Which element of harmony do you have the most trouble following?

[Tom Snyder 4,112]

I would have to say Magic, because i don't have much luck making friends IRL. I'm more passive and on't really try to. 

[Roketsune 388]

Magic/Leadership. Not because I'm bad at it, but because I never have an oppurtunity to express it.

 

Yeah, I am in the same position. I feel I would be a good leader given the chance, but I have not been given the opportunity, or I'm too overwhelmed to accept what few leadership obligations I have available.

 

I think aside from that, Generosity or Kindness would be the ones I struggle with the most. I am courteous and friendly by default, but I'm also afraid of people. I'm honestly misanthropic and, especially after the major defeats and letdowns I've incurred in the last month even with furries, I'm simply very reluctant to put myself at risk emotionally again. This factor also limits my level of generosity, but practical concerns about resources also play a role in that.

[FluffyGoat13 375]

All of them except honesty and magic (because I'm a bloody wizard). The only reason why I don't struggle with honesty is because I have a reputation for being brutally honest. Here's why I struggle with the others one by one (atheist confession time yay!):

 

-Loyalty, I don't struggle to much with this one. But I have betrayed people's trust a lot before.

-Laughter, I have a sense of humour but it is at the expense of other people. I have a sarcastic, critical, and somewhat sadistic sense of humour. Case closed.

-Generosity, generally if I have something it's mine and you aren't getting it. Unless it's yours and I'm just holding it.

-Kindness, annoying people is fun. People falling over and hurting themselves is funny. Someone getting friendzoned is funny. I am an asshole.

 

There ya go. I am an asshole. I am not proud of that.

Edited February 23, 2015 by BritishBrony 13

[Mrain901 216]

Probably either magic(leadership) or honesty. Though I realized I'm actually a lot more honest online than in real life.

[Wooona 29]

I'd say optimism. I've been bullied a lot, and have gotten to be very cynical and mistrustful of other people (sometimes even my close friends). I guess I just find it hard to see the good in other people.

[knuckles 150]

kindness cause sometimes i become harshly and very serious when discussing something :okiedokielokie:

 

really i wish be more capable of being clam and be open minded

[#1FluttershyFan 206]

I would have to say magic is my worst since I didn't get my hogwarts letter yet but other than that, I would have to say laughter. I'm not the most optimistic person. I think I'm okay with the others.

[Holiday Agnaktor 1,436]

I have trouble being honest, and laughing, and being kind. I lie a lot, most of the time without any reason other than it being fun. I hardly laugh. When I do laugh, it's fake most of the time. I don't think I'm that kind of a person, I seem to not know what's a nice thing to say, and what's not.

[Emerald Claus 24,850]

Magic. I have trouble expressing myself and reaching out to make new friends. 

[Cloud Strife 928]

I'd have to say Honesty is my weakest element, and even that isn't too weak on my part. It's not even that I'm not completely honest with myself, it's that I'm not sure what is the honest way sometimes. Applejack is a stronger person (pony?) than me because she already knows who she is and what she wants to do with her life, and that's the kind of Honesty she embodies - Honesty with one's self. Right now? I'm still trying to figure out what I want within my life. I have some good ideas, but nothing cemented like Applejack. I'm not 100% certain of how I feel a lot of the time.

[Invincible 2,091]

I don't actually follow; if anything i align with some. That being said, to try and answer your question it'd probably have to be Kindness. I can be very wrathful and self-righteous, and i dislike giving unconditional kindness when i feel the recipient is unworthy of any.

[Kat_Blazeclaws 73]

Magic, not that good at it.

[~Phoenix~ 196]

i have trouble with the magic element of harmony. i can get that being loyal, honest, generous, kind, and the ability to make people luagh are all good traits of a friend, but apparently withoug magic (which doesnt exist in our world) we cant have harmony. why is magic such a vital ingredient? or did they just need some way of making twilight fit in??

[ThatOneComrade 1,091]

Seeing as I can't do magic, I've gotta say magic  I'm perfect otherwise

...ugh, I just keep lying to myself. Honesty is the biggest hill in my life right now. If I can't be honest with myself about what kind a person I am, how can I explain it to anyone else, nonetheless defend myself? Honesty is... it's really hard...

[Frostgage 7,975]

Probably honesty. I find myself in a lot of situations where I need to just say the truth but can't bring myself to do it.

[Judgement 445]

I would have an issue following Magic/friendship/leadership. In many aspects, I really want to be the leader. I always get the idea that I can change something, and I want the power to do it.

 

My issue is that I am too antisocial to be the leader. Just the other day, some jerks were making fun of a def kid in my class, calling him "Stupid" while covering their mouths. I really wanted to stand up, walk over to the two and tell them to stop or else they will be sorry, but I just couldn't. I have always known what it's like being the victim in situations, and I really want to help others because I don't want them to get their lives ruined by others, but I always find myself running away from responsibility. Like many, I just sit back with the ideology that "someone else will do what's right", but from what I've seen, nobody ever does because they share the same belief. I so badly want to be the "Hero" or the guy that saves the day, but I just can't, and I feel like that's because I lack the power of friendship. If I tried to make true friends instead of just casual buddies, I'd feel a lot more secure about doing what's right.

 

In the future, I'm not going to sit back and do nothing. I worry too much about the future and the consequences that come from every little action, but It doesn't occur to me immediately that if someone doesn't do something then there won't be much of a future left. Honestly, I always dreamed of being the leader of something important, but in order to make that dream come true, I'm going to need the magic of true friends to help me get through tough times.

[Sidral Mundet 1,666]

Magic mostly cause I have no idea what it's suppose to represent.  Not a very good reason but of the six elements it is the most vague. 

[power strike 198]

element of friendship im ok on being friends with someone but for trying to ask someone to be a new friend and such im always or sometimes shy but when i get to be warmed up by them ill be talking a lot lol.