there's nothing judgemental about noting the aactions of others and seeing it's concequences all by my own observation and experience and not interfering while seeing it take place. It means that I myself, have advanced enough in terms of respect to myself and others that by quiting that behavior in myself long enough to see it have a positive impact on my life and never want to look back. It means respecting other people not instill that behavior upon them. I will gladly compliment you in a friendly professional like manner when I see fit. I just don't gawk and hoot and holler, and always talk about how i was trying to 'get with some chick'. I got plenty of better things to do with my time let myself be privy to that kind of behavior.
There's a difference between that kind of behavior and doing something out of love. Lust is what blinds you to learning about love for yourself and others. I know of no person that made a genuine success of their life model lustful behvior. If anything, business minded people such as myself often find those people remain 'employees', or become the boss everyone thinks is on okay guy, but still somehow a real jerk.
So if you're actually going to play the 'life is about balance' card. I've seen it from more sides and aspects then one which kinda leads me to my final and truthful observation: It IS something to overcome and understand when you are on the right path to achieving a fulfilling life. I see many improve their life, sure, but I see how this lesson is still blind to them and hurdle in their path. Nothing of which I can about accept tolerate it or be a silent guide if I can.