A question for the gentlemen of the forums

[Coco Pommel 669]

"I don't like the girls in my class, I like girls with boobs, like you."

 

I admit that I laughed over this.

 

It appears that the type of attraction you're talking about is strictly physical. I always had crushes on girls throughout elementary school until junior high, which was when my sexuality kicked in, but I was always a little pervert throughout elementary school in ways that I'd feel discomforted to describe.

 

Wait, does the fact that I'm a pretty legit bisexual get in the way with this? Because I had some interesting thoughts about men and women during my younger days, to say the least. Haha. But I consider that the beginning of my curious stage in life. I always wanted women, but there were some things I had to fix with myself in order to gain any appreciation from them at the time (I know this sounds silly, but I was a rude boy with no sense of personal space).

 

I remember that a woman and her three children used to live at my house for five months. The nine-year old would look through my father's pornography magazines, as I found out when my dad and I found one of his magazines under a bed that the boy used to sleep on. When he was still nine, he also had a phase in which he pretended to act bisexual to mimic and impress his older sister, who seemed like a more legit bisexual, though she eventually said she was straight. She was thirteen. You can never truthfully the sexuality of anyone her age.

 

I'm diverging a little off-topic into the attractions-toward-men-and-women grounds. Oh well.

 

Insider reveals:

All boys are perverts from the age 6 and up.

 

Pretty much.

 

Aren't kindergarten relationships more of a mockery of what children see in their home life and not based on attraction etc, though. ?

~

 

Can you even remember your exact feelings in Kindergarten? I don't feel that I can. I had a crush on a girl in Kindergarten simply because I was influenced to, as in, society presented me with the idea of a man and a women in a relationship, and I liked that idea, so I wen't with it. To the best of my memory, that's how I thought. So, maybe you're correct.

 

 

Thing is, at least America has become a rather sexual country. You always see attractive people in the media, mainly women, though I think that women may eventually influence American society more than men, because there are more women in most countries than men, including America and Canada. You still see beautiful women in advertisements, on the television, on the Internet. This is probably influencing young boys to dive into their sexuality at a younger age, which isn't a bad thing, in my opinion. Teen pregnancy in America has actually decreased.

 

Edit: I know a guy who lost his virginity—if you can call it that—when we was five. This one girl who was his age had looked at some porno mags that her parents had, and she influenced him to get naked, get in bed with her, and then have sex. Of course, he never came. The girl's parents eventually caught them in the act. But the boy would get in some more sexual shenanigans through elementary school. I am not kidding.

Edited April 14, 2012 by Axis

[Shankveld 4,949]

 

How I feel about the sexualization and objectification of women is another topic all together.

I know that in kindergarten and even through elementary school, you are incapable of feeling non-family related love,

since your brain isn't developed enough.

 

I don't know how bisexuality would work, this just has to do at what point men start becoming attracted to which ever gender I suppose ;p haha.

~

 

Edit: I know a guy who lost his virginity—if you can call it that—when we was five. This one girl who was his age had looked at some porno mags that her parents had, and she influenced him to get naked, get in bed with her, and then have sex. Of course, he never came. The girl's parents eventually caught them in the act. But the boy would get in some more sexual shenanigans through elementary school. I am not kidding.

 

Seriously? Oh my god, that sounds awful.

They say children who do that at that age are usually victims of sexual abuse in the home.

~

[Croaks 251]

 

 

Men: the greatest mystery of them all.

~ ;p

 

That's exactly what I say about women. :I

[Shankveld 4,949]

That's exactly what I say about women. :I

 

Let's all just be gay and save ourselves the trouble ;p

lol

~

[Forlong 1,726]

Let's all just be gay and save ourselves the trouble ;p

lol

~

 

So much for the perpetuation of the species.

[Wobbly Headed Bob 2]

I got my first crush on a girl, when I was 4 or Something

[I_wesley125 393]

I remember the first time I "took care of myself" was at the age of 9.

Probably as a result of all of the government conspiracy's and chemtrails I have no idea how that is possible but it is.

That was a joke BTW.

Edited April 15, 2012 by Rainbow--Dash

[Mr. Wobbels 664]

I remember the first time I "took care of myself" was at the age of 9.

 

Wiped your butthole?

[Forlong 1,726]

Wiped your butthole?

 

Is that what kids are calling it these days?

[Viscra Maelstrom 3,718]

Let's all just be gay and save ourselves the trouble ;p

lol

~

 

i approve of this sentiment.

 

Wiped your butthole?

 

well, that place is one way to "take care" of yourself, too, so...

[Mr. Wobbels 664]

Is that what kids are calling it these days?

 

That's when you take a piece of toilet paper and remove the fecal matter from around your anus.

[Croaks 251]

 

 

That's when you take a piece of toilet paper and remove the fecal matter from around your anus.

 

This is so funny I spat out my coffee all over the place.

Damn you.

[Lucky Bolt 35,063]

I’m not a guy but from what different guys have told me it seems boys can be sexually attracted  to someone at a very young age I’m talkin under 10 years old even. But I don’t know it’s just something I’ve heard.

Edited January 20, 2020 by Lucky Bolt

[Stone Cold Steve Jobs 22,440]

That ultimately depends on the boy. I didn’t start feeling real attraction until I was 12.

[TBD 17,254]

I don't have the answers since everyone is different when it comes to their time... For my case, In my youngers days I can never seem to find myself paying attention to girls and instead more focus on my own interests.  The first time when I noticed was around age 17 (first crush). After that, back to round one. However, I do have moments when I found some women attractive but it more like saying to a flower " oh you're pretty" and be on my way. But not like, "oh you're hot" *eyebrow raises, checking them out*. Yeah I'm pretty blend when it comes to something like this really.. I'm not much of a people's person.

 

[Splashee 28,564]

Around 16 years old I think. Before that I had single crushes on girls that could last for years, but it was not that important. However after age 16, it was the main topic in my head. Quite annoying.

[ToastedScone 397]

I'm not a guy, but most of my friends were as a kid, so I hope I can help a little...

Most of my friends (male ones) started being attracted to girls between the ages of eleven and thirteen, and they didn't appear to be "mimicking" others, it just seemed to be natural. I guess some men may just start experiencing sexual/romantic attraction earlier than others, due to earlier development and all that?

[Fluttershyfan94 5,742]

OwO I felt attracted to girls but never really sought a relationship with them. Would be at the age of puberty really I'd say it is at the age of puberty eleven for me for example. Yet the thing is I think most of us if not everyone who I have heard talk about it says they were attracted to much older women most being attracted to women in their fourties rather then girls our age really. 

That said I was attracted to girls at a very young age as I was popular had girls try to kiss me all the time uwu silly girls one of which tried to go a little further so girls do think about it sooner then bois though it is a societal thing really as your sexuality comes with puberty but you think about girls I'd say me at age of six myself.

Edited May 1, 2020 by Fluttershyfan94

[AveryGamerDude 4,640]

I wanted a girlfriend when I was as young as 5, believe it or not.

[Cash In 22,306]

I must've been eleven or twelve when I started getting those sorts of feelings. They were never a real problem at that time, but I'll admit that they started to become more and more intrusive as I got older.

[Splashee 28,564]

With video games like Tomb Raider, I believe boys will start going after girls and mention boobs and other stuff at the age of 5.

Too old reference... I need something newer....

With TV shows like Family Guy, I believe boys will start going after girls and mention boobs and other stuff at the age of 5.

Still too old reference.

 

With Internet around.... Yea, that will work!

[Lord Chin Chin 1,209]

Im not really attracted to girls I think but didnt start thinkin about it much till last year 🤔

[Evil Pink One 13,506]

On 2020-05-01 at 9:13 PM, AveryGamerDude said:

I wanted a girlfriend when I was as young as 5, believe it or not.

Mad lad!

You me and @TomDaBombMLP should call ourselves......

"The PERVERTS"

 

Edited August 28, 2021 by Kujamih

[AveryGamerDude 4,640]

8 hours ago, Kujamih said:

Mad lad!

You me and @TomDaBombMLP should call ourselves......

"The PERVERTS"

 

Sounds like a fitting name for me.

[Tom Gallagher 33,588]

I've been attracted to girls since five at least too!  I've never had a girlfriend though.

I'd only want the sex part.

9 hours ago, Kujamih said:

Mad lad!

You me and @TomDaBombMLP should call ourselves......

"The PERVERTS"

 

Jeez, I'm not that bad!