general Do you have a social life

[Winter Storm 262]

Not really, I'm not certain how you're even supposed to make irl friends once you're out of college, not that I had any while I was in college.

[Dita Bear 296]

Not really.  I enjoy being a loner.  I've cut a lot of toxic people out of my life (a lot of them were former school friends too) and I'm far happier.

On the other hand, I do have a decent amount of online friends that I talk to on a regular basis, and I also stay in contact with my late sister's friend group

Edited December 15, 2023 by Dita Bear

[Bright Honor 2,722]

No not really. Everyone i try to make plans with bails on me/ghosts me. I have issues due to my life experiences and aspergers syndrome. I try but like i said above.

Think of me as a friendly loner.

[daviddaviddavid 779]

An extrovert would probably consider it depressing, but I'm extremely happy with my social life. I usually see my best friends once a week, my family once a week, and I get a decent amount of socialising at work too. I sort of need the rest as downtime.

[Retro*Derpy 3,201]

Not in the slightest, I talk to like two or three people a year.

[Clawdeen 16,078]

Things are moving into a trajectory for me where a social life isn't going to be possible. I don't hate that. I feel bad for these people on bumble who were hoping to form a connection with me but I'm just too busy. Not only that buuuut I already lost interest. I know what would be best for me and it's really not any sort of online/app dating. It's only going to become even more busier for me. Swimming in the sea of work that's coming to me in just one week has me pretty excited. This is a great opportunity to prove myself and will also lead to more reasons for a pay raise. Which means I could hopefully afford a place of my own. My successful business woman dreams are finally getting into motion. Honestly these meetings at work are really enough people interaction for me. I say that as an extrovert. 

[Treeglow Flicker 14,037]

No actual offline social life.

I wish I had one though. But that'll come someday once all my plans fall into place.

[Ganondorf8 11,460]

Not sure if I answered this before, but I'll go ahead and answer it anyway.

I don't have a social life and to be honest, it's probably for the best that I don't. With my disability and my overall sour outlook on life, I much prefer my own company. Sure, it may not sound glamourous, but it's the life I chose to lead.

[abronymouse 6,134]

I'm close to a few IRL ponies daily, which I'm very thankful for

lost touch with many others largely my fault, that

[Silly Druid 7,462]

To quote a certain red stallion:

Nope.

[Snow 8,179]

I never did have much of a going out social life until I got into cars, since buying my little rusty rocket I've met so many people 

I now drive to a meet up spot every Saturday night that I can make it and I even go some Friday nights as well, we'll usually stay into the wee hours (1-3am) chatting and whatnot.

I find cars an especially good hobby because everyone arrives in their conversation starter and if ever I've had enough for the night my little private space and ticket outa here is within spitting distance.

[Clawdeen 16,078]

Yeah not really. Does talking to the demons in my head count? What about the ghosts in my bedroom? 

[starty 16]

No, I have friends online mostly. Some time ago I decided to find love online and I found one dating site. I’ve had some amazing experiences, and I’m excited to keep exploring. Highly recommend for anyone who wants to meet fun, open-minded people. I think online dating is great option for single people.

Edited March 3 by starty

[Astralshy 28,620]

I have a social life. It's maybe not as big as with other people, but I do have one

I have friends and I like to meet them and have a good time with them

 

[Treeglow Flicker 14,037]

Still nope.

All my social interactions are online. Offline, a stranger I remain. 

[zerox 1,190]

If I exclude talks with my mom I'm without any social life.

[Acinonyx 453]

Never learnt how to socialize when I was younger as no-one appreciated it and now it's pretty much impossible to have a social life.

[ComanderZhabikKlavik 3,896]

Social life? What is that?

Edited Wednesday at 05:30 PM by ComanderZhabikKlavik

[Finding_Marty 879]

No, not really. Social life requires time and engagement. When I was younger I was told to work very hard and was scolded for every mistake I made. It was terribly wrong...

[mistrene 237]

I do, I love my friends! Although they’re difficult to manage when you’re really passionate about college and your hobbies and having to deal with chronic illness on top of that. I really have to plan my activities properly to get enough rest or else it’s migraine galore. 

I often hang out with a buddy who’s also chronically ill, so we can find that low energy, comfy peace together with just watching movies and playing games.

I wish I was more able to visit meetups and conventions in the Dutch MLP and furry community, but it’s just painful to walk and stand for more than a few hours.

 

[MintGlow 87]

I do not have a social life (well outside the internet), but I have a couple friends that I know irl and it's curious that they have a very active social life, I'm like the exception in the group