I only phrased it that way cause over here countries are only the size of a stave/province over there and it's easier to travel a long distance and still be in The US/Canada.
@Dusky, the Boy Queen
It's just my mother and she doesn't, but I haven't cared for the nearly 20 years we've been married. She understands that anyone handing me a choice between them and someone else isn't giving me a tough choice. Those who truly love you won't ask you to choose.
How well does your partner get along with your family?