This is one of the biggest reasons why I would never get cyber body parts. Hack into my always-online Inspector Gadget robo arm and make it punch me in the face repeatedly? (go-go gadget facepunch!) No thank you. It's bad enough that people can hack self-driving cars and murder the occupants.
It's seen as cool if a girl likes boy stuff. It's seen as wrong if a boy likes girl stuff.
To add to that, a woman can wear just about anything she wants (I sure as heck wouldn't want to wear women's clothing though).
Do I listen to swing music? Yes, every once in a long while. I would play the swing station often back when I had musicchoice.
TPAM likes classic "big band" music.