Things you hate about your gender?

[Evil Pink One 13,507]

7 minutes ago, Kujamih said:

Ahhh...man up emotionally.... Well it has something to do with responsibility.. to train you to be a father or a dependable person... To handle stress and don't easily get eaten by grief and depression.

To man up. To endure the pain and get stronger. 

Today saying to man up makes it look...hmm sexist... The right term or wording maybe should be.

Endure it?...hmmm... Grow up?... Learn from it..... Yeah learn from it would be more better word than man up...

The word man up is poorly executed and explained... And way too simple and vague...

Oh wait a better word for man up is 

"STAND UP"

[ExplosionMare 18,063]

14 hours ago, Starforce said:

I honestly never understood that either for females. I also don't understand why its weird for a guy to wear short shorts on a really hot day.

Huh, never thought that was even a thing until you brought it up. That is weird.

I don’t like how most girls are considered bossy whenever they try to be in charge. Sometimes they are being bossy but other times, their suggestions are actually helpful.

[Lord Chin Chin 1,209]

22 hours ago, Kujamih said:

But you do martial arts.....

I mean hurting emotionally ravioli boi 😋

I hate that singing and dancing for fun is considered feminine

[Evil Pink One 13,507]

1 hour ago, Tweek said:

I mean hurting emotionally ravioli boi 😋

I hate that singing and dancing for fun is considered feminine

Rock metal and hip hop is feminine?

Again only the extreme and majority of people think that.... To me dancing and singing is a waste of time...for me because I'm not good at it and has no plan to make it a career XD.. buy I do appreciate a good dance and music.

[Lord Chin Chin 1,209]

7 hours ago, Kujamih said:

Rock metal and hip hop is feminine?

Again only the extreme and majority of people think that.... To me dancing and singing is a waste of time...for me because I'm not good at it and has no plan to make it a career XD.. buy I do appreciate a good dance and music.

I dont mean particular types of music are feminine x3 I meam si ging and dancing in your house or with friends etc 👀

Buuuut my Dad is super macho man type dude and hes the one eho usually says this stuff so hes probs madd me thi k most think like that lol

[Evil Pink One 13,507]

@Tweek

Sing "be a man" from Mulan... XD 

Or  " I kissed a girl and I liked it."

XD lololol

 

 

[Lord Chin Chin 1,209]

19 minutes ago, Kujamih said:

Or  " I kissed a girl and I liked it."

But that would just be a lie

Edited September 19, 2021 by Tweek

[Will Guide 21,360]

18 hours ago, Tweek said:

I hate that singing and dancing for fun is considered feminine

And I hate it when people think Disney movies are just for kids when really they're supposed to be for anyone of any age, gender, race, etc. Walt even said it himself:

 

[The Kaeya Simp 13,988]

58 minutes ago, Will Guide said:

And I hate it when people think Disney movies are just for kids when really they're supposed to be for anyone of any age, gender, race, etc. Walt even said it himself:

 

can we just stop categorising content like this

[Will Guide 21,360]

A more on topic post: 

I don't like it when people expect me to do the heavy lifting just because I'm a guy. Because of my cerebral palsy and my content need to stretch or I'll go really stiff. I have physical limitations that can seriously hurt myself if I try to go too far.

[Envy 6,169]

~Periods. Of course.

~Feeling really scared when walking alone and having to keep my key in between my fingers.

~Having guys talk to me and try to befriend me only because they find me attractive, and then watching them all disappear (or be rude) after I tell them I'm not interested.

~Not being taken seriously.

~Wildly inconsistent clothing sizes.

and more.

[Yonatan Bennett 0]

On 2021-09-18 at 7:36 AM, Kujamih said:

Ahhh...man up emotionally.... Well it has something to do with responsibility.. to train you to be a father or a dependable person... To handle stress and don't easily get eaten by grief and depression.

To man up. To endure the pain and get stronger. 

Today saying to man up makes it look...hmm sexist... The right term or wording maybe should be.

Endure it?...hmmm... Grow up?... Learn from it..... Yeah learn from it would be more better word than man up...

The word man up is poorly executed and explained... And way too simple and vague...

agree with you

[Yonatan Bennett 0]

On 2021-09-19 at 10:19 PM, Will Guide said:

And I hate it when people think Disney movies are just for kids when really they're supposed to be for anyone of any age, gender, race, etc. Walt even said it himself:

I am also not satisfied with this philosophical idea of weak and strong gender. I recently read some interesting thoughts about gender on the site https://writingbros.com/essay-examples/gender-inequality/ and realized that we as humanity still need to overcome a lot of prejudices.

 

Great picture.

[Star Flame 33]

I'm a girl:

Whenever i express my feelings, i'm told to shut up because i'm being "the basic annoying, whiny white girl" so basically i can't express too much happiness, anger, or sadness.

People assume i like pink, when in reality my favourite colors are orange and golden yellow.

People think that i'm always looking for a boyfriend.

Periods (seriously, they are terrible)

Clothes are often tight, they are made like this on purpose to show the curves, when i actually hate tight clothes, i like baggy clotches because they keep me warmer and i feel more confortable with them

I'm considered more emotionally instable than boys, when in fact it isn't true, as men and women have the same level of emotions, and they usually are more emotional when they have an emotional trauma.

People assume i like romantic movies, when i actually prefer fantasy-adventurous movies.

Boys VS girls memes are made against me to make feel bad for being "boring".

The gaming community hates me.

 

And more, that i won't add cause the list would get too long.

 

 

[daviddaviddavid 776]

I don't hate anything about being my gender. The only two things that I mildly dislike are having to shave every day and dealing with getting hungry so often (I need like 3000-ish kcal a day or I drop weight) but they're pretty minor things in the grand scheme of everything, so I'm happy.

[Evil Pink One 13,507]

27 minutes ago, Starforce said:

Body hair. The ideal man is to be clean shaven around the whole body. It is a constant battle against body hair, for me. If I don’t shave and let it grow, it will trap odor and I will smell disgusting even a few hours after a shower. Just goes to show you that man isn’t perfect after all. Another thing I don’t like is the casual feeling of feeling dirty all the time, too.

I thought being hairy was the ideal man....

[Evil Pink One 13,507]

Ehh varies in vulture I guess...

[RakanTheMan 125]

What I hate about my gender is that we held to such high standards and we are excepted to be "macho" and have multiple partners. I'm not a guy who's macho and I never had a partner

 

We shouldn't be shamed for this =/

[ExplosionMare 18,063]

6 hours ago, SillyPony50 said:

What I hate about my gender is that we held to such high standards and we are excepted to be "macho" and have multiple partners. I'm not a guy who's macho and I never had a partner

 

We shouldn't be shamed for this =/

It’s the opposite for my gender, having multiple partners makes us seem gross

[Mandalagan 231]

i have only one thing taht i hate being at my gender is being circumcised it is really painful and i cant handle the pain but good thing it got better for like days

[Here No Longer 5,276]

About my gender? Well, I can say that there's a couple of things I won't like that I can't really talk about here. Basically don't like the harassment over it.

But, hey, it's better than what I was assigned at birth. That mistake of genetics caused... IMMENSE... amounts of pain.

[Magic Note 2,748]

Loose clothing. I've grown to dislike loose clothing because it gets uncomfortable very easy.

[Tao 7,777]

I don't mind being female but it comes with some backlash:

• PMS
• Pants
• You need to have a child to find fulfillment  in ur life as a woman 
• your weak (dude i can lift 80 pds) 
• you need to dress pretty to feel normal ( buck that shit)
• Explaining things to a guy who askes me a question at work,  does not seem to think I know what I'm saying,  asking for someone else,  given I lead them to said man,  which says the same thing I do and the man just accepts as truth from guy to the other .

Thats i can think on now for now 

[dead account 2,710]

6 hours ago, Magic Note said:

Loose clothing. I've grown to dislike loose clothing because it gets uncomfortable very easy.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way.

Shopping for clothes in real life is difficult here, the shops are full of women's clothes and men only have a small corner. And then they also only have clothes I don't like at all. I'm so thankful I can order stuff online!

[IronM17 5,386]

On 2022-03-11 at 12:27 PM, Sven Utacien said:

Shopping for clothes in real life is difficult here, the shops are full of women's clothes and men only have a small corner. 

Honestly, I am glad about this. It is easier for me to find something faster and so, I do not need to much time for buying clothes. I hate buying clothes (especially shoes). 

Speaking of clothes. One thing I hate about beeing a man are suits, shirts and ties. I find these things uncomfortable, especially in summer. Good that I don't work somewhere at the moment where I have to wear this (only on special events).