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Let me explain.

I'm sure you've all heard of this notion of inner beauty and outer beauty.

If someone is attractive on the outside, but a nasty witch on the inside; would that make their physical 'beauty' less?

Have you ever met someone you weren't physically attracted to at first (or just sort of attracted too) but then their funny/smart/kind personality made them more physically attractive?

Discuss. Discuss.

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Well if your beautiful on the outside but cruel and nasty on the inside, I guess your beauty will drain away. And yes, I met someone that I wasn't attracted to at first. But then as the days progressed, I started to like him. Then we dated and blah blah blah. Broke up. The End. I rather have someone that is beautiful on the inside too. :D


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When I first met my husband I thought he was a good-looking guy. The more I got to know him, the more attracted to him I became. Now I've become so attracted to him that I haven't felt attraction to another person in years.

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I look for inner-beauty when talking with people, sure many girls I've seen look attractive on the outside, but inside they are really rude and negative. However, I also beleive people change, so while I at times hold first hand judgements they eventually evolve with the person as they progress.

 

This goes for any person, regardless of gender.

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Short answer: Yes

Long answer: Absolutely

 

No one is attracted to someone who brings more negatives than positives.

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I'm the guy that says "she's cute" despite popular contradiction. I don't know why, but when they are awesome, they look awesome to me. And when they're jerks, I can notice every single flaw about them; complexion, split ends, mustache complex etc etc... I've been in many "who's hot" conversations, and have heard them joke about those who "are not;" but usually those "are not"s are the ones I find the most beautiful, least whore-ish, and I have crushes on most of them.

 

However there are a few exceptions to my subconsciously altered perceptions that I can't even explain. Sometimes they are really sweet and genuinely fun to be around, but daaaaaang....Who are your parents? And how many times did they drop you on the head? But trust me, I've only met two of these, and they're still my friends.

 

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I go by inner beauty. You can be the hottest person ever, if you're a bitch, then lolno. Having outer beauty is only a plus for me.

 

I agree with Crona. Inner beauty is all that really matters to me. From what I've seen, there are way too many people who get caught up in how good they think they look which leads to some insufferable pride. It's best to not judge people by what their outward appearance is. You never know who they are.
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When I first met my husband I thought he was a good-looking guy. The more I got to know him, the more attracted to him I became. Now I've become so attracted to him that I haven't felt attraction to another person in years. ~

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No one is attracted to someone who brings more negatives than positives.

 

Do you not go to highscool? Or college? Or clubs?

o.o people make me wonder.

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Well unless you're one of those stuck up 12 year olds in school..... then yep

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No one is attracted to someone who brings more negatives than positives.

 

I've actually dated a few people who have lots more negatives than positives ;-;
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I'm the guy that says "she's cute" despite popular contradiction. I don't know why, but when they are awesome, they look awesome to me. And when they're jerks, I can notice every single flaw about them; complexion, split ends, mustache complex etc etc... I've been in many "who's hot" conversations, and have heard them joke about those who "are not;" but usually those "are not"s are the ones I find the most beautiful, least whore-ish, and I have crushes on most of them.

 

However there are a few exceptions to my subconsciously altered perceptions that I can't even explain. Sometimes they are really sweet and genuinely fun to be around, but daaaaaang....Who are your parents? And how many times did they drop you on the head? But trust me, I've only met two of these, and they're still my friends.

 

 

 

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I've actually dated a few people who have lots more negatives than positives ;-;

 

story of my pre married life o.o

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Well attraction works on more than just the physical looks of someone. I've always believed that it was both working together. Physical looks to attract and then personality to keep, to put it simply.

 

I think you just get tired of seeing that person if their personality is bad and thus they become ugly and vice versa.


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You personality is what I look for because if you are heartless the most I can expect is to turn around and get a un needed heat transplant where I don't get a heart in return...


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Let me explain.

I'm sure you've all heard of this notion of inner beauty and outer beauty.

If someone is attractive on the outside, but a nasty witch on the inside; would that make their physical 'beauty' less?

Have you ever met someone you weren't physically attracted to at first (or just sort of attracted too) but then their funny/smart/kind personality made them more physically attractive?

Discuss. Discuss.

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No, but I've met someone who I first thought looked good, but then when she had been in my class for some time and I got to know her and understood what bad person she was, I then thought she was ugly for some reason.

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When I first met my husband I thought he was a good-looking guy. The more I got to know him, the more attracted to him I became. Now I've become so attracted to him that I haven't felt attraction to another person in years.

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I think this is about how it was for my wife when we started dating. I'm rather average looking. Yet she's hooked on me like crack! I attribute it to my overall nerdiness and my vast wealth of useless knowledge.

 

On the other hand, she's a gorgeous girl with an amazing personality. If you could combine Pinkie Pie's carefree love of everything with Fluttershy's timidness, you'd have Ams. She's amazing, we've been together for 11 years- since 8th grade- and I can't imagine being with anyone else.

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Having an ugly personality doesn't lower someone's physical beauty. But it can and will lower the level of attraction you feel for them. On the other hand, an attractive personality really can make someone seem more physically attractive, because if you like someone, you tend to ignore any little faults or imperfections.

 

That's in my experience anyway!


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Megan Fox. Case and point.

When I saw her the first few times, I thought she was pretty hot, but then I read some of what she's said in interviews, and it's like, jesus christ, someone get a shotgun. Now she's not attractive to me.

As for this happening with people I actually know, I'm not as sure, since I can't remember many girls I've gotten to know who ended up being total bitches, at least not to the point of making them appear uglier.

 

 

As to the second, yes, multiple times. I don't think the, eh... unflattering parts of their bodies got any better looking solely due to them being really awesome people, but I started noticing more and more little things that made them more physically attractive overall, things I wouldn't normally care about. I guess that once I got to know them and they were really nice and awesome people, I subconsciously started finding ways to make them more attractive.

For example, one of my best friends. She's a little overweight, which I'm neutral to (not that attractive, but certainly not a deal breaker). As I got to know her, I noticed that she has these tiny, cute little hands and feet. I've never really paid attention to girl's hands and feet, but I do hers, and they're really great XD. And her skin tone is very nice, and goes well with the various colors of sharpie she uses to draw on herself when she's bored.

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Definately. If a person has no manners at all he/she is really unattractive.

Also voice and intelligence is an important factor. I know a girl who looks really nice but when she speaks she does it in a really deep, unfitting voice. And if somebody talks very bluntly and does not seem on the same wavelenght at all it's really unattractive because he/she just doesn't fit with you


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