general What is your relationship status?

[Envy 5,999]

I mean there's really no one in my life to be romantically interested in to begin with. I no longer work (for now, hopefully that changes quickly), and am not in any other kind of situation where I regularly see people outside of my family.

But as I said in my first post here, my life is very much in a transitionary state right now. Just wish we could move and get that over with. When I move I'm only going to be older. =/ I'll be an older lady even by grad school standards. *sad laugh*

[Le Trotteur Sauvage 13,049]

21 hours ago, King of Canterlot said:

I'm single. 

@Le Trotteur Sauvage nudge nudge wink wink 

Lol, I'm just kidding comrade  In all actuality I'm just waiting for the right pony to come along. I'm content not being in a relationship right now, but I also wouldn't mind having a special somepony too. I'll just have to see what the future has in store, I'm not really concerned about it though 

If you manage to transform into Twilight, I can make an exception, I'm sure my girlfriend will understand

[Will Guide 21,325]

Not in a relationship in real life. 

However I do RP as both Will Guides with other people's OCs, within fair reason and consent of course

[Savygriffs 5,022]

Hahaha, still single af.

Probably won't get a boyfriend/girlfriend anytime soon lmao.

[King of Canterlot 9,588]

1 hour ago, Le Trotteur Sauvage said:

If you manage to transform into Twilight, I can make an exception, I'm sure my girlfriend will understand

@Le Trotteur Sauvage Your girlfriend ain't got nothing on this adorkable purple mare! 

[Dabmanz 2,128]

Single but you are never truly alone when you have friends <3 

[Starry Moon 51]

I am very much single. I'm really weird and most people aren't into what I'm looking for.

[TotallyNotNyx 15,563]

42 minutes ago, Starry Moon said:

I am very much single. I'm really weird and most people aren't into what I'm looking for.

you'll find that's the situation for many people on here, so don;t worry too much about that

[Starry Moon 51]

Just now, Princess of Bolts ⚡🔥⚡ said:

you'll find that's the situation for many people on here, so don;t worry too much about that

I'd like to think that I'm looking for something most people aren't. Which is a poly family poly kind of relationship. Including other weirder things.

[TotallyNotNyx 15,563]

2 minutes ago, Starry Moon said:

I'd like to think that I'm looking for something most people aren't. Which is a poly family poly kind of relationship. Including other weirder things.

I honestly wouldn;t mind if I never got into a relationship tbh. Is that weird?

[Starry Moon 51]

Just now, Princess of Bolts ⚡🔥⚡ said:

I honestly wouldn;t mind if I never got into a relationship tbh. Is that weird?

Really? And what do you mean?

[TotallyNotNyx 15,563]

Just now, Starry Moon said:

Really? And what do you mean?

I'm asking if its weird that I feel like I could live without ever getting into a relationship?

[Starry Moon 51]

Just now, Princess of Bolts ⚡🔥⚡ said:

I'm asking if its weird that I feel like I could live without ever getting into a relationship?

Ohh, I mean, a little but if you're happier on your own that's what really matters. No one really needs to be in a relationship in order to be happy. Love is a magical thing that comes in many different forms. Including loving yourself.

[TotallyNotNyx 15,563]

2 minutes ago, Starry Moon said:

Ohh, I mean, a little but if you're happier on your own that's what really matters. No one really needs to be in a relationship in order to be happy. Love is a magical thing that comes in many different forms. Including loving yourself.

That's true. Love can be a magical thing, but magic can be both good and evil. I've seen so many people with their hearts broken and stuff lol.

[Starry Moon 51]

Just now, Princess of Bolts ⚡🔥⚡ said:

That's true. Love can be a magical thing, but magic can be both good and evil. I've seen so many people with their hearts broken and stuff lol.

That is very true. That's a benefit from not being in a relationship, less of a chance of getting your heart broken.

[TotallyNotNyx 15,563]

3 minutes ago, Starry Moon said:

That is very true. That's a benefit from not being in a relationship, less of a chance of getting your heart broken.

It;s a shame that it happens everywhere. People even get their hearts broken on here,  (on the forums)

[Starry Moon 51]

3 minutes ago, Princess of Bolts ⚡🔥⚡ said:

It;s a shame that it happens everywhere. People even get their hearts broken on here,  (on the forums)

The sad thing is that you can pretty much become heart broken from anywhere.

[Starry Moon 51]

2 hours ago, Bas said:

Honestly, I'd check in online as well as IRL LGBTQ communities or more specifically poly communities for that.

You could obviously also carry a shirt or sticker with the symbol so only those who know understand it.

While I wouldn't consider myself to only seek poly relationships, I am certainly not turning down on them (on either side).

I'm in multiple dating groups on Telegram. But the thing is, it's more than just poly. I'm into a certain kind of.. lifestyle? And wanting a poly relationship with others who are also into it.

[HeavenSunset 1,867]

SINGLE READY TO MINGLE

i am currently in no relationship, nor am i interested in one

[Stardust 640]

Yeah i'm married to myself so I'm taken ya dun try to get with me m8  jk

[Ixrec 86]

Single and will definitely be looking, but there's a few things I want to work on before I try the whole "dating" thing (if that's even what people do these days?).

"Better to have loved and lost" is also extremely true in my case: although my one serious relationship didn't work out, and I'm much happier single than in a failing relationship, it nonetheless made it extremely clear to me that a true best friend / life partner is the only thing missing from my life.

 

On 5/26/2020 at 3:04 PM, Envy said:

I mean there's really no one in my life to be romantically interested in to begin with. I no longer work (for now, hopefully that changes quickly), and am not in any other kind of situation where I regularly see people outside of my family.

So much this. Figuring out how to "get people into my life" in the first place is my "only" real problem, but there doesn't seem to be any good solution for it. I do work, but at least for me work-related stuff never leads to making non-work friends.

 

Since everyone seems to be talking about polyamory in this thread , it's something I'm curious about but don't expect to be actively seeking. Finding one person that wants to spend the rest of their life with me is such a tall order to begin with that aiming for two or three from the start just sounds like setting myself up for failure.

[Pastel Heart 6,463]

Happily taken~ I am poly but my BF is not so I respect his wish for a committed relationship ♡

[Here No Longer 5,270]

28 minutes ago, Pastel Heart said:

Happily taken~ I am poly but my BF is not so I respect his wish for a committed relationship ♡

Same here but in this case just with the preference of an open relationship...
 

The difference, from what I can tell, being that I still would be romantically vested in him exclusively.

[Tom Gallagher 33,521]

I'm single and free. 

[Midnight Creep Show 2,194]

Single as all ever but I’m fine with it