Why are you single?

[Lord Chin Chin 1,209]

Because I haven't worked up the courage yet to ask someone out,  put me in a fight anyday over that 😅

[Old Accnt. 3,149]

i'm too much of a pussy lol

[Clawdeen 14,065]

It’s hard trying to find someone during a pandemic. 

[Codelyy 1,286]

Just not great at making new friends 

[TBD 17,254]

One big reason, I don't socialize much.  I work than go home afterward. When I'm not working I'm either at home or elsewhere on my own or with a family. But yeah, mostly just work and home. Online- it's more of a casual chat with people- but nothing else.

[DubWolf 17,262]

Ehhh I don’t want to ask anybody out until I’m reeeeally really confident they’re into me, I’m really confident they ain’t already taken, and that I’ll actually feel like they’d be a good partner for me.

 

That and I’m not much into people that are attracted to me  .

[dead account 2,710]

For various reasons. I'm not into 3D. And my experiences let me to the believe that true love doesn't exist in reality. I still think that friendship is the highest luck in life, even though I'm the one who usually messes up. But I have my waifu and I couldn't be happier. So maybe not technically single, depending on how you look at it.

[Steve Piranha 29,424]

I’m more career and individually oriented, plus I still need to get a better footing in life. I’m good, but still need a lot of improvement to waste time and energy in girls and dating

[daviddaviddavid 776]

7 hours ago, Steve Piranha said:

I’m more career and individually oriented, plus I still need to get a better footing in life.

Precisely how I feel atm too. Wish you the best of luck with getting there!

[ZiggWheelsManning 10,246]

To challenge myself mentally that I don't need to create my own family.  

[Phosphor 11,528]

I'm technically still single but I am dating a lovely lady at the moment. Been dating for one month now and have a 5th date this week.

[Miss 6,229]

unattractive, unapproachable, weird...take your pick 

or if I do start becoming close enough to get in some sort of romance we end up falling off somehow. 

Also, not saying I have a chance with these people, but alot of people I've been meeting recently are already committed with someone wth lol 

[QTUnicorn 10]

The Mental Gymnastics involved in fathoming that I am Licensed Clinical Therapist who caters to fandom clients and study fandom material as a career is difficult for many to fathom.

I find it to be quite amusing!~

[Yakamaru 3,127]

Because I choose to. I like being alone. Tho I am not exactly opposed to dating a girl.

[Jackleberry 1,921]

For one I've never seriously pursued any relationships, and I really don't mind being single in terms of romantic relations.

Second, I'm too shy/anxious/awkward and can't hold a conversation to save the universe, which in my experience rules out making even the most casual of friends, let alone a partner. <.<

[Fluttershutter 2,453]

Why is anybody not single? How the heck can you put up with somebody that much? 

[Envy 6,160]

I'm just plain unattractive, ugly. Big forehead, thin hair, strange shaped body, small breasts. People don't pay me any attention. Of course, that's a blessing in some ways.

My personality doesn't help matters... Lol. There's just no reason for someone to want to be with me.

[Sturmponiere 122]

Because she still can't accept her collar. It doesn't matter, I have time.

[Iforgotmybrain 5,657]

Bleehhh because meeting people without dating apps is difficult. But also less stressful at the same time.

[NeedsMoreGoth 164]

On 2023-06-20 at 6:19 PM, Sturmponiere said:

Because she still can't accept her collar. It doesn't matter, I have time.

Holy cow, this is a winner!

ADHD brain makes me "speedrun" relationships. I need constant milestones or I get bored and move on, and that's not what most people are looking for.

[Prospekt 11,018]

I'm into a coworker but I'd rather not pursue anything at the moment. Two other coworkers tried dating and didn't behave professionally in the workplace. It created too much drama. Scandalous and downright ridiculous drama. Maybe once the gossip dies down.

[Treeglow Flicker 13,622]

Still the same reason for me. My type are just really-really rare and hard to find.

Pandas have more luck with romance than I do.

[Rarity Gemstones 201]

I am single because I am not desirable to other human beings.

It also probably doesn't help that I lack any and all emotions.

[Clawdeen 14,065]

I’ve written books length responses on here in the past on all of this lol. i live in a small town. The rocker/goth thing freaks some people out. Never had much luck with dating apps.

 

[Miss 6,229]

something else I've thought is that I feel that I might unapproachable 

Both online and irl (more so irl)  

 

Petition for all of us in this thread to just get in two large poly dating groups so we're not single  

50% over there and 50% over there