Can personality makes you ugly?

[Juggler 345]

Yes, it can.

About one year ago a girl joined the circus group that I'm involved with. At first I thought that she was really good looking and fantasied about having her as my girlfriend. But as time went by I saw how her personality was like. I didn't like it at all, and suddenly I stopped being attracted to her.

[Cupcake Ice Cream 436]

Megan Fox. Case and point.

 

 

finally! Sorry I can't stand her...and to be honest I don't see the attraction on the outside either...she's very fake

 

with that said

 

Absolutely Shank. Before I was married I dated several women. Some with no drive or motivation, some controlling and some just plain rude. And those factors made them hideous in an instant. It's like smoking for me. I could see a ridiculously beautiful woman...then she lights up and BAM...that attraction is gone. When people look inside you can actually find beauty both in and out...and vice versa

[Lady Rarity Pony 4,892]

I wouldn't say it makes them any more physically attractive. A girl is just as ugly or just as sexy after you love her as she was before.

 

You may appreciate (or scorn) someone's appearance more after you get the full picture of their personality. Or you may even subconsciously attribute false traits to someone once you see their personality. In a sense you could lie to yourself without realizing it.

 

For example you like a hot girl, she turns out to be a bitch and then afterwards you feel "she was ugly anyway."

 

I dunno. I'm not a psychiatrist. Potatoes are just as pretty before and after I love them, so I figure it applies the same to carrots and maybe humans embryos.

Edited July 19, 2012 by Lady Rarity Pony

[Eenohay 318]

Sounds like Dorian Gray, whose picture got uglier and uglier not only as it aged, but also as he got more and more evil.

[Guest]

In my opinion, it can. For sure.

 

And girls/guys who are conceited are a lot less attractive to me as well.

[pjsforever 89]

Yeah. If they have an awful personality, they instantly become unattractive.

 

I used to like a guy a LOT. He was shy, apparently nice, and attractive, but he tried too hard (he thought I was a nerd so he started bragging about his homework and pretended to like class -_- [i could honestly care less] other things he's done are just facepalm worthy) and was so incredibly stupid I completely lost interest in him. ...I'm turned off by total stupidity, ok??

 

People just notice more flaws in someone's physical appearance if they don't like the person's attitude/personality.

[Hazardus_Havard. 479]

I have known many very attractive woman. Nearly every single one of them are extremely vain and have horrible personalities. Many people wonder why I don't like dating in general.

 

I have always found woman with a great personality to be more fun and better attractiveness overall in comparison to the woman that dress up like crazy to look killer while out clubbing but are the generically twated up ass's that you'd expect to see on MTV.

 

That's not to say ALL woman are like that. But from what I've seen a good majority that have even the slightest idea that they are attractive act like total snobs. Eck.

Edited July 19, 2012 by Hazardus_Havard

[Croaks 251]

What if it's an animal.

Isn't that normal?

[Homura Akemi 974]

When you hate someone, it seems like everything they do is offensive, so even if they're in the most admirable attire, they may look like a street rat to you. Personality plays a role.

Edited July 20, 2012 by Tam

[♥.:Yulaiyre:.♥ 290]

i think ugly is harsh word as i feel that no-one is truly ugly. Everyone has redeeming qualities, it is just that some personalities just do not match, which is why there is so much variation in the world. different things interest different people, while some may look for the caring, gentle person, others may look for a outgoing and fun personality.

No one is truly ugly <3 we are just different

[Shankveld 4,949]

i think ugly is harsh word as i feel that no-one is truly ugly. Everyone has redeeming qualities, it is just that some personalities just do not match, which is why there is so much variation in the world. different things interest different people, while some may look for the caring, gentle person, others may look for a outgoing and fun personality.

No one is truly ugly <3 we are just different

 

Your ideals =/= reality,

sadly that's not the way the world works.

And beauty plays a huge factor in not only your own life, but in the lives of others ;p

 

 

lol xD

[Crispy 5,563]

A hot girl without a personality is like a hot rod without an engine to move it. There'd be no point.

[catfusious 33]

I think inner beauty tops outer beauty because it is nice to date someone who is good looking but you wouldn't really like them if they are a complete ass hole.

[♥.:Yulaiyre:.♥ 290]

Your ideals =/= reality,

sadly that's not the way the world works.

And beauty plays a huge factor in not only your own life, but in the lives of others ;p

 

 

lol xD

 

oh, well i am sorry....but i would have to disagree with you there...Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say, what might be beautiful to me, may not be to you. i feel it is a very opinionated subject, so i try to steer clear of such things. i know very well how the world works, and i know that beauty is not everything, but i digress..

My point was that while there are such things as physical attractiveness, that is not a factor for everybody...and i feel that the personality or 'inner beauty' is a lot more effective...but as i also said, everybody is different, and so what one person dislikes, another person may like. it is how things are. Of course i am speaking from a romantic point of view here

[Isobel 279]

I think when you're 'pretty' it makes your life easier.

 

Not that I would know about that

 

Anyway, I think technically yes, but there are a lot of people I dislike that I also think are good looking. However, if someone is both nice and pretty/handsome, then they will appeal to me more. Though personality does not completely change how I view their appearance.

Edited July 21, 2012 by isobelthegreat

[Samurshy 708]

Sure aesthetics are great. But really, could you stand being around someone who was a shrew whether they are aesthetically pleasing or not. I have met some on both sides of the fence. People who look nice but are jerks, and people who look gross but are jerks. But if I had a choice to spend the entirety of my life with someone who looked bad but had an amazing personality/intellect over someone who is HOT but bitchy and stupid. I would choose the ugly one in a heartbeat.

[Xebec 74]

I don't think personality can make how one looks on the outside change but I do think that it can change how you see them.

If that makes sense to any of you

[meechkk 121]

Think of it this way... When you're both old and wrinkly all thats gonna matter is whats on the inside. If they can still make you laugh, make you reach for the impossible, and can still give you undying hope, then thats what its all about.

[Zoop 8,384]

Let's try to stay to the topic at hand, rather than debating if someone is naive or not, aye?

 

As for the topic at hand... for me, physical beauty is very easily tainted by an ugly personality. I don't care how beautiful someone is, if they've got a terrible personality I wouldn't so much as kiss them if given the chance.

[Somebody 570]

I work at a full service gas station. It's fun and I love it! One of the nice things about it is how many different kinds of people you meet, attractive and otherwise. I've met people who were physically average, but they were so sweet I just wanted to hug and kiss them. I've also met people who looked like they were on a magazine cover the day before, but they were rude and had no respect at all. You could go so far as to give them free gas and they wouldn't even say "thank you." Those are the kind of people I wouldn't touch if they were among the last people on earth.

 

I don't really refer to them as ugly, though... I call them the soulless ones. Mostly because they look absolutely miserable and numb in their diamond-studded exterior.