How did you ask her/him out?

[Untitled Goose Q 5,137]

Neither of us really asked the other out, it was more a mutual expression of feelings and then things went from there.

[Pinkie D Pie 1,036]

I shall tell the whole story since its kinda interesting, to me at least.

 

It all started on October 21st, 2013. I was at play rehearsal for the school wide play when a girl walked up to me and said, "dearly!" This surprised me a great deal. I was wearing a derpy lanyard. I turned around and saw a girl wearing a fluttershy shirt and went "uh.... Ummmm.... Wha..... You!" We talked a little but not much, and about two weeks later, after talking for a little bit and getting to know each other, she asked me to the snowball semi formal.... Or a school dance. I agreed instantly or well after a few moments of surprise. Later that day I asked for her number and we texted... Alot.... So much I had to go to unlimited texts. A few weeks after this, on November 23rd, a Saturday, and last night of the play, I showed up with flowers. I hid them for awhile then put them in a band practice room. I didn't know how I was going to ask her out, but through some technical advice through one of my two advisors, I wrote her a note asking her to meet me in the practice room. She showed up and through sheer luck,I managed to stammer out "um...yeah....little awkward....I...I um got you flowers... Will you... Um... Go out with me like dating thing? *awkward smile*" she surprisingly said yes and bam I had a girlfriend.

 

This was my first time asking a girl out,and to this day we are still dating.

[Sigma 768]

Yeah I haven't really asked anyone out before... *le sigh* It sucks being forever alone... maybe we can just all be forever alone together? 

 

(Jumps back.)

 

Woah! You have the exact same profile picture as a physicist I saw on scienceforums.net. I thought you were him for a moment!

 

Anyways, I've asked people out before; hardly any of them accepted, and none of them lasted long. Usually, it starts with me attempting frequent small talk, finding out that I'm horrible at it, and then just being completely transparent with them; no buildup whatsoever.

 

I hope I get in a serious relationship one day.

[Discordian 6,015]

I asked my last girlfriend out over a Xat chat. That's about as creative as I'm ever going to be. Especially if I never ask anyone out ever again.

[Shift 4,272]

I never asked anyone out because all the people I see are idiots and all of the boys are complete jerks and love never was interesting for me anyway, but somebody did ask me out by just coming up to me and asking it and I said 'nope' and walked away. So, yeah. 

[Bronychan1214 150]

Asking? What is this asking? To what? To eat some spaghetti? (I'm so lonely )....(lol)

[MontanaDash 39]

I've never asked a guy out. I'm very shy. I had few guys asked me out and I turned one of them down as I had a bad feeling about him and he got all ticked off and stormed off. I was just following my gut feelings. Then I found out he's a Child Molester. Yikes! Oh, I'm adult.

 

There is this guy I do like and I'm not sure if he's showing any signs that he likes me. I would love to ask him out. I'm so shy. I'm thinking he's showing signs that he likes me. But, not sure.

Edited June 21, 2014 by MontanaDash

[Pinkamena-Pills 6,839]

Admittedly i just asked my last gf "Is it ok that i might love you?" and i got a "Maybe..." as we had been friends for months.

 

 

Turns out 5yrs later it wasn't ok that i loved her.  :okiedokielokie:

Ginger's are evil!   

No offense to any non-evil ginger's out there   

  

 

 

[LZRD WZRD 1,929]

I went up and was like, "sup babe ya wanna see Equestria Girls wid me?"

 

Nah, I kid. I might have to do that for Rainbow Rocks though for the lolz

Edited June 21, 2014 by LZRD WZRD

[Unr3alGamer 230]

I'm only 15, and I haven't asked anyone out yet. Once I get a job and I'm able to drive a car, then I'll consider it. Although I want to at least make friends with someone before asking them out so it comes more naturally rather than just walking up to someone and say "You want to date?". 

[lincolnshirepony 527]

I've never asked anyone out initially. My ex was the one who asked me out. He asked me to go prom with him while we were at a band event together. After we became boyfriend and girlfriend, I did ask him out on dates sometimes. We traded off with the asking, but there usually wasn't any fanfare about it. I did get a little creative when my school had a Sadie Hawkins Dance. I got a box of chocolates and wrote on it asking if he would go with me, and then I put it in the passenger seat of my car, so he'd see it when he got in.

 

I might ask someone out eventually though. I just haven't met anyone I'd be interested in dating yet. I'd probably wait to build a solid friendship first, and see if they had any of the signs of a crush. If so, I'd probably ask them, if they didn't beat me to it.

[Sugar & Sins 156]

Never really been creative about it but, i've never been shy or nervous about it either, the way I see it the worst they can say is "No".

[TwilightFire 55]

I never asked anyone out because of my shyness. Basically I kept to myself for reasons that I couldn't trust anyone.

[crisahys 149]

I had it easy with asking my boyfriend out because I was friends with him first, and when I invited him to the movies with my godmother, I felt the biggest urge to strap my arms to him, and when we got home, my godmother dropped us off and went home, and during the time him and I were watching TV, thank god we did not get laid, but I had my thoughts on marrying him though. I had not even thought that an invitation for a friend could ever land me my first date! I just don't know how that happen, or better yet...

[Snow Frostflame 3,568]

I dont like talking about my past relationship I have been Single ever since it and no I didnt get creative at all if you count being a Fluttershy while not knowing of the Brony fandom's existence creative then it was gold

[Ashen Pathfinder 16,162]

I...never did...

 

You see, the last relationship I had was an online one that lasted from 2003 to 2007, and it's one that I still hold fondly (though not obsessively so). In the end, we never really asked each other out or anything, our mutual attraction just lead us closer till another friend finally pointed the obvious out to the both of us.

 

Funny how that works, eh? Who knows, it may happen again.

[Away 2,077]

I didn't "ask her out" per say...

 

Warning: Pretty cheesy.

 

She and I had been good friends on the forums for several months by the time I started crushing on her. I was very shy about it at first and tried not to seem too obvious. I started talking to her more often and even drew her a few pony pics. :3 Ever since the beginning though, I knew I would have to tell her at some point. So I decided to confess to her on Valentine's weekend. I got nervous just thinking about it. >.< I asked her what she was doing for the occasion and she said she just spent it feeling pretty lonely. I felt so sad to see her upset and I wanted to comfort her. I felt like this was the best opportunity I was gonna get, so I went for it and told her my feelings. At first, I sorta held back and just told her how wonderful of a person she was and that she seemed like she would be a great parter. But by then, I really couldn't hold it in anymore and I finally just said it. I told her that I liked her more than as just a friend. I told her how cute and funny she was and how I always loved talking to her. I can't remember exactly how I said it but it was pretty cheesy lol. And to my almost disbelief, she had feelings for me too. The moment she told me, I was almost in shock (she was pretty surprised when I told her too lol). And so right there and then, we became a couple. And we've been in this happy relationship ever since.

 

Edited July 1, 2014 by LatinoChurro

[LightningMana 146]

Notebook of furry porn, and bust out a PS2 into a student lounge

 

That's how I met my first husband o3o

[Canvas 1]

All my relationships kinda just happened thru mutual attraction. In the past, they just asked.

 

But as for my fiancé, online dating - chatting online, then texting, and then being asked to the movies!

One year later on Christmas morning, he got down on one knee, pulled out a ring, and didn't say anything in fear I'd punch him (I had a habit of doing that everytime he bought me something expensive).

[lightning-spark 34]

I have asked out many girls but last time I did it completely spur of the moment, I was very drunk at the time so all I did was asked her if she wanted to go out on a date some time. It worked very well. simplest of ways are often the most effective ways. Just don't do it too simple 

[Starflower 323]

For my previous and current relationship, I didn't do any of the asking. I mean, I've been meeeeeeeeeeeaning to do so at first because I had feelings, but I wasn't sure how it would turn out. I was pretty scared of the outcome. In my previous relationship, I got a message on myspace from him telling me all his feelings for me, and I remember I was crying at the time. I was 17 years old at the time and I never went out with anyone before, so everything was really new to me back then. I didn't even think about how to respond when he said "I really like you, will you be my gf?", I simply said "YEEEEEEEEES. ^__^ <3333!!!!!!11"

 

For my current relationship...again, he was the one that ended up asking me instead of myself. We were texting back and forth at the time, I was doing chores while he was at work. He was bored so he decided to be random around me for a little while. I got off guard with the whole thing when he said "If you like random, then that means you like me, right?" At first I wasn't sure what he was implying so I responded with a "idk how to react to that." Then he texts "That's okay. I like crazy. And I like you." I immediately fluttered and rolled around the floor with so many feels. Because, hey...I had feelings for him for a while, but I wasn't sure how to say! So I guess I got pretty lucky. We're two months in our relationship now, and all is well. <3

[Bucket 107]

This one is easy: I didnt. 

 

But really the last time I ever asked someone out was very awkwardly on a bus. I said "Hey, uh, willyougooutwithme" and hid under my hoodie. She then handed me a piece of paper on my way out (of the bus), and she had doodled a little "Yes!" It was a good year or so, then she just fell off the face of the earth and I never saw her again. 

[Throwaway19573639385 764]

Me and a friend used to play CoD a lot, we had lots of fun but our friendship kinda stayed at that. He vanished one day and popped up 9 months later, asking if I remembered him and telling me why he was gone. At that moment we actually started talking about more personal things, interests, music, all that stuff.

After a few days I told him I actually missed him a lot while he was gone, we exchanged our Skype contacts and started to talk more and more. Later I told him I liked him and asked if he'd want to go out with me, he said yes. Not that exciting, I know. But it made me really happy. Flash forward almost 3 years now and I'm still together with him, I feel like he's the one I want to stay with forever.

[Floris 287]

I haven't since I do not have anyone I "like" at the moment however.

 

 

I think I would just ask them? I don't see how you can do it otherwise.. Set a mood? "A special occasion"?

 

Give me a break, if you two truly feel the same way.. The question is what matters the most.. err- after the answer that is.

 

 

 

Don't get me wrong; I like a good mood.. But it'll only be better when you've got nothing to hide.

Edited July 5, 2014 by Floris

[HunterTSN 1,444]

I grasped his hand firmly within my own and took in every handsome curve of his face and body. Our eye's met and I leaned in closer until finally our lips pressed against each others'

 

Then my mom walked in and asked me why I was making out with a mirror.