Hmm... I'm sorry that you're too blind to see my point, pretty much like the regular brony is.
You see, I don't bash the fandom as one. I bash the part of the fandom I dislike. My bashing towards 'that' side of the fandom is no different from the ones who bash on cloppers, gore, or even 4chan's /mlp/. Basically, in order to make your point valid, we shouldn't bash ANY part of the fandom, which sadly, doesn't apply to many, many people who are hypocrites and turn their backs on certain parts of the fandom.
I do realize the things this fandom has done, and I'm well aware of all the 'good deeds', but your point is only highlighting that and placing it as 'the whole fandom'. What about the trolls in /mlp/ who enjoy to harass bronies? Like it or not, they're part of the fandom as well. Does it mean that if I bash on them I'm disrespecting the show? Many bronies bash on 4chan, even though it was the site that created this fandom in the first place. I guess they aren't real fans either, huh?
You miss my point of why I dislike a certain part of the fandom. The part of the fandom that takes the 'Love & Tolerance' motto seriously. The "Hi, everypony! Brohoof! /)" kind of bronies. I hate the term brony for what it has become, thanks to those people, in fact. People who think EVERYONE who watches the show is a brony and likes to be called as such are way too blind to see this. People who are so deep in their pony world that became the common rabid brony.
And about the fanon, your logic fails again. If I say: "Lyra-human is shit" does that mean I'm automatically not a MLP fan? For me, it's stupid and unfunny, yet we have to respect it because it's the fandom's "creativity". What about Scootabuse, then? What if we bash it? Are we not MLP fans, then? Or bashing Molestia? Again, your points only highlight the "good" side of the fanon, while leaving the "bad" stuff behind. I appreciate some of what the fanon has to offer, but not everyone is going to enjoy everything. If I'm not a true MLP fan for bashing Lyra-human thing, then neither is one who bashes Molestia.
I'm surprised you bothered to write such lengthy amounts of text just because you can't deal with the fact that I'm not a "lel luv 'n tolerate" brony. I dislike them for their actions and for what they represent. No wonder why this fandom tends to be hated. I'm not stereotyping the fandom, but based on what I've seen so far in plenty of sites and chatrooms, it only enforces my reasons to dislike it. The text you quoted from another thread says that we shouldn't bash each other. Dude, wake up, we bash each other EVERY SINGLE DAY. Let it be the common bronies, rabid ones, cloppers, 4channers.
Sadly, as I said before, you've been blinded too much to understand my points and my despise towards the term 'brony'
If I had to do a TL;DR version of your post, it would be: "If you bash ANY part of the fandom or fanon, then you're not a real MLP fan." Well, too bad that's invalid.