Are there any family members you hate with a burning passion?

[GottlosMann 221]

Probably a cousin of mine. She's a bible-thumping fundie, and she constantly complains to my parents on Facebook, rarely directly to me, even though I'm now an adult, that I'm openly not a Christian. By openly not Christian, I mean I share pictures from atheist pages I like sometimes.

She straight-up looks down on me for being an atheist. She never talks to me unless it's to moan that I don't think the way she does about god. She doesn't know one more thing about me, and she hates my guts. I may not be the best person alive, but I deserve better treatment than that from my family.

[Troblems 5,619]

I know you're supposed to love and tolerate and all that, and I Know it's cliche, but I can't stand my mother in law. She's always got the best advise (in her eyes), and has made such amazing suggestions as:

 - My back hurts once in a while, but I still go to work every day

 - I think you should decide to feel better

 - The Christian thing to do is (fill in the blank)

I'm not *%($&*&*#$ Christian woman. Leave me alone. Don't call me every day. I avoid your calls for a reason. I don't need your crappy emails about older adult housing to send to my parents.

 

Leave me alone!

[Moved to Elsewhere 11,331]

Well I have this cousin who I think is 11 now who just loves to troll me. He one time tried to turn off my Pokemon game without saving and he can be a jerk to me when I'm playing video games with him. He's also one of those kids with an ipad so me and some of my older cousins are just like "What the heck!"

[Harmonic Revelations 8,835]

My dad was quite frankly an asshole. He was so misogynistic and racist and just generally an ignorant and hateful person that his twenty years of military service do not earn him any respect from me. In addition, he was very manipulative and often cheated people. He didn't steal, I swear he could talk somebody out of anything with his "pity me" stories.

 

I think I'm the only person on Earth he was nice to with honest intent, everybody else was just him being manipulated.

 

Like I said, he disrespected women and was very racist, two things I despise him for.

 

I'm actually kind of glad he's dead, to be honest.

 

It took me a long time to grow out of the way of thinking that was caused by being around him, and I'm glad I did. I want to be nothing like him.

 

At least my father cared about me and loved me, I can't say the same for my mother. I was almost hospitalized for an asthma attack because she refused to quit chain-smoking in my presence. In addition, she was a very selfish and greedy person.

 

I'm glad she's gone, too.

 

 

Sometimes I feel like there was some way I could have intervened, that I could have solved our problems. But then I realize that I should know better than that, hateful people deserve to fail (Even though in this world, they rarely do). I use them as an example of what I don't want to end up being like. They put many people through a whole lot of suffering which is why I always try to be sympathetic and caring/considerate when it comes to other people.

Edited November 15, 2013 by Harmonic Revelations

[Grand_Finale 529]

I wouldn't exactly call him family, but my stepdad (they were never married though) cheated on my mom and abandoned all of us, including his own children, to go play house with another family. Frankly I would prefer it if I never saw his face again

[Nulln 755]

I hate someone my mom was married to, but I would NEVER consider it family.  He's a child molester and murderer and has gotten away with all of his crimes and still lives with some poor little girl that is being abused but the courts won't believe her and neither will her mom.

 

So for that, I guess I almost hate my mom.  She's just an awful person in general, also.  

 

I have a few murderers and other such crazies in my family, but I've never really talked to them so I can't say I hate them.

[MLP Moth 224]

My uncle well not really. Probably just because he calls me a fag because I like MLP. He knows I love it I dont know why he tries so hard to get me to hate. Well he's a douche sometimes.

[The Leafeon Pinkeh 3,603]

I dont hate anyone in my family. Hate is a big word. And pretty much everyone in my family is nice most of the time. :DD

[ChoroChii 284]

My parents raise my anxiety a lot. My Dad just generally scares me and my Mom never leaves me alone and I feel like she is always talking. I like, can't get any relaxation in my own house. 

 

There are a lot of reasons why I don't like them but I don't wanna get into that.