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1 minute ago, Dreambiscuit said:

Aside from the three I mentioned in an earlier post, I can now add my own wedding. To be honest it wasn’t a great experience for me. I was sick with nerves and couldn’t focus on anything. I wasn’t nervous about what was happening; I wanted to get married and knew I wouldn’t regret it. But when it comes to certain kinds of anxiety it doesn’t have to be logical, and my illogical mind was spinning out of control. So I went through the motions mechanically and got through it. As with anything new and momentous I knew I’d be fine after about two weeks and I was correct. That’s when I really settled into it and felt normal again. My wedding was private, with only myself, the groom, a best man, maid of honor and of course the priest. If anyone else would have been there I’d have frozen up completely. I thoroughly advocate marriage; I just prefer to get through it quickly and simply as possible.

The dream wedding. :pinkie:;)

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I've been to four - my aunt's (I was the ringbearer although I was 4 so barely remember any of it), my uncle's, and two of my cousins (as in, they had separate weddings - they didn't marry each other). My uncle's wedding was definitely the most grandiose I'd ever been to - he's British but lives in Spain and married a Spanish girl so they had the wedding over there in her hometown. The ceremony was in a small church in the mountains, and the reception was in a fancy hotel in the valley below. The food was incredible (largely, all I'll say is caviar is overrated and gross), the venue was great, and we actually caught part of a bull-fight as the hotel had a huge balcony that overlooked a bull ring. I have absolutely no idea how much that wedding must've cost, but the figure was probably eye-watering.

I must admit that while I do like weddings, I find them a bit awkward - especially as every member of my family takes the opportunity to mention to me that "I'll be next" and I never have any idea how to respond to such comments.

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I believe I went to a wedding once, yes. I was a kid and it was my half brother. It's too long ago, I can't remember anything from it anymore.

I'm not a fan of such events in general. I rejected the only other time I was invited to one. But I would love to go if it was a really close friend. <3 :coco:

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