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  1. It's nice thoughtful blog entry especially since I've been resorting to starving myself just to lose weight. I enjoy my personality a lot, but my body just causes me more problems than I would like. A shame, really.

     

    Please do not do that. It doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you. Besides, no matter who you were and what you looked like, there would always be someone who didn't like you (that's true for everyone), so why should you try to change yourself for anyone? Starving yourself can also lead to extremely severe health problems.

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  2. Very true words, man. I try not to care what other people think of me, but at the same time, I realize that I don't really love myself for who I am. That's something I've really grown interested in changing.

    Loving yourself for who you are is very important. It doesn't matter what you've done - you should always love yourself. We can all work to improve ourselves, but loving ourselves is a must.

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  3. I'm so happy this helped somebody, first off i know you and you are an amazing caring person and if somebody says otherwise then they ain't worth your time. But yes i'm just so tired of this huge body image thing going around that is making people get themselves sick and not being able to love themselves and it makes me feel so sorry for people

     

    Thanks man, that means a lot to me. :)

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  4. I'm very sorry that you've been going through such difficult times. I'm glad that you have your girlfriend and your family to support you, though. You can and will get through all of this.

     

    It is essential that you stop using drugs. Not only are the drugs themselves harmful, but as you said, the kinds of people often associated with them are not the kind of people you want in your life. If you need to go to a rehabilitation center to get help with not using drugs anymore, then you should do so.

     

    You can definitely build a bright future for yourself. You could go to an adult learning center or some other place where you could gain the education you missed when you dropped out of high school. While doing that, you could study for and take a test for a GED, if you were unable to get a high school diploma. After that, you could go to college and major in something that interests you and that could also help get you a job. You might decide to go to graduate school, or just go straight into the workforce. 

     

    It won't be easy, but it's doable. You can most certainly overcome all obstacles in your life in one way or another, regardless of how difficult they are. Just remember to have faith in yourself.

     

    On the subject of introversion: I am an introvert as well. Don't worry about having a ton of friends, worry about having good and true friends. If you want to meet more of those, you could try going to a club or to some other place in person where there is a higher likelihood of you meeting someone with interests similar to yours. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being shy and introverted.

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  5. Thank you for that.

     

    I was planning on getting back into contact with him but it seems that he has deactivated his Facebook account. Now if I want to get in touch with him, I would have to visit his house. Which is difficult to do seeing as he lives across town from me. I just hope he starts to behave more properly...

     

    No problem.

     

    You could visit him from time to time. You could also ask him for his phone number, or for some other way you could contact him more regularly.

  6. Since he's your friend, you should do your best to be there for him and help him out. You should be a positive influence in his life, when others are not. I'm not saying you should feel responsible for his choices, but you should do what you can to help him. If he refuses your help, or does not change despite your help, that's not your fault.

     

    Also, it's important to be patient with him. It might take a long time for him to start thinking and acting in a more positive and constructive manner.

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  7. She needs professional help. The sooner she gets help, the better - the farther she gets into an eating disorder the more dangerous it is and the harder it is to get out of it. Even if she would get mad, you need to try to sit down with her and your step mom, so both of you can break the subject to her in as best a way as possible. You guys should first ask her to get professional help, but if she tries to resist it would be important for your step mom to force her to get it. I know that sounds harsh, but this sort of thing is extremely dangerous. While it would be ideal for her to accept help instead of it being forced upon her, she needs it whether or not she likes it, for her own good.

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  8. That sucks that he broke up with you, but at the same time, it's a good thing. If they only cared about your money, then that's just horrible. You shouldn't waste your time trying to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't even love you. 

     

    Hopefully you can see this as a new beginning to find someone who loves you for you, and not your money.

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