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Since season 6 has come out and the fandom is 5 years old I'm wondering is anyone still in the closet

 

the reason I ask is I haven't heard about any coming out advice for a long time

 

Update: Yes I still am as well, although for a short period I wasn't, everybody knew, however my parents hated bronies even then, so I kept quiet and eventually everyone forgot, friends, parents, everybody

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At this point in time, just about everybody has at least heard of bronies. It isn't any big shock anymore that grown men like ponies, and after 5 years, people have just grown use to it. If there is anyone still disliking the concept of that, they are usually the ones who are afraid of anything different.

 

To answer your question, I've been out for a long long while now.

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Well, I am in the closet, but the doors are slightly open. I mean, it's a bit of a "don't ask don't tell" in my case - I have no merch or other telltale signs to show the world I'm a brony, save for a mobile wallpaper maybe. I don't bring up MLP in discussions. Normally I just act like I've never heard of it. Although if the topic came out and I felt like the participants wouldn't react negatively, I would reveal my interest. I already did once to a coworker when we discussed fandoms and it wasn't that bad.

 

All in all, I guess it would be nice to be more open about it, but for the most part I'm okay with things as they are.

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At this point in time, just about everybody has at least heard of bronies. It isn't any big shock anymore that grown men like ponies, and after 5 years, people have just grown use to it. If there is anyone still disliking the concept of that, they are usually the ones who are afraid of anything different.

 

To answer your question, I've been out for a long long while now.

But is it strange for a fifteen year old to like ponies? And except for a few friends, I'm still in the closet.


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But is it strange for a fifteen year old to like ponies? And except for a few friends, I'm still in the closet.

 

If you consider grown men liking ponies as strange, than fifteens liking ponies would probably be just as strange. But really, who cares if it's strange or not. Like I said, it's no big deal to anyone anymore except for the ones who are wanting everything to be the same.

 

I started watching when I was 14 and came out only months after I started. (With the help of my brother sadly, but I'm glad he did in the end)

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It's definitely easier to "come out" if you aren't living at home and have a bunch of friends who are bronies. If I still lived at home and was still in high school, I wouldn't be openly a brony.

I have no Brony friends... My brother used to like the show but he doesn't anymore.


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Still am, don't know if I'll ever come out.

As far as I'm concerned, it's just a interest, if you like it you like it, if not then not.

It's fun liking something that's so controversial, but it's still just a side thing and not my hole life.

It's one thing among many things that make up the unique being I am. 

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I was only in the "closet" for a few months maybe when I first got into it. In fact, I got some of my family to become bronies as well. I think the desire to hide being a brony really comes down to immediate social circles having or not having a stigma or closed mind about it. I was surrounded by people who were pretty open and caring - which I'm lucky for. I almost eat, sleep, and breath ponies so that's doubly a good thing.  :P


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I was in the closet during my first year or bronying, but now I only keep it from certain people. It's less a question of me being shy about it now than "do I really want to deal with this person pestering me about it?" Sometimes the answer to that question is no, so I just don't bring it up. I can imagine it being much harder for younger folks and teens to be open about liking MLP because those age groups place a lot of emphasis on the importance of what they like and how it supposedly defines them. As they get older, I think most people realize that what a person likes is just a part of who they are and it's ok to have different interests. Basically, it gets better.

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Yep.....Only 1 person in real life knows of me being a Brony, and that's one of my friends at school, who is a pegasister. Im NEVER going to tell any of my friends, god knows what they'd say. And all my mom knows is that I watch it, and has no idea that there's a fandom for it. While my dad on the other hand, knows nothing.

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No I am not still in the closet.

I thought you initially were talking about coming out as gay, you shouldn't use the term "out of the closet" to describe telling someone your a brony. Don't make a big deal about it, because it's not, you just like a show. Also we don't want people linking the two and confirming the stereotype that bronies are gay. If we use the same jargon they do, it looks like we are. Just a tip. Same can be said for "coming out of the stable."

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I sort of dislike calling it "in the closet" look sure it's a tv show you may not want others to know off. However, most people think of "the closet" for ones sexuality. Still to answer the post, nope and never was actually I'm very open about most of my interests.

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Don't make a big deal about it, because it's not, you just like a show.

 

I think you're right in the sense that it shouldn't be a big deal, but there are definitely people who would react with real hostility if they found out their child/friend/whatever is a brony. It's unfortunate but it's definitely a thing in some cases. But you're right, most people are just over-thinking it.

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I'm very much in the closet

 

The fact that you like people of the same gender is quite hard to be open about, in my opinion.

 

As for ponies, I've always thought that its no big deal, and I don't mind telling basically everyone about it.

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Yes and no in my case some very very close friends know and my family know personally if someone asked I would tell them but I hold the same with me being a furry on a want to know basis its a lot easier to talk about this stuff here I admit because we are all technically in the same boat.


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