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My sexuality is weird and I won't go into any details here, but I'm definitely not asexual. Personally, I don't really see any real advantages or disadvantages to being asexual, sure there are some things you might subjectively call advantagious or disadvantagious but nothing that would make me wish to be asexual. There is a lot you miss out on without even knowing what you're missing out on since you've never experienced it which eliminates the "disadvantage".

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It would be nice if someone could answer my questions, I'm just curious, asexuals who masturbate, do you get turned on before you 'start'? Do you watch porn? Do you think of anything during masturbation? Any genders pop in your head? Do you have sexual thoughts towards a gender?

 

Sorry for the weird TMI questions lol

I can't talk for all asexuals, but in my case, I did used to masturbate without watching porn, but from a time on, I watch hentai or clop (clopfics included) before I masturbate, and the difference with the former shows because it turns me on :blush: . I usually think of, either in the scene I've read in the clop, or the best image I've watched the last time. About genders..... well, I'm asexual, and demisexual, but 'm also straight, and while I approve homosexuals can have rights in pursuing their relationships without being shunned, that doesn't mean I'll look to arouse myself with the same gender as me  :proud:

 

I think I've made myself clear that I'm asexual, and maybe demisexual, I've had sex three times and I've ended..... I don't know, wrong in all of them. I don't expect to get laid in one and a half decade, where by that time, I get my shit together and ready to start my own family..... maybe, I'm not sure if I wanna marry or stay single by then  :P


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From 15 to 18 years old I thought I was asexual because I wasn't interested in girls anymore.

And then I felt in love at 19 years old.

 

I think being truly asexual is something rare.

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Several friends in the past have either asked if I was or assumed so, before I had ever learned what asexual meant.

I'm generally not sexually attracted to anyone and I'm honestly not all that interested in being intimate.

Occasionally I have been, but it depended on the person and was actually quite rare.

Unfortunately, this has made things difficult in the past with those who I have cared about relationship-wise.
One of which has even claimed I didn't love them because I didn't want to do that type of thing with them.

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No, I'm not asexual. But love/romance has always been more important to me than sex, perhaps excluding when I was like 13 years old. 

 

Consensual sex between adults can be one way of expressing love, but it's not the only way. I've never had sex in my life yet, because I don't want to. I think the whole casual sex thing is a load of worthless shit and I want nothing to do with it. Sex is supposed to be an intimate, meaningful, loving act between people who love each other, not a fucking game. People treat sex like it's just another form of entertainment these days, like going to a movie or taking a walk. 

 

I feel like I can easily live without sex, but romantic love is something I've always yearned for. Even when I was a little kid, and I didn't even really understand it or its full implications. I'm also not an attractive person, so I don't think anyone would ever want to have sex with me anyway. But thankfully for me, I don't care about that.

 

The possibility of me dying alone, overall, is a very real one, which does break my heart. But one of the few things that brings me peace regarding that issue is the fact that I know I will always have friends. I've never really had problems making new friends, and there are friends who are basically family at this point and I know that nothing but death will ever separate me from them, and even that would be only temporary. Or so I choose to believe.

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I think I am one. I've never had a crush on anyone. I've found a few people attractive a few times, but it's pretty miniscule. I'm just not romantic at all, nor am I really over anyone. It's kind of weird, but I guess I'll go with it.

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My parents want me to get a girlfriend, but of course, telling by the fact that I'm posting on this topic, you could understand why that's a problem.


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My parents want me to get a girlfriend, but of course, telling by the fact that I'm posting on this topic, you could understand why that's a problem.

Well, you can be romantic but just not attracted to people in general. Just tell 'em you're not interested.

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Well, you can be romantic but just not attracted to people in general. Just tell 'em you're not interested.

Not one for romance (or people in general), and they say they're "not prepared to allow you to make such life decisions." 


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I could be considered 'asexual' but I am heterosexual (primally) although I dont see 'love' as important, I don't have time for love, love is meh to me. I am would say I am 'aromantic' but I won't go into detail about sexual preferences of romance. Let's just say, its hard for me to get a girl to like me or vice versa so love doesnt matter to me well not right now. So, I guess I would count as a "aromatic heterosexual"

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