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End of an Era


Arylett Charnoa

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Oh no, not another leaving post!

 

Yes, another leaving post. But believe me. When I make a leaving post, I mean it. This will probably be the last time you will ever see me on here again. As a mod, and as a regular poster. I'm leaving my post as head of RP World and global moderator. I'm leaving MLP Forums.

 

The reasons are a relatively complicated affair that involve my absolute frustration at the management here, and the overall heightened stupidity since I joined. Yes, it is because the forums have changed. You've seen this reason before. But it isn't because I dislike change (though I do, but this particular instance isn't). Once accustomed to it, I can adapt and come to like it though it takes a while. It's because I dislike the actual changes themselves that have happened. They have made this place far less interesting to post in. Frankly, outside of my roleplays, I'm not really interested in much of anything here.

 

Moderation especially of RP World is one of the most frustrating and hopeless affairs I've ever taken part in. Since I've started, I've met with not only a lack of progress (a downhill spiral into worse and smaller quality with markedly little improvement), but overall disrespect of my section, and lack of interest. The amount of roleplayers on here is about 3% of the 5,000 members. And overall, I feel it's pointless to continue. It's like fighting the tides.

 

In my opinion, there was far too much concern with quantity over quality, and this place got too big too fast. It's no longer a place I wish to be associated with.

 

My life is starting brand new by next year. It's moving in all sorts of different directions, I'm going to college in January, and I've got some great things ahead of me. It's time to leave the things that cause me nothing but unnecessary stress and pain behind, and to proceed into the future. I'll be creating my own RP forums (though not for a very long time) based on my original concepts of Arylettopia. Nothing to do with ponies. (I'm kind of tired of being around the pony fandom anyway. It's just full of things that irritate me to hell and back.)

 

It was fun, and I got to learn a lot of things about leadership, management, and gain confidence in myself at having power. I got to meet some great people. (Two new best friends) And learn things from them. I got to experience actually being noticed, and having my stuff looked at. But the fact of the matter is, I no longer feel anything but negative emotions and stress, and lack of motivation to moderate or post. This is supposed to be a place I come to for stress relief and to forget about my troubles, not make new ones.

 

So... it's been fun, guys, but everything must come to an end. Time to end the chapter of MLP Forums in my story, and start anew. In a new era. A new year. And maybe find another forum to bum about on whilst I create mine. (Not going to lie, I know the likelihood of making a successful forum is nill. Not naive, but I'll try anyway.)

 

You can contact me in the places on my profile.

 

See you all if I see you.

 

Goodbye.

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well, i hate to see people go, and especially some one like you, i dont think there is any better place on the whole internet better than this place, but i hope you find happyness where ever you may go

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Oh my gosh.

I am actually close to tears right now.

 

 

Not to sound rude and you are a good guy and all, and I do respect you but, the guy who has been telling us not to be sad about things like this, is sad. :/

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Not to sound rude and you are a good guy and all, and I do respect you but, the guy who has been telling us not to be sad about things like this, is sad. :/

We're not doing this here.

Private message me. Now.

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ohhhh this sucks!! Arylett, you're one of my favorite mods, and you leave specially when I was discovering the RP section U_U

maybe it's true that you can grow out of MLP, oh well,

 

Arylett I wish you the best on your future, I'm going to miss your OC badly! >_<

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Goodbye, Arylett. I'm not going to try to convince you to stay, I know when you've made your final decision. Even still, I wish there was something more that I could have done.

 

Your memory will still live on through your friends. Maybe one day you'll visit the forums again and see the impact your presence has made.

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This is... unexpected. Then again, given your reasons, maybe not.

 

Good to know that you're going to college, and that your life is expected to improve. I know we got off on the wrong foot back in the days of unmoderated RPing, but I have come to respect you greatly since then, and hope you do well.

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For as long as I've been on this forum (8 months now), you've been a constant sight on the forums. Through the RPs you ran, I even got to know you a bit. I could feel your passion for your craft, and how much you wanted to be a force for good on these forums. It is extremely disheartening to see you go. I hope your life will be much better now that you've broken off from this site, and wish you luck in all your future endeavors.

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Excuse my language but....

Fuck, just fuck......

 

Anyone but you!

Sigh...... This is the only time i`ve ever been sad when someone leaves.

After all, i like you a lot. You have been one of the very few people i've feelt safe talking to. And with that i want to say, thank you and good luck!

I will miss you, a lot.

 

And who is suppose to take the role as banana woman man?!

You will be greatly missed.

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I haven't really got much of a chance to know you, Arylett. However, from what I have seen when I first made my appearance here in the forums, you are a very kind, understanding, but firm moderator here in MLPforums. I'll be honest, you gave me inspiration and determination to do RPs and join in the conversations here. It's just a shame that we couldn't spend a bit more time having fun here, but I can understand your decision and will not try to plead you into staying. Still, it is sad though.

 

I will miss you and Artsy here at MLPforums. Sayanora, Arylett. >_<

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Goodbye Arylett. I'm not gonna bitch and moan about your departure. If it's what you want, who am I to get in the way of your happiness? I will however wish you the greatest of luck in whatever your future holds. I know how you feel and most of the time I question whether I want to stick around here as well. Regardless, Arylett, you really gave some character to this forum and I'm pretty sure we'll all miss you.

 

Goodbye.

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Well another good friend leaving.

These moments are always a bit sad, especially since it seems more and more leave everyday, but I'm fine with it because you are leaving on your own terms to help move on in your life. Which is something to be encouraged actually.

 

This place has changed quite a bit hasn't it. Hell, I hardly use it. I'm mostly here just to talk to a select few people. I'm glad its a place for others to enjoy even if people like you and me aren't getting too much out of it.

 

Good luck in your future endeavors!

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This horrible, since the start of my membership here I have spent the vast majority of my time on the RP section. So what is the future going to look like in my beloved RP section now that a great moderator is leaving? This is extremely sad and frightening.

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I'm beginning to see more and more people leaving... you being a high-up it kinda matters most cause but it's easily understandable especially when ya need to choose between the 2 worlds. This may not mean much from me but as part of the 3% i respect what you have done as high up,head of RP World,

 

See ya and good luck.

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Quite?

 

Oh well, what is done cannot be undone. Good luck with college and life. Also, I assumed the moderating staff had a consensus on the changes, but guess not.

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It's sad to see you go. :(

 

But know this, you still have friends by your side, no matter what, and we'll always be there for you whenever you're needed. <3

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Oh...

well ok, then.

 

I never got to know you a lot, mostly because I don't roleplay, but it's always sad to see an important member like you leave the forums. But I certainly respect your choice of leaving the forums.

 

But if you ever get nostalgic or something, don't hesitate to come back just to say hello, as a regular member, without all the stress of being a mod.

 

Good luck in whatever else you're going to do from this point! :D

 

(ah, this is the first time I ever posted a comment on a blog... I don't like these blog things so much tbh.. I find them a bit pointless.. Aaaanyway)

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