That is tough... having a daughter who want's to be JUST like you... when in truth... that's the last thing you want her to be... you want her to be anything but you, because you realize how flawed you really are...
people always walk around like they are perfect... until it smacks them in the face, and when it does... they fall so hard that it takes a long time to get back on your feet again. Trust me, I know how THAT feels, even though I'm twelve... my mom says I've matured incredibly, and I guess I have, when I think back in life, I've never really had friends my age. they are always significantly older, and I hadn't realized it until a couple moths ago, and when I did, I felt like something was wrong with me. I'm guessing you already know how that feels.