I thought of boy names many years before, which were Joel and Ernest, though I much prefer gender-neutral names. I know most people probably would disagree with me with this, but I prefer them because I specifically have a name that is was too gender-based for my own personality that makes me feel uncomfortable and I wouldn't want the same to happen, which is why I go by AJ. With that being said, I strictly have no interest in raising children. It's not that I hate children, I just can't see myself with them. I want to get married someday and I feel pressured by society a lot of the time that I have to have children if I get married. I don't like that at all. If I had to, I would rather have an adopted son. I much prefer little boys.