Here’s the thing — my sister sent me a message listing all the reasons why I shouldn’t join the Navy. And I get it — it’s hard for the family to accept. But I’ve already given them time, even into next year, to think it through. That was my way of preparing them. What I ask now is: don’t cloud my decision with fear.
Why do you think I chose the reserve path and not full-time active duty? I was already thinking of them. Even if I’m ever called to full-time, I won’t be gone forever. My family will always come first.
Yes, I’ve heard the horror stories. But I’ve also heard the good ones. The truth is — none of those are my stories yet. I get to write my own. I’m doing this for me — not to prove anything to the Navy or anyone else — but to fulfill something deep inside myself.
I know my family cares. I just wish they’d show that by supporting me, not by feeding me fears. Because with their support, maybe the challenges ahead wouldn’t feel so heavy.
(I do personally want to thanks my friends here who has been so supportive of me, it’s really helps a lot, even when I don’t say it)
Edit: After a long serious conversation with my mother, she finally agreed to go with me to meet the recruiter next year. I’m so happy right now, nothing hits differently than having a mother to be with her son through this process.