Personal Flaws About Yourself?

[Xylosian 140]

• Bit of a chain smoker, I can't go a day without some a cigarette or two

I become extremely irrational when I get upset even for trivial reasons

Stress, I can get extremely stressed for any reason big or small

Edited January 23, 2016 by SuperXylosian

[Troblems 5,619]

• I can be really rude. I've always known that, but excused it based on me being 'truthful'. However after it was pointed out to me recently, I agree I need to work on it.
• If there's something I'm disinterested in, my mind nopes out. Be it conversation or entertainment, if I don't care about it, my eyes glaze over, and I'm off somewhere else in my mind.
• I tend to impulse buy video games. It's about the only thing I'm impulsive about, and I wish I could make it stop.

[SammySen 40]

 

Main ones -

-My face

-My awkwardness

-My clumsiness

-I procrastinate a lot, which is a bad thing if you wanna be an author

-My handwriting

-My voice

-The spots on my arms

-My stomach

-I'm very anxious

[Nerdy Luigi 2,065]

1. My handwriting looks like the handwriting of a 3rd grader. I can't fix it no matter how hard I try. I think the cause is my hand twitches.

2. I have a lot of blemishes on my skin, and I just flat out look like the ugly duckling, except human.

3. I'm lazy. I procrastinate a lot. I try to control it and it never works. I just keep on doing my work later than I should.

4. I have fairly frequent moods, particularly agitation and depression. I also get hyper out of nowhere for absolutely no reason at all. Not even on a sugar high, or even excited about anything. It just simply "occurs."

5. My voice is absurdly deep. It's pretty bad for a girl, even a transgender, to have a voice like mine that registers with bass clef baritones.

6. My complete inability to properly socialize with most people. I'm the most socially awkward thing you will ever see.

7. I get easily obsessed with things. However only certain specific things. It's one strange characteristic.

8. I constantly live like a nervous wreck. Uncontrollably. Pacing around, cracking, starting 1-sided conversations... I get extremely worried even without reason.

9. My obsession with being negative.

 

 

Weird how these all fit together... Like pieces to a puzzle perhaps? Possibly...

[GiFTGewEhrSCHutzen-4 8,828]

Well here are my flaws:

-I tend to forget stuff.

-I can't speak spontaneously, guess I'm a guy who speaks short.

-I feel like some of my grammar ain't perfect.

-I'm hot headed and times rage overwhelms me.

[Lost 1,410]

I have many flaws, it's what makes us human but my biggest ones would have to be...

 

I have issues completing projects, I will start something with great enthusiasm but I rarely end up finishing it. It's something I'm trying to work on but I'm still not getting too far with it

 

Another flaw I have is that I have a tendency to leave my work until the last minute, especially true for my university work, i always pass and do well but if I can do well having only worked on it the night before, I imagine that had I spent the full allotted time on it then I would get higher grades.

[Lord Bradley 1,319]

Welp, here it goes,

 

-Horrible Memory

-Softhearted

-Tries to dismiss problems with comedy

-Lazy

-Bit too harsh in my wording/tone

 

And at the courtesy of Problem Nr.1, I cannot remember anymore. I might have something more in my Random Facts section of my profile... Oh well. Does'ne matter.

[Justin_Case001 4,902]

• Social anxiety

Perfectionist, expect too much from myself, overly hard on myself

Low self-esteem, low confidence

When I get nervous, my brain has to divert more system resources to basic functions, such as breathing/heartrate, and my higher brain functions begin to fail.  Math skills are the first to go.  If I'm really nervous, I can't add 2 and 2.  At my first job as a cashier, I stared at a drawer of quarters trying to make 50 cents in change and couldn't do it.  (And I swear to Celestia I'm smart.)  Next to go is dexterity, then vocabulary.  I can practically hear my brain grinding away like a over-burdened computer processor.  I spam click on the simple math function, but it just doesn't respond.  When I stop being nervous, everything comes back.

My nose looks like the beak of a toucan.

[LiquidEmerald5 25]

I feel like my biggest personality flaw is my tendency to be extremely emotional. It isn't a normal day for me unless I've cried at least once before bed, and that's on a good day. It doesn't help that I feel like I'm too much of a burden or annoyance to people to even tell my own friends my feelings. I'm also very selfish, but also would never ask for anything even if my life depended on it. I'm kind of a walking contradiction. I want to be all these wonderful things but I'm way to shy to even croak out a "Hello" most of the time. 

[King 5,625]

Im lazy, I lie, I have a tendency to become really agitated if Im tired or annoyed and Im hard headed.

[Detritus 258]

Like many others here, I have crippling social anxiety. I turn into a bumbling idiot if I have to interact with another person.

 

 

I also have Crohn's disease, which saps my energy, gives me terrible abdominal pain, makes me puke my guts up, causes me to lose a ton of weight, and causes me to become dangerously anemic.

 

 

I'm also totally inept at any kind of sport. If there's a ball coming toward me, I'll put my hands up to catch it after it has already flown past me. Either that, or the ball will end up hitting me in the crotch.

 

People often tell stories about how they were always picked last for teams... Well, I can top that. There were multiple times when I didn't even get picked at all. They just walked off and left me standing there. I didn't much care though. Whenever that happened, I just ran around the field randomly and pretended I was doing something.

[Steel Accord 6,660]

Let's see here, procrastinator . . . . rather obviously I'm doing that right now.

 

My biggest sin, of the Seven Deadly variety though, is sloth. Related to the above but I do not meet expectations that I set for myself. I've told myself I would get in shape and the "first day of a new routine" have themselves been serial.

[kageyuki 59]

I'm very shy and hate talking to poeople face to face

I have a lot of fears 

I cry alot

[Nila Bean 133]

I'm very stubborn...I like doing things my own way. Barely like admitting when I'm wrong.

 

Sometimes I have a tendency to be a little hot headed ^^....depends on my state of mind. 

[MasterSpark95 430]

• I don't respond very well to criticism, I can be too sensitive about it and take it as an insult.

• Sometimes I can get offended way too easily over minor things, mistakes, or accidents.

I have low self esteem.

I'm horrible at sports, running, and other PE-type stuff

I haven't got that much patience at all... I can wait for a little while, but if you make me wait for at least 20 minutes or more, I'm out of there in the blink of an eye.

I can also be a bit stubborn... you know, the "it's my way or the highway", kind of thing.

I'm horrible at math, I don't understand or know how to do any of it.

I have a super short-temper at times, and I can be very hot-headed.

I'm really lazy, I procrastinate a lot.

If someone betrays me or bullies me, it'll stick with me forever. Like an elephant never forgets, I never forget or forgive, either.

I have trust issues, I also have a lot of trouble forgiving people for stuff.

I sometimes may say or do things without thinking.

I also can be very selfish sometimes.

Edited April 20, 2016 by iNachos10

[Swift Marquis 327]

        After days like Mine

                     I just fEel like loosing it

                       Like Mice I keep falling into a trap

                         A hOle, filled with nothing... no support.... no light... no logic

         But after every Rainy day, I still find the strenght to help those who remember me

   Just a little memorY, I want to keep my memory ...that is my wish

Edited February 19, 2016 by Swift Sty

[----- 477]

I want to voice some of the MLP characters but my voice fits none of them. 

 

Also, I am an extreme perfectionist. '-'

Edited February 19, 2016 by Fluidty

[N.W. 3,619]

• I overthink things and as a result over complicate them
• Often as a result of such, I stress a fair bit
• Sometimes I'm too quiet for my own good
• Procrastinate. 

People often say I beat myself up or am too harsh on myself sometimes, and that might be true, but it's also worth mentioning I enjoy depression to an extent.

That is another topic entirely however.

[Kronos the Revenant 1,971]

I'm born into a family that wants me to suffer every living second of my life.

[Frequency Wavelength 45]

Here goes, I'm pretty odd I think.

 

Video game anxiety:

I can play video games but I'm not that good so I never really got into gaming apart from playing Pokemon, Quake 3 Arena and Age of Empires 2 ages ago. I've never owned any consoles, only Nintendo handhelds mainly for Pokemon. I usually went to my cousin's place to verse him in games. Even at Brony meets I will have a go at versing the others when they're playing, even though I don't have confidence in playing.

With video games it's like that I feel like I shouldn't be playing them in the first place. In my personal opinion, I felt like my life was wasting away while I was playing video games, so it created anxiety because we get anxiety when we are not happy with what is.

I've read up on this, looks like I'm not alone on this one.

 

Telephone anxiety:

If I'm precalling my customers the night before to let them know that I'm coming, I pretty much stick to what I usually say and have no problem. If I'm on the phone, Skype call, Teamspeak voice channel chat room then I get really nervous. Usually with a one on one phone call, I'll try to get straight to the point or say what I want to say, then say "Is that all?" and try to end the call.

 

Social anxiety:

If I'm with customers or people I know I'm fine but if I'm invited to a meet up which I've never met anyone before like a Cosplay meet I went to recently, I would get really anxious and just stand there and wait for my friends to arrive. My first Brony meet I was really nervous.

 

I'm also not good at sports, not into sports, I struggle with mental arithmetic, and luckily I know my timetables at least. I have low self esteem but I'm great at my job.

[Solid Snake 282]

Not good with strangers, doesn't like giggly girls and I'm harsh on myself.

[Member Berry 1,217]

• Anxiety (generalised anxiety disorder)

I'm socially awkward. I used to be socially anxious and I'm still a little but I gave up caring about what people think about me as I've gotten older.

I have little self-discipline.

My spelling sucks (thank God for Google and spell check)

I procrastinate a lot.

I wouldn't say I have a bad memory as I can remember random days and weird things perfectly but I'm bad at revising for exams and retaining important information.

I have a condition called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome (Classical - Type 2) and get joint and muscular pain. It also makes me tired a lot. Luckily I don't have it half as bad as some other people with the condition. Some people are wheelchair bound because of it. I can't walk long periods or stand for long periods though.

I don't like confrontation and just pretend to agree with people to avoid arguments.

Edited April 18, 2016 by Kayleigh

[Luminance 2,186]

I procrastinate a little, well maybe more than normal.

I'm laid back, it's a trait rather than a flaw.

I also think I have a weird voice.

[Kapitan zur See Hans (Daz) 883]

I have a correction issue upon certain facts/opinions. I am most certainly not trying to be PC or anything, but it is just hard not to state the truth. Doesn't occur so much online as it does in real life(Almost unconscious reaction).

[captainborgue 343]

 

This thread is for a little self reflection about yourself. Review yourself, maybe give your self some constructive criticism on how to improve yourself without having to completely change who you are because hey, there's no changing that.

 

 

I have very little patience with people in general, and am slow to forgive if at all. Part of it is working in a field where failing to follow a direction given could actually get someone killed, part of it comes from actually having been dead- albeit briefly. If I am asking a person to do something, I have a reason for it, I will even explain what it is and why it's important, but failing to act on it will get my dander up in a big hurry.

 

I also have little to no tolerance for pettiness or drama. Being an adult with my shit together and despising people prying into my life, I assume that other adults can likewise handle their affairs without direct intervention. I couldn't possibly care less who is sleeping with who or what so-and-so said at the water cooler or why anyone on Earth cares about whichever celebrity/sportsball player did or said something stupid. I get that people have varied interests and opinions, but I'm not going to go digging around into their lives and I expect the same treatment of me. Someone wants to know about my ideological position, religious affiliation, or sportsball opinion? I will tell them, but I'm not going to follow it up with "now tell me everything about that same topic from your perspective" because if it were actually important, I would think they'd tell me anyway- and if it isn't, why bother telling me at all?

 

I intensely dislike the concept of 'fitting in'. I'm not going to change who I am to integrate into an environment where the altered version of me is acceptable, because then I'd be lying, and I don't do lying. Not to mention, it does a disservice to all involved- I have to keep pretending to be something I'm not, and the group assumes this new member (me) is a wonderful addition when in fact the genuine article is not a good fit whatsoever.

 

There's more- because if you get to be my age and live through  the crap I have you accrue personal flaws and failings like they were currency- but these are the main ones.