zerox 1,126 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 so I'm 29years old and I never had a girlfriend. I'm just uninterested in general about girlfriends and having sex. anyone else here? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trademark2 485 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 (edited) I'm only 25 but don't have a girl friend either. I could have had one, but knew it wouldn't work because she was too 'normal', and I am the opposite of normal Edited April 1, 2017 by trademark2 2 Feel free to message or add me everypony! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LunarShadow 397 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 (edited) I am 18 and have never had a girlfriend and honestly don't really plan to until i have a stable career and some security in life. I want to be sure that whoever i am going to be with will genuinely love me despite my flaws and be flexible and understanding since my career choice of Law Enforcement carries with it many issues that can put stress on a relationship. When i was in high school once i also had an opportunity to have sex with someone that offered but turned it down because it would just feel wrong and meaningless. That same girl we almost started dating but it failed before it even got started just due to natural incompatibilities. Overall i really do one day want to get married and start a family. I try and tell myself that i don't need it since relationships can be stressful and unpredictable and i like predictability but at the same time my own natural human instincts compels me to be in a relationship. It is so very frustrating. Il just have to focus on one thing at a time. I got many years to figure it all out. Edited April 1, 2017 by DayShadow 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Choros Isorropai 409 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 30+, no significant other, but a desire to have one. I have been with others, but nothing ever happened and it didn't go anywhere at all. not even to enlighten me on the whole concept. 1 OC: https://mlpforums.com/page/roleplay-characters/_/choros-isorropai-r9669 Blog: https://mlpforums.com/blog/3158-poetry-simply-that/ The unasked questions are what bother me, not the answers. The answers give me clarity. Silence is in its self an answer, so ask! To not ask is to deny the existence of said question, and leaves you with just "what if". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapid Wind 47 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 Nearly 30 plus, I will be in a few months, and no gf yet. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olsen1987 133 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 i'll turn 30 this year, in 9 months. never had one yet, despite being one of the things i want most, i have the later years stopped waiting and just roll with it. well, it may not be a bad thing either, no nagging about having kids or marriage, so free 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GiFTGewEhrSCHutzen-4 8,828 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 Guess this makes me the older one here. 34 here, and still no GF. 2 "I'm the Messiah the gnashing of teeth, no one meets death until they see me, I am the Alpha and Omega..." -King 810 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simba86 1,541 April 1, 2017 Share April 1, 2017 I am 30 and have never had a girlfriend, and i am not really interested in having one. it just ain't worth it LOL 2 It's better to die on your feet than to live on your knees! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envy 6,169 April 2, 2017 Share April 2, 2017 Well, I haven't had a girlfriend in eight years, and I'm now officially 28. Yay. But, really, it's okay. All is as it should be. I'm so broken, I should be avoided. 1 Everything needs more woodwind! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Depressed Flutterguy 32 April 4, 2017 Share April 4, 2017 I'm 27 and no gf. The last one I had was CRAZY! Literally: she had severe depression (that's not the crazy part, I struggle with depression too) but didn't "believe" in medication. She'd use therapy rocks (like, a rock bracelet she probably got from Maud), oils, things like that. That's fine, but she wouldn't see a doctor until she had a mental breakdown. She was also manipulative and would often lie to me. Needless to say, I broke up with her over a year ago. I should have done it sooner, but I thought could make it work. I would like a gf, but I don't think it's going to happen anytime soon. And that's okay. I'm working on earning money and enjoying the friends and family I have in my life right now. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Depressed Flutterguy 32 April 4, 2017 Share April 4, 2017 On April 1, 2017 at 10:04 PM, Envy said: I'm so broken, I should be avoided. Aww hang in there dude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeric 46,852 April 4, 2017 Share April 4, 2017 Yes, though my situation is extremely different that the OP's, the sentiment is not that far from his. I am a widower. Even though a few people have found the need to inform me I will find love again, I have no interest in dating or anything like that. So at 40, I am single, and not interested and will likely never be. I actually don't find that depressing or alarming at all. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Gobo 36,257 April 4, 2017 Share April 4, 2017 On 4/1/2017 at 7:03 AM, zerox said: so I'm 29years old and I never had a girlfriend. I'm just uninterested in general about girlfriends and having sex. anyone else here? Wait, you're not me, right? D: Oh right, I'm celibate, nevermind :V Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zerox 1,126 April 4, 2017 Author Share April 4, 2017 10 minutes ago, Jeric said: Yes, though my situation is extremely different that the OP's, the sentiment is not that far from his. I am a widower. Even though a few people have found the need to inform me I will find love again, I have no interest in dating or anything like that. So at 40, I am single, and not interested and will likely never be. I actually don't find that depressing or alarming at all. what happened? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buttonmash1973 1,026 April 4, 2017 Share April 4, 2017 Ï am 42 and are single. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ganondorf8 11,321 April 4, 2017 Share April 4, 2017 I'm 34--getting closer to 35--and I've never had a girlfriend in my entire life. I just don't see myself getting involved in a relationship given the problems that can come with it not to mention that I'm not all that attractive. My main reason though is because I view love in that manner as being unnecessary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritishBrony2012 821 April 23, 2017 Share April 23, 2017 I'm 32, and still no girlfriend. Never tend looking for anyone, feel I'm not be good and can be stressful and so used being single and women can be horrible sometimes. Do like to met someone one day. I have waifus but not will make me weird. Proud British Brony Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moony the Cat 3,702 April 23, 2017 Share April 23, 2017 Since not every one in this comment chain is over 30 Years ( not even the Topic Creater for some reason XD ) i can also write a post in here, i believe. Im not that old yet, im 22 and turning 23 next month. I only had a female childhood friend but no real relationship girlfriend yet. I was in love with many females but never talked to anyone of them, because im really shy. At the moment i also suffer from stress and currently im more busy in, trying to find a way away from home. If im unlucky and still continue at failing to get a job, i might be still single at the age of 25. Then im old enough to get an own apartment and move out and at that point, i would be interested in having a relationship. Even though since i am a boring person in general and might even have autism, i would probably have a lot of problems. I have no idea, if i would ever manage to get an relationship, but i really want to. Sig made by Kyoshi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scootaloo Is Best Filly 578 April 24, 2017 Share April 24, 2017 I am thirty four and never had a girlfriend in my life. Honestly, it kinda scares me because I might not have much interest in finding a girlfriend (or maybe I'm just scared) but, I also don't want to die sad and alone ( that's actually one of my big fears) Problem is I am like really super shy. And the low self confidence/ self worth doesn't help at all. 1 Facebook: Josh B. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
碇 シンジン 27,431 April 24, 2017 Share April 24, 2017 I never had anyone, it used to bother me but these days I kinda stopped caring, since as far as i can see, it is very unlikely that i meet someone though im only 20 atm Rarity Fan Club Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stone Cold Steve Jobs 22,441 April 24, 2017 Share April 24, 2017 I have had my share and I am 24, but the main thing I learned is it isn't a race. Some people don't even have an interest in relationships, and that's okay. And that’s the bottom line, ‘cause Stone Cold said so! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sonic Shimmer 4,132 April 26, 2017 Share April 26, 2017 I'm not 30 yet (26), but yes. I'm just a solitary kind of person, although I do have a few close friends both online and offline. I'm not really sure if my personality and lifestyle would permit a relationship. It's very important to me to have alone time. 1 Friendship isn't always easy. But it's definitely worth fighting for. Twilight Sparkle is Best Pony! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashen Pathfinder 16,161 April 26, 2017 Share April 26, 2017 While I have had significant others in the past, I am currently 31 & single, and I really don't mind that. Of course if I find the right person then I'd be happy to form a relationship, but I'm in no hurry to do so. Pathfinder I Sojourner I Corsair | Zu'hra I Autumn | Scarlet Willow | Gypsy | Silverthorn | Crystal Whisper | Radiant Historia | And many other OCs~ Matching signatures with mah Bestie MOONLIGHT <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mentis Soliloquy 3,025 April 26, 2017 Share April 26, 2017 This thread is an interesting read btw everyone. I'm only 22 I've had a single "fling" would be the best word for it. It did not last, was fun but we were young and it was not meant to be. The thing I'm getting from new personal experience I'm currently living through. (Living alone) I actually really like being alone, I can do as I please when I please and it's honestly a really nice thing. (for me) I've two friends now how have gotten married and whenever I see them together (the couple) all the do is argue and fight. I like being on my own I am my own master. The thing is time really doesn't and finding a lady doesn't either, if you can learn to be happy yourself then you'll have a far better life in my young opinion. If love and a person come into your life then that's how it goes, but if it doesn't then that is okay too, life can be enjoyed in every way you can possibly think of. (This was a strange post...) 1 PonyvilleLive! Check out our awesome range of music, podcasts, video and more!My various Roleplay Characters Avatar Credits: Yakovlev-vad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Piranha 29,428 April 27, 2017 Share April 27, 2017 At most I had was a flirt. Then again, I'm 26, so I don't qualify for the 30s yet. I'm not virgin, but I've never had a girlfriend, but I intend to keep it that way. I think that stuff is far more trouble than it's worth. Plus I've finally ended a period of my life where I couldn't tend to myself, so I have much to catch on Sig by Discords Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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