You too!
I think it just depends on the person and situation. A new Citizen Soldier song came out called "Sit In Your Shadows" that was all about how sometimes if nothing else works, you can just meet someone where they're at and just be present with them. I think that's what people tend to desire the most and if they want advice, they'll most likely ask for it. There isn't always a clear-cut way of helping people, though, so sometimes you just have to take a risk and experiment!
Also, since I really wanted an excuse to post this, here you go, here's the song: