Tbh it feels like i lose no matter what. I am not viewed as attractive or interesting by the women in my area. I have a hard time connecting with them irl and even when i do they're either taken or uninterested. Same with online. They're either taken, uninterested, hindered by timezones etc.
I'm told that i should just let it find me but i am also told thst i can't wait too long to ask either. Feels like i can't win no matter what. There's always some gatcha.
Idk guys. :/