Twitchy-Tremor 297 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 I’m single because I don’t know how to talk to people in real life and I’d have an anxiety attack just trying. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pony Flutters 535 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 I'm single because I'm terrible at social interactions due to anxiety and awkwardness. I've reframed my mindset from feeling like the only dateless person by realizing that there are others I know, including friends, who are also single. It's weird, feeling connected in being alone. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 Probably because I have way too many things going on in life…yet I make time here lol My last relationship was a long term one that was over 2 years, but things ended amicable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winter Storm 237 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 I feel like there must be something fundamentally wrong with me at this point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impulse 476 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 Because everyone in my town seems taken,and I don't fit the looks category I guess..as a tomboy..I still look like a woman but not too girly or anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envy 6,160 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 8 hours ago, Winter Storm said: I feel like there must be something fundamentally wrong with me at this point. I feel that so much. You aren't alone. But not being alone in this doesn't exactly make anyone feel better does it? lol Everything needs more woodwind! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O-78 28,606 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 It's mainly a combination of social awkwardness and gender dysphoria. I also have no desire to use dating apps. Signature by @Mellow Mane Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 14,065 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 4 hours ago, Envy said: I feel that so much. You aren't alone. But not being alone in this doesn't exactly make anyone feel better does it? lol Like you said it probably doesn’t help but I also feel the same way as you both do. I act like it doesn’t bother me when it does. Especially when I’m the only one out of all of my cousins around my age still single. I think the problem is people have just failed to realize how incredibly awesome we all are *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EpicEnergy 23,218 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 (edited) There are many reasons why I am single, a major one being the fact that I hardly ever get out of the house anymore. I would like to have girlfriend, but I just don't think I'm attractive at all regarding my physical appearance and my personality. I also don't think I deserve to have a girlfriend because I'm not a good person and haven't accomplished hardly anything in life. I've just come to accept that I probably will never even have a girlfriend, considering how extremely difficult it would be to establish and especially maintain a decent relationship. Edited September 10, 2023 by EpicEnergy *totally not up to any shenanigans* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DubWolf 17,262 September 10, 2023 Share September 10, 2023 (edited) Sincerely, I'm not attractive enough nor that interesting. Anybody I feel attracted to has their loyalties elsewhere. I'm not the same person I was before either, nor around new people very often to "refresh the screen". Finding single people my age is difficult to begin with. All that said, it's like shooting a bullet with a bullet. Few people for me, few that would want me. Would be nice to see someone deny another guy for me, as bad as that may sound. I could be a different person, but I'm not "allowed to". Sounds crazy or bizarre but only I know what I'm talking about. All that said, I could hypothetically be fine single forever if I was happy with myself, but that's years from happening, and that would definitely involve a lot of "looking the other way". Edited September 11, 2023 by DubWolf Sig by Wolf, Handwriting by SparklingSwirls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Recherche 29,968 September 11, 2023 Share September 11, 2023 A particularly venomous dose of apathy and distrust, I suppose. The modern environment in general is incredibly hostile to relationship building, it seems. The competitiveness and overall resentment are palpable. I do wonder what a loving partner would be like at times; I tend to look around me in that case, and if the relationships that surround me are anything to go by, it is just not worth the headaches. 1 ❆~ 𝓐𝓵𝔀𝓪𝔂𝓼 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓕𝓸𝓻𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓻 𝓟𝓮𝓮𝓻𝓵𝓮𝓼𝓼 ~❆ 𝓕𝓲𝓿𝓮 𝓨𝓮𝓪𝓻𝓼 𝓲𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓜𝓪𝓴𝓲𝓷𝓰: 𝓜𝔂 𝓟𝓮𝓻𝓼𝓸𝓷𝓪𝓵 𝓕𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓷𝓭𝓼𝓱𝓲𝓹 𝓲𝓼 𝓜𝓪𝓰𝓲𝓬 𝓡𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓮𝔀 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clawdeen 14,065 September 11, 2023 Share September 11, 2023 Dunno. I even have all this Monopoly money. Do people not like Monopoly money? *On Wednesdays We Wear Pink And Betray The Organization* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winter Storm 237 September 12, 2023 Share September 12, 2023 I really feel like there is nothing I can do to meet any women who'd be interested in dating me, let alone any who share some of my interests. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pony Flutters 535 September 12, 2023 Share September 12, 2023 On 2023-09-10 at 5:52 AM, Envy said: I feel that so much. You aren't alone. But not being alone in this doesn't exactly make anyone feel better does it? lol Honestly, for me it beats feeling like the only one being single. While I don't feel fully better about it, at least I don't feel as awful as I did during my "teen angst" days lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodlyWolf Gusty 2,147 September 13, 2023 Share September 13, 2023 Because after my last relationship 4 years ago, I just haven't even tried to put in the effort to find someone. And the very few that came to me, I kind of just ignored them because at that point I had just given up. Though I'm starting to find a new resolve these last few months. On 2017-05-25 at 2:04 AM, jackspedicy said: Don't make it too deep or depressing, let's all just have a laugh I'm single because I get rejected by the girls that I like and reject the girls that like me.Feelsbadman Yeah it was that for me as well lol bottom line Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savy 5,077 September 25, 2023 Share September 25, 2023 Dunno. I guess I just haven't found the right guy yet. Or maybe I already have and it's just a "right person, wrong time" scenario. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodlyWolf Gusty 2,147 September 25, 2023 Share September 25, 2023 That's simple, burned most bridges back when I was naive and now that I'm wiser it's too late. Had more than plenty of opportunities and girls that liked me. But I took that forgranted. It's better to have loved and lost and all that. Maybe there's still one out there for me, but I have yet to have found her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brony Number 42 10,069 September 25, 2023 Share September 25, 2023 I can't afford to buy a Ferrari, but I can rent one. This is my new signature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deae Rising Shine~ 55,374 September 25, 2023 Share September 25, 2023 Not really looking. well if one pops up, sure, but otherwise I have enough stress in life as it is with everything else already. Legends never die. Ponies neither. Rainbow Dash is best pony! Ava made by Pandora^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iforgotmybrain 5,657 September 25, 2023 Share September 25, 2023 Being a bit more specific the dating pool here is… well it’s more like a puddle than a pool. The amount of matches I get on dating apps in Grand Rapids or Detroit vs my current city is night and day. Even the forbidden app that starts with a G has hardly anyone under the age of 40 on it. It’s that bad. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daviddaviddavid 776 September 25, 2023 Share September 25, 2023 Because I'm not actively looking for anything, and I've spurned the advances of almost everyone who's ever liked me (although in some cases I was just an idiot and didn't realise what I was doing) either instantly or to focus on other things in my life. I should probably work on that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss 6,229 September 30, 2023 Share September 30, 2023 (edited) ...,................... Edited September 30, 2023 by Miss 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evil Pink One 13,506 September 30, 2023 Share September 30, 2023 42 minutes ago, Miss said: not cute and people just dont like me, Kind of starting to decide that I should just get use to it by this point and work on improving my own life rather then trying to get into someone else's/bring someone into mine. Waaaa your handsome and chad so thats that! Why be cute when you a stud right? Pshhh cute is so late fashion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss 6,229 September 30, 2023 Share September 30, 2023 (edited) 19 minutes ago, StrawberryMilk Simp said: ..................... Edited September 30, 2023 by Miss 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evil Pink One 13,506 September 30, 2023 Share September 30, 2023 4 minutes ago, Miss said: Oof someone calls you two things you don't wanna be called Edit: actually three things Cries ......... :v 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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