I am by no means someone who is worthy of being the spokes person for this community, or these forums, nor do I see myself as one, but there is an issue I feel should be addressed, and has not been.
Simply put, the standard is slipping. People post on topics not even reading what it's about, people don't discuss the topic, but rather insult each other, people aren't friendly to each other, People try to gloom these forums by posting status of how sad they are, rather than trying to lift the sprits of those that come by. This was once an intermingled group of people which all talked to each other, but as it's expanded, it's lost it's way. You can tell yourself you'll be friends with anyone on here, but it's not true, the same can be said for myself. I'm not saying we need to be BFF's with everyone, but would it be so horrible to try and start friendships with others? People opt for posting their opinion and then leaving, rather than getting an idea of what's going on, and posting accordingly. Especially on debating topics, people are more likely to start insulting each other if they get into a one on one debate, rather than continue talking about the topic. I understand people may have personal problems, and talking about those is what makes these forums great. But, there is a time to be serious, and a time to not be. We should try our hardest to create a happy community here, not a solemn one, at least outside of person chats or PM's. I'm guilty of all these things, and as I said, far from a worthy spokes person.
So I suppose the point of these is, can we improve our standards?
On a more personal note, would we be able to stop patronising everyone in our posts, be friendly all you like, but in every single topic you don't need to say how great everyone is.