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What do you do when your love makes you angry or upset? I try my best to smile and be happy, but I still get mad so I have to calm myself down. -_- How do you deal with it?

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From past experience, turn into a total drama queen and make a complete fool of myself. -_- I suffer from a lot of anxiety and always assume the worst, I guess.

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I just take five minutes off to be alone and calm down. There's not a lot that makes me upset but whenever he does make me upset or angry I just watch a video or play a game for five minutes to keep my mind off of it.

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He's only made me really upset once, and it just happened to be when we initially broke up. I was going through the five stages of grief, the first four simultaneously. I guess because I was mourning the loss of the man I knew as my boyfriend (and now know as my husband, well of sorts, since we are technically engaged).

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Well, Honestly, I'm almost impossible to Upset. However, if he did Manage to upset me, I'd let him know, and try to sort things out the best I can. I'm no expert in Relationships, but I know that if something's broken, don't throw it out, try to fix it.

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Smack them around a bit . . .I'm in charge of this relationship . . .

 

. . . is what I would say if I was a complete ass

 

 

I tend to just try and talk out the issue. Or go off on my own until I calm down.


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I don't have a love in the romantic sense, but I have familial and friendship loves.  I'm generally a laid-back individual, but everyone has limits and I'm no exception.  I would either try to steer the conversation away from whatever is making me upset, or take some time alone, then talk it out.  I'm usually honest and blunt about it.

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Seeing that I'm currently a single forever-alone, I'm going to have to pretend. :P

If they're a male partner? I would pout and brood until they feel bad about making me upset to the point that they do something nice. Failing that. Chair to their head!

If they're a female partner? I would pout and brood in an attempt to make them feel bad about making me upset to the point that they smack me round the head and tell me to stop sulking.

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He rarely upsets me, though if he ever really did I'd probably distance myself from him and send him an email telling him how he's bothering me if he and I aren't together. If we are, I'll guilt him into cuddling with me and apologizing. :catface:

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I get really quiet and grim so I'm no fun to be around. I don't do much because the attitude alone usually does the trick. Okay, one weird-ish thing I do is say everything I'm annoyed about to my stuffed panda, in plain view and well within earshot so the party in question can hear it plainly. That way I have my say without having to argue with anyone else. I'm just having a simple convo with my panda, like any sensible girl. :ticking:

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I don’t have anyone in my life like that. Last person I let that close cheated on me. Since then the only ones interested either rejected me after a few dates or turned out to be crazy. Apparently you have to be crazy to want me in any manner.



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Haha, trick question... nobody loves me. #SadPanda

More seriously, though, I go back through our conversations (live or digital) to confirm that I'm right, they're wrong, then I just forgive them anyway. Or I realize they were right, I'm wrong, and I ask them to forgive me. Ultimately, when having a "beserk button", if you will, that your SO just happens to push from time to time, you either communicate and compromise until the issue is resolved, or you resign yourself to the fact this current relationship is not the right one for you. Then you end it and look elsewhere. At a stretch, you might realize that you're overreacting to the situation, calm down and then repeat step one above.

tl;dr - either talk it out until you have a better understanding of each other that will strengthen your relationship, or decide it's a deal-breaker, separate and find someone else.


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