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WOOOOOO IM BACK AFTER A BIT OF A BREAK (which lasted three months)
have a meme to cheer yourself up
i hope your life is going great! mine is going okay so far, scored 90% in my first quarterly exams in ninth grade and felt confident in myself in quite a while. (But that didn't last long when another girl who shares the same name as me proudly told me she got 98
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but there's another good news, i'm a girl guide now! scouting and guiding is compulsory from 8/9th grade in many schools here, and we had our investiture ceremony towards the end of august.
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Hey everyone. I want to talk about something. Skip if you're sensitive to stuff like accidents and death.
Last evening my sister passed away. Cause? She fell out of the train while comeing home from work. (don't ask details, trains here have forever open doors) While at hospital, she was VERY serious, like on ventilator till she died.
We celebrated her 22nd birthday on the 12 (the same day i started 9th grade) and then the next day, she went to work as usual. But while returning home, trains were delayed due to rains, and she had to get on a crowded train. We don't know how she fell, but she fell right before a creek. Had she fallen in the creek, we may not have found her alive.
Before boarding the train, she told me that she'll bring me something to eat, but little did I know she'd never return.
The time she was at hospital, i was either there or at my aunt's house. After two days at the hosp, my aunt took me to her place bc the hospital air was making my cough worse.
She passed away on 16th June, just four days after her birthday. Mom and dad are going insane. They're just crying and crying. Everyone tells me the same thing- be strong, don't cry and take care of your parents. But I don't know how. She was the older, responsible one. I have no f-king idea what I'm supposed to do. Guests come and go, give condolences, and that's it. My parents refuse meals, but I somehow convinced them to eat. I don't know much cooking, but I can manage. I really need some kind words and motivation to help my parents live on without a piece of their heart. Please help me.
Rest in peace my angel, 2001-2023.
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I'm so sorry about your loss, my friend.
Please take all the time you need. This forum and any online stuff? Secondary. Even if takes a long time, please prioritize your real life and what is going on right now. Take all the time you need to grieve. Don't be afraid to cry, no matter what anyone tells you. You were only told that because your family needs you more than ever now, but you can do both. You can cry when you need to, and be strong when it's time to be strong. Don't deny yourself anything.
You don't need to take care of your parents; they've known how to do that for themselves before you came along. But you need to be there to make sure their sorrow doesn't take over. They have every reason to keep on going; and that definitely includes you. And you have every reason to live your life to the fullest; for your family and for yourself. Even in death, I'll bet your sister would never want to see your family fall apart.
So please take time to grieve, take time to pick yourselves up afterwards, and take time to find a new sense of normal and a new sense of purpose. If you need to be alone for that, or if you need to disconnect from the net for a while, we understand.
And moreover, if you ever need a friend to talk to or to vent, I'm right there. In fact, there's plenty of friends here.Take care, my friend. And may your sister rest in peace.
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