Answer The Love Question Above You!

[Here No Longer 5,277]

If I can count online, it was in essence "f*** off." Yeah we were kind of arguing with each other.

If I can't, it was something along the lines of "hey." Yeah not impressive. But honestly, I wouldn't expect it to be. 

 

What is the last thing you've said to your SO?

 

[Sunset Rose 254]

He was talking about his day, so it was more of him telling me how he likes that he's been able to work on newer cars lately and me just kind of acknowledging it I guess.

Should you and your partner ever split up, what would be the most likely cause?

[Kamii 595]

Honestly, the distance. I don't think it'll happen, given we have always been away from each other but I'd say it would be the most probably cause. But I'd rather us being apart but having him than being apart and not having him. Otherwise, only my low self-esteem would be strong enough to cause damage, I believe.

Same question, it's a good one (and I'm lazy as anyone can tell)~

[Here No Longer 5,277]

I don't really see it happening, to be honest. But if it did, I think the most likely culprit would be an exceptionally severe one of his occasional mood swings causing me to think that he deserves somebody better and break it off because without his approval of me, my self-esteem would be in the gutter. Or more literally possibly hanging off of a pecan tree...

 

Same (lazy)?

 

[Rebel the Wolfgirl 5,605]

Honestly, if it ever happened, it'd be due to her self-esteem issues and mental health problems finally taking their tolls on both of us - in fact, she tends to think she's not good enough for me, and seems convinced I want to leave her when that's not the case (in fact that causes me a lot of stress and fatigue on my own mental health).

Same?

Edited June 4, 2019 by Renegade the Unicorn

[BabylonSister 218]

Probably the deficit of trust that's formed in the wake of repeated betrayal due to severe addiction on one side and being heavily effected due to depression and low self esteem on the other.

tmi? Lol

Same?

[TBD 17,256]

Never been one 

what is one major thing you and your partner do not have in common?

[Here No Longer 5,277]

Well, I suppose I don't smoke but he does... Nothing really all that major I don't think. 

 

Same, I guess?

[Kamii 595]

Interest in politics. He has a thing for it, I couldn't care less 

What was it like when you found out your S.O. liked you (back)? :3

[Lucky Bolt 35,085]

I was soooo happy, and surprised honestly. I was trying to get his attention and drop little hints here and there for over a month, but he just didn't seem to be noticing or if he was, he was ignoring it. Then on Valentine's day he totally caught me off guard by asking me if I would be his Valentine, and that's when I knew....

Same? 

[Rebel the Wolfgirl 5,605]

She and I had been talking for over a year, and after a pretty personal conversation, I (out of the blue) revealed my feelings for her, and three years later, I haven't looked back.

Same?

[BabylonSister 218]

My darling wrote me a terrible but wonderful 3 page letter that I still have to this day which he handed to me at the beginning of geometry class one day. (With it was also a drawing of the main character from the enormous fim fiction, that he'd been writing and I'd been editing at the time, as a heckinadorable foal.)

He proposed that we "not date" because dating in ninth grade is stupid. And i was elated but i had no idea how to respond! It was a confession, not a question so how do I answer???

Eventually he came to me at the end of the day all sad like and expecting I hated him, so, after some frantic backpedaling on my part we finally came to the mutual agreement not to date eachother!

 

How did your so ask you out/confess?

Edited June 6, 2019 by BabylonSister

[Kamii 595]

After spending the whole day with a mutual friend, talking about my feelings for my S.O., he helped me devise a plan on how to tell him. I ended up recording a 14-minute long (if I'm correct) audio talking about a whole bunch of things.

It was only around the 5-6 minute mark that I said anything about my feelings for him. I can't hear that thing anymore since it's so awkward to listen to, but he eventually heard it, once I was already "asleep" (I didn't sleep, I was terrified) and said he felt the same way through a lovely message for me :3

Same question~

[Lucky Bolt 35,085]

He asked me out about a week after that same Valentine’s Day, through a private message right here on the forums. February 26th, 2018. And the rest is history. 

Same? 

 

[SparklingSquirrels 21,356]

Two years ago, I started to have a crush on him, which he found out but he didn’t want to be in a long distance relationship at the time

Then last summer, we started talking a bit more, and he said he still liked me and felt bad that he rejected me the first time, and asked for a second chance...

It’s been the happiest ten months of my life with him  

Do you have any future travel plans with your SO? 

[Here No Longer 5,277]

Nothing really. Neither of us really has much in terms of money. Though he's invited me to see Houston (it's pretty much just a few minutes from where he lives).

 

Same?

[Kamii 595]

I am travelling to see him in a little over a month, does that count~?

What was the most fun thing you've done with your S.O.?

[Here No Longer 5,277]

I'm honestly not entirely sure. Between the movies and playing Paladins with him (he's pretty bad at it though)… Though if I didn't have to keep it PG-13 I might have more of a definitive answer.

 

Same?

Edited June 6, 2019 by DusksuD

[Kamii 595]

I'd say the most fun things we've done happen when we go places and explore for ourselves, can't remember anything in particular right now. I also have a lot of fun teasing him :3

Do you often promise things to your S.O.?

[Lucky Bolt 35,085]

No...honestly I don’t. I’m not good at, keeping promises.  

Same question 

[Here No Longer 5,277]

I don't think either of us seems like a person for promises... Though he hopes to get a job so he can get a car, insurance, and a place for us to live together at some point in the future.

 

Same?

[SparklingSquirrels 21,356]

When I make a promise, I try my very very best to keep it. I don't take promises lightly and it kind of bothers me that people will promise things without really meaning it :/
That doesn't really answer the question . I promise things sometimes but not all the time.

Do you like to go back and read old texts/messages from your SO?

 

[Rebel the Wolfgirl 5,605]

Of course! It shows how far we've come as a couple.

How do you and your SO solve relationship troubles?

Edited June 8, 2019 by Renegade the Unicorn

[Here No Longer 5,277]

Honestly, as of now we've been able to talk out most of our (surprisingly rare) troubles. It works because we actually listen to each other to some extent even when we're upset with each other.

 

Same?

[Kamii 595]

We talk about them. Luckily, our troubles have been mostly "nitpicky" so far.

Do you have a favorite pet name for your S.O.? You don't have to say what it is.