The Moment of your Life that Sucked the Most.

[Clockwork Chaos 219]

Hey there everypony :3

 

lately I've just been wondering; out of all of your lives, what's the one, main moment you can look back on now and think "yep. that one fuckin' sucked."

 

That is to say, this isn't a post for the truly tragic events of your life, cos they wouldn't be described as 'sucking', this is more something that didn't really change your life much, but... y'know, just sucked.

 

mine would have to be back in college when i really liked this girl, and i heard her boyfriend talking shit about her behind her back, so i went out of my way to tell her about it, and she was like "sorry buddy, i can't be friends with you if you're going to lie to my face like that."

 

aaand i didn't hear from her for roughly a year after that. i remember at the time all i could think was "well....

...

...

...shit."

 

So that sucked.

 

what about yours?

[Moonlight 7,286]

A few years ago, I invited one of my friends over for a sleepover. Everything was going fine until she left after the weekend ended. My other friend mentioned that my friend that was staying with me used her Facebook profile when I was out of the room to text my friend who wasn't staying and told her that "I hated her, I never want to see her again, you're useless" and so on to the point where my friend wanted to kill herself and it's kind of like...yeah...that sucked, let's never do that again, so yeah I don't really talk to that one friend anymore. 

[Shanks 10,816]

This is kind of hard because most of the "this sucks" moments in my life are the really depressing ones. There are some that are less depressing but a bit too NSFW for this place you know with them being classic examples of why you shouldn't let hormones do the thinking for you. There are my knee injuries but they had a very profound effect on my life and have added quite a bit of stress to my life. I suppose the closest thing I can think of is this one time I lost my temper back in high school and said something to a class mate that is way too graphic to repeat, I was doing some assignment that was extremely boring and muttered the occasional cuss word and this kid next to me took issue with that. I said that I don't want any problems but that he is not my mother and has no right to tell me what to do. I eventually got tired of him as things escalated and said the most hurtful thing I could think of just to get him to shut up, it worked a bit too well as I left him literally in tears. They tried to make me apologize but I refused because apologizing for things I am not even sorry for goes against my code of honor because I feel that it cheapens apologies into a de facto get out of jail free card (I still feel this way). The consequences were I "failed" the class and had to repeat it, I eventually regretted what I said not because I got in trouble for it but because of how cruel and unnecessary what I said really was. Back then I resented the fact that there were so many rules and social norms that I was forced to follows I didn't understand and I felt were unfair and I took it out on him which was wrong.

[Commissar Alexer 763]

The day i was deemed useless for the military.

[Rift enchanted 380]

Hmmmm when I had a crush on this girl at summer camp and my friends blankly humiliated me in front of her. She never talked to me again.

[Guest90210 3,568]

Edit: I apologize, I failed to read your entire post.

 

Revised post below,

 

 

Hmm. Hard to pick the worst, so I'll just pick a couple random ones.

 

- My dog jumped at my foot while I was kicking a football barefoot indoors (Darwin award winner, I know) when I was 6 years old. Nearly ripped my toe clean off. Had to get stitches and go to school with two different sized shoes for a while.

 

- Not my moment, but my brother managed to lose $300 because he walked around with the money in his pants at all times and when he pulled his pants out of the washer the money was nowhere to be found.

 

- I broke my wrist diving for a football in 7th grade. Then I thought it would be a brilliant idea to continue playing Call of Duty with my hand in a brace which only aggravated the injury.

 

- Speaking of Call of Duty, In Modern Warfare 3, I died one away from MOAB from a Javelin. Needless to say I wanted to pitch the game out of the window. Not "one of the worst" I know, but a random moment that just really, really sucked.

Edited March 24, 2014 by Rivendare

[Megas 27,626]

Elementary School, especially 4th grade.

 

Fuck 4th grade

[BastementSparkle 20,326]

In elementary school, when my best friend tripped over my backpack, and got stabbed in the leg with a pencil that fell out. It was open at the time because I had just gotten a book out of it and forgot to close it. I had some rather bad anger issues back then, and everyone was completely convinced that I stabbed him myself. I was called names, interrogated by some of the counselors, and one kid even tried to attack me. This went on for months. My friend was pretty angry, but at least he knew it was an accident, and that I didn't attack him. 

 

It wasn't the worst moment of my life, but it was the moment in which I really realized how low other peoples opinions of me were. According to people in every school I've been to, I give off a "serial killer" vibe. I don't know why, because I hate hurting people but they never listened.

[_Kurtis 636]

In elementary school, my friend scared me in class and I shrieked really loud, and I mean really loud.

The whole class went dead silent while my teacher gave me the meanest look possible.

That was the most embarrassing moment in my life!

But I shouldn't dwell on the past too much, nothing like that ever happened to me again so far~  

Edited March 25, 2014 by Normal Norman

[Evil Nightmares 552]

I got half kicked by a donkey. Half because i wasn't right behind it, but i was close enough to get hit. It still really hurt.

Edited March 24, 2014 by Evil Nightmares

[Treble Bolt 1,122]

....My worst moments are too much to really post details in a regular thread but I'll say something...

 

-The day I realized my parents didn't love or want me....I was 5 years old when I came to that realization. My birth mom told me that I was a failed abortion and that's why I am treated the way I was compared to my sister. (I was heavily abused, molested, and neglected)

 

-The night I was raped in 2009. Got out of it with the feeling that I will never be able to forge a new life because I was in the middle of making a new life for myself, away from abuse and finding a place where I felt wanted.

[Evil Nightmares 552]

....My worst moments are too much to really post details in a regular thread but I'll say something...

 

-The day I realized my parents didn't love or want me....I was 5 years old when I came to that realization. My birth mom told me that I was a failed abortion and that's why I am treated the way I was compared to my sister. (I was heavily abused, molested, and neglected)

 

-The night I was raped in 2009. Got out of it with the feeling that I will never be able to forge a new life because I was in the middle of making a new life for myself, away from abuse and finding a place where I felt wanted.

Damn Treble Bolt, Life's been rough for you, hasn't it? It probably doesn't mean much, but you have my respect. The fact that you went through hell and you're still standing, is astonishing. It's people like you that i have the most respect for. People who always get back up, no matter how hard they get knocked down.

[Adachi 772]

For me, it would be when I led a guild on a game called Myth War Online. It was a successful guild, and there was this one girl who liked me, to the point of leaving a guild that she had a lot of friends in to join mine. Our relationship was great at first, but I ended up not really being interested in putting that much into the relationship. I loved her, but I was new to relationships so I wasn't sure what to do.

 

Shortly after, I accept a couple players to my guild, who were from one of the most successful guilds on the server, and I knew they had a long history of leading and being officers in guilds, so I mistakenly jumped the gun and made them officers, since I was so sure they had all the qualifications. Their son joined the guild as well, and one day I log on to find out that their son was furious with my gf because she used the word rape in a joke. I made a decision, and let's just say it wasn't the correct one. I took his side and gave him permission to pk her once. Despite that, his parents still weren't happy, and blamed her for everything that went wrong under the sun. She left the guild and told me she loves me but she can't be in a guild where nobody wants her. Eventually, I managed to get her to rejoin, but from then on she was never truly happy in my guild. One day there was another incident, and I took her side this time. One of them says "that's right! protect your bitch!". I kicked the whole family out of my guild at that point, even though their son never gave any more problems after I allowed him to pk my gf before and he was normally pretty chill after that, and he even wanted to stay, despite his parents leaving.

 

My gf ended up blaming everything on herself, calling herself selfish, and she still didn't give up on me, despite me caring about the guild more than her, until some months later where she ended up dumping me.

 

It took me months, maybe a year or two to finally realize just how wrong I was. I ruined my guild's reputation, my ex gf's reputation, and my own reputation, and I believe I was the cause of multiple people quitting the game =/

....My worst moments are too much to really post details in a regular thread but I'll say something...

 

-The day I realized my parents didn't love or want me....I was 5 years old when I came to that realization. My birth mom told me that I was a failed abortion and that's why I am treated the way I was compared to my sister. (I was heavily abused, molested, and neglected)

 

-The night I was raped in 2009. Got out of it with the feeling that I will never be able to forge a new life because I was in the middle of making a new life for myself, away from abuse and finding a place where I felt wanted.

Sounds pretty rough. You get mad props from me for enduring through all that. Hopefully your life is now on the right track.

Edited March 24, 2014 by Ryudo

[Treble Bolt 1,122]

@, @@Evil Nightmares, and anyone else who feels the same.

 

At age 5-18, being unwanted is all I knew, and believe me,  there was no picking myself up from that. I accepted it as fact and still struggle with it to this day. As far as my current life is now, I would never have been able to pick myself up. I was defeated and broken and just went through the rest of college that year in a depressed daze, not seeing a future, but seeing nowhere to go at the time because I was legally homeless. I had no friends or family and it was really a difficult time. School work was the only thing keeping me in reality. But then in spring of 2010, I met the man who would become my best friend and husband. His compassion and caring is what picked me up. I owe him my life, because he has given me a purpose and a place to belong. He picked me up, I could have never done it on my own. I still struggle with the scars and still raw wounds inside, and some days I cannot function at all, but at the end of the day, when my head clears up enough to remind me of how much I love my husband, I am able to pull myself together because with all that I know now, I feel like I have to be there to be beside him, to protect him, to make sure he never has to suffer alone with all that life will throw at us. He picked me up.

[Ryzu 984]

Would have to say middle school. I just moved into a new neighborhood and on one of the first days of school some kid starts rumors about me, making me the laughingstock of the school for 3 years in a row. Had many suicidal thoughts and almost failed 8th grade. My parents would send me to tons of therapists and other things but nothing they did ever helped. I'm in high school now and its only just started to get a little better, although still sucks to be so lonely all the time.

Edited March 24, 2014 by Ryzu

[Winterbass 763]

The day I started doing some heavy drugs, even though it felt awesome during the highs, it went all downhill from there. I'm completely sober now, but I wasn't for a few years.

 

It doesn't matter now anyway, what's most important is that I am alive, well, happy and surrounded by friends.

[Neon Fire 473]

There were a few things, but to name one, I guess it's when everyone left my forum because they thought I was a jerk.  The reason why, is because they wouldn't obey the rules and got mad when I had to keep telling them.

 

EDIT: oh yeah, forgot the main part.  They go and tell all their friends I'm some jerk and now there's people who don't even wanna get to know me because they just think I'm a jerk.

Edited March 24, 2014 by Neon Fire

[FatalRain 108]

Sadly, there's a lot of times in my life that have sucked, but the one I'm about to mention takes the cake:

 

When I was 18, my mother got very ill and had to live in a hospital. I was stuck in our apartment all alone, with no way to pay the bills or rent. The landlord was constantly down my back and eventually evicted me. My uncle who lived in another state, offered to let me live there, so I ended up moving there. My boyfriend at the time got mad at me because he wanted me to go live with him, though it wasn't a practical plan.

 

So while I lived with my uncle, I had no internet because they only had dial up. I tried to do everything I could to make my aunt and uncle happy, but all they did was try to control me by telling me what to eat, what to wear, how to act, etc. And they consistently tried to make me feel bad about myself...Then I made friends with this girl down there who was basically the same way. Not to mention my boyfriend at the time was never there for me and my mom didn't believe me about the way I was being treated

 

That's just the short version...>A<

[Lightning Bliss 1,674]

Ok a day that sucked, that wasn't supposed to suck.

 

It was my first time going on vacation along with my step dad. My mother, two brothers and younger sister were there, and we went to the beach! The day before on this vacation i had already gotten a slight case of sunburn, but I ignored it as if it were nothing. We spent the next day at the beach again, and like an arrogant teenager I was, I did NOT apply sunscreen. By the time we got back to our motel, escaping the sun, I realized I was in trouble.

 

I was in sheer pain being covered in sunburn from face to feet, front and back...So I abruptly went to lie down and hope that would help with the pain, but it only got worse...Even when the air from the fans touched my skin, it sent waves of pain...So after 10mins of trying to tolerate it, I decided to go get some pain medicine. I took 5 agaonizing steps, what felt like walking on glass, to the counter to grab some medicine. Then, just when I felt I couldn't take the pain anymore...I felt the dizziness in the back of my mind...then nothing.

 

Next thing I know, my youngest brother is shaking me to wake up. He says I had passed out, went into shock and seizures. I was restrained to the motel room for the next 2 days of vaction due to I have suffered from a slight case of Sun Stroke... So ya it sucked.

[~Chaos~ 3,967]

Probably middle school/high school.

 

Didn't like school a whole lot, just had a bad time mostly.

[White Lie 67]

Probably going to jail for something I didn't do, or know even happened. Cops just showed up at my work one day and took me in.

Needless to say all charges were dropped but I was still in for a day. Scared the shit out of me.

[The Elusive Cinder 1,328]

Huh, well...
 
My cousin killed himself. Took a rocket (firework kind, not military kind) to the face and lost an eye - among other parts - in a freak accident at work (He was organizing a fireworks display for the garden center he worked at, one had a dud fuse). Lost his confidence, his work, his partner and his friends due to a manic depression that he hid from everyone - he just locked himself away eventually.
 
Then he was found dead on the landing of his house - died in the middle of the night, somewhere between the bedroom and bathroom. Autopsy revealed huge levels of cocaine in his system - easily three or four times the amount needed to kill someone.
 
Sucked more for him than for me, but y'know - not a nice thing. It's cliché but I legitimately mean it when I say that this guy was the nicest, most hard working guy I ever knew. That kind of sucked.
 
Or I could go into my own: plenty of 'realization' moments that sucked. That my father was a violent alcoholic and that I grew up away from him because he attacked me before I was one, it sucked to learn that. Or that my bloodline on my mothers side was discovered to be defective so - while I ended up damn awesome - any kids I have are highly likely to be severely mentally handicapped like my two brothers, meaning I'm probably the last of me heritage - thats still a pretty sore point. Or how much I can feel the anger issues and the urge for violence that my father exhibits when I get frustrated at people for stupid, trivial things - and deep down I know that I'll never quite get rid of that part of me.
 

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Seriously, I'm telling all of this because thats what was asked. I'm not looking for sympathy - I'm just wanting to make a point. 

 

At the end of the day - I'm a damn fine example of humanity (modest too!) and I cant complain with what I've gotten out of life. Life is good, but you have to be willing to make it so. If you see nothing but pain, then thats all that it will ever be. Call yourself depressed and you will be. Misery is all around us - its up to you to face it with dignity and find the light.

[InspiredBrony 31]

Actually, right now. An idiot friend of mine yelled out, "Oh my god your a brony!" right next to my mom AFTER I already told him that mom was anti-brony. So obviously she heard him. She dragged me into another room and told my she had had enough and was getting rid of everything brony related AND she was going to throw out the TV. I have no idea when she'll do it, and more than likely this will be one of my last posts. She just walked in, bye!

[Scootalove 10,689]

My three years of middle school was probably the moment of my life that really sucked, and I found no enjoyment in them at all.

[Lost 1,410]

Most of my moments in life that have really sucked have deeply effected me, but the ones I can think of that have effected me the least are the deaths of my great grandparents and one of my grandmothers, not the deaths themselves but in each case, they were so sudden that I never got to say goodbye properly