it). I think that's been the same for a while, but like reiterating it Edited July 6, 2021 by Somebody that Exists 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 June 13, 2021 Share June 13, 2021 Yeah I’d been trying to think of things to bring up to help get the thread more active, especially with it being pride month. Unfortunately I don’t have much new to share since my whole date life has still been a train wreck that’s not getting anywhere lol. Finally found a decent size Pansexual flag to hang up on my wall. I don’t exactly have the wall space for something huge lol. After I get paid this coming week I plan to try and buy some Pride stuff off of Etsy so I’ll have that to share once I do that. *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magic Note 2,748 June 14, 2021 Share June 14, 2021 I have no interest in dating right now because I know it's going to fail due to having very little social skills. (coming soon) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 June 14, 2021 Share June 14, 2021 Yeah that’s why I kind of gave up again. *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,276 June 15, 2021 Share June 15, 2021 Enby Pride Furret headpatting 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 June 15, 2021 Share June 15, 2021 47 minutes ago, Somebody that Exists said: Enby Pride Furret headpatting Omg that is so cute Pan pride ~ 1 *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,276 June 16, 2021 Share June 16, 2021 Twitter being based: 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,276 June 18, 2021 Share June 18, 2021 (edited) Relevant mini-rant: I know I mentioned this in another thread, but I was legitimately called a heterophobe in a LGBT+ oriented Discord for saying the problem of heterophobia isn't somehow even nearly as prevalent as homo/trans/enby phobia. And the mods protected the guy that seems to think the LGBT+ community is full of anti-straight bigots... Like what? I literally don't see any precedent to say it's going to become prevalent. Which every single argument I've seen for is literally a false equivalence. Like seriously why is an LGBT+ discord of all places protecting a poorly veiled LGBT-phobic person? I don't understand this. Edited June 18, 2021 by Somebody that Exists 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 June 19, 2021 Share June 19, 2021 On 2021-06-18 at 5:21 PM, Somebody that Exists said: Relevant mini-rant: I know I mentioned this in another thread, but I was legitimately called a heterophobe in a LGBT+ oriented Discord for saying the problem of heterophobia isn't somehow even nearly as prevalent as homo/trans/enby phobia. And the mods protected the guy that seems to think the LGBT+ community is full of anti-straight bigots... Like what? I literally don't see any precedent to say it's going to become prevalent. Which every single argument I've seen for is literally a false equivalence. Like seriously why is an LGBT+ discord of all places protecting a poorly veiled LGBT-phobic person? I don't understand this. I....have no words and tbh sadly I’m not surprised. 1 *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Kaeya Simp 13,988 June 20, 2021 Share June 20, 2021 Well I settled that I'm ambiamorous (I feel a little more comfortable in a couple, I also do like being in a poly relationship), I'm also demi-romantic (last year I thought I was completely aromantic, but i eventually was able to figure out that I just only get romantic feeling with people I've already gained an intimate relationship, and stuff like that) still Bi-sexual, and still trans (male to female) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpittyPie2005 3,952 June 21, 2021 Share June 21, 2021 rawr, im genderfluid now :p 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Altastrofae 933 June 22, 2021 Author Share June 22, 2021 Oh my god people are still using this? After all these years? Goodness I started this when I was a humble bisexual man Now I'm a bisexual trans girl And in the years it took to realize that people continue to use this chatroom That is just amazing and inspiring. I'm glad I made something good for this community 1 We are not human beings having a spiritual experience We are spiritual beings having a human experience | signature by @Kyoshi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 12,189 June 22, 2021 Share June 22, 2021 9 hours ago, Altastrofae said: Oh my god people are still using this? After all these years? Goodness I started this when I was a humble bisexual man Now I'm a bisexual trans girl And in the years it took to realize that people continue to use this chatroom That is just amazing and inspiring. I'm glad I made something good for this community Thank you for creating a space for all of us! 3 *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magic Note 2,748 June 26, 2021 Share June 26, 2021 Thank you for making it all possible @Altastrofae! 1 (coming soon) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
honk friend 1,978 July 22, 2021 Share July 22, 2021 recently discovered something p interesting about myself i think i'm actually probably genderfluid, and i'm going by he/they pronouns atm also going by the name riley from here on out 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,276 July 24, 2021 Share July 24, 2021 (edited) On 2021-06-12 at 10:23 PM, Mx Ash said: Well it's pride month now (Late happy pride month I guess) and this thread hasn't been posted in, in 6 days so I guess I'll reiterate my whole situation. I'm a pan enby (non-binary, literally NB if it were made a word) only romantically interested in men (term for it is androromantic, forgot to edit this post after I re-remembered the term for it). I think that's been the same for a while, but like reiterating it I think I've elaborated on this more in other places but I now, more specifically, identify as a demigirl (basically partially but not entirely as a woman) in terms of genders and go by they/she pronouns at the moment. I think I may still be trans fem (I identified as such in the past) and just am trying to help myself out by not going all the way, but I'm not sure. Edited July 24, 2021 by Mx Ash 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magpie 623 August 13, 2021 Share August 13, 2021 I took my first doses of Estrogen/Spiro today! Happy to have finally taken this step in my transition. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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