Personal Flaws About Yourself?

[Nighty 44]

I'm great in relationships, but TERRIBLE when it comes to finding and starting them! I seem to have like no ability to find people and to make myself visible :c

How fix pls

[captainborgue 343]

I'm great in relationships, but TERRIBLE when it comes to finding and starting them! I seem to have like no ability to find people and to make myself visible :c

How fix pls

 

I have the opposite problem- I can find them easily, but cannot seem to maintain them.

[KatonRyu 1,033]

I've got a few.

 

1. I procrastinate with everything I need to do. I should really learn to make at least global plannings and estimates of how much time something will take, since I've gotten in trouble over it more than once.

 

2. I cannot express frustrations IRL because of...something I really don't know. Bottom line is I'll keep it all pent up, it turns on me, and nothing changes. I like being able to think of possible consequences of my actions before doing them, but every now and then just voicing my problems without self-destructing would be a better solution.

 

3. I have knee-jerk reactions to viewpoints that are diametrically opposed to mine to the point where I'll happily engage in unproductive flame wars over them because I hate those viewpoints so much. This also means that I probably won't be rational about them either, because I truly consider them to be without merit.

[SilverStarApple 849]

1. Alone.

2. Not enough time.

[Kimi Vulpine 219]

I'm very lazy and I let stuff get to me too easily.

[n0body555 334]

I'm pretty much a flaw entirely...

 

Negative thoughts, I can't seem to help but be super lazy. Eat really bad, and have a terrible sleeping schedule... and I get addicted to foods/drinks very easily. I'm very stubborn. And believe me.... I try my best not to be.

 

and some other things I can't really mention. as I really hate myself for...

 

I have a ton of flaws.. basically...

[Guest]

I always feel like a walking flaw. So I have many flaws, even though I won't be listing all of them - but for example getting moody over the smallest things. Same goes for crying too. I'm so vulnerable that you could just fling an insult at my face and I'll get teary within the next minute. I think I'm prone to exaggerating feelings. My mind tends to wander a lot too so it means I lose focus quite easily. This has nothing to do with the rest of the bunch I mentioned here, but I have a really sensitive skin. Even quite a little while in the evening sun can easily burn my face.

 

As for improving, I think it would be best to try to toughen myself up so I wouldn't feel all the feelings so strongly. Some concentration training would probably work as well. Having sensitive skin has no possible treatment I feel, but I guess I'll just use a lot of sunscreen during the summer season.

[Guest90210 3,569]

I have an extremely difficult time putting thoughts into words, and I have a tough time talking with people. When someone messages me, I can sometimes sit there for literally hours thinking about how to respond. I ultra-analyze everything I do and say due to my social phobia. I get nervous and afraid of how what I say will be perceived. There have been times where someone messaged me, and I had so much anxiety that it took me several days to come up with a short response, which in turn creates more nervousness in my mind because I assume the other person thinks I'm avoiding them even when that's not the case. Then I second guess what I did end up saying in the first place.

 

That's one of my biggest flaws. I need to learn how to drop the anxiety and to not judge my words so harshly - to learn how to just say what comes to mind instantly instead of critiquing myself to the point of madness.

Edited May 10, 2016 by Rivendare

[FluffyGoat13 375]

I'm lazy af.

I'm very sarcastic.

I'm very critcal.

I'm a bit too honest at times.

I'm not good at emotion/my emotions are under developed (I can only really do angry, excited, passive or sad) and I struggle to understand other people's.

I rarely leave the house of my own accord; as Richard Ayoade once said "I need a really compelling reason to leave my house; I really like being in my house."

[Ruddboy Olaf 10,628]

Sorry nothing.

Edited July 22, 2024 by Ruddboy Olaf

[Dreambiscuit 10,171]

I have a hard time getting motivated to do the things I really need to do. I get addicted to things that take little effort for quick gratification rather than work for something greater and more meaningful. 

I'm also too judgmental of others at times. I'm always wrong when I'm like that and usually realize it later. Then I get self-critical for it. 

[Moony the Cat 3,703]

I would say, the only advise i have for myself is, TALK TO PEOPLE !!!

 

But even if i find the courage to talk to someone, it only lasts for a day and then it goes back to, listening to the same songs over again and doing nothing.

Im lazy and shy.

[That Guy with the CMB 5,873]

Very forgetful, sometimes too quick to anger...

[The Mint Pone 2,294]

I am pretty lazy. I always put off things that i think will cause stress. 

I am not good with people I am very much myself and myself is weird so i don't make friends quickly.

[powerpuff-tsubasa 448]

lazy. overhyped. crazy. mean (i wont be mean on the forums ). thats all

[An Unknown Pony. 370]

-forget common stuff

-lazy

-Shy

-No motivation(sometimes)

-negative emotions and thoughts(i'm a horrible person and deserve to die etc.)

-Easily stressed

-Stubborn

[WhisperingDreams 16]

I can sometimes get very forceful without realising it.

 

If someone constantly pushes me into doing something I already planned to do, it really, really irritatates me. I start shouting at them and refuse to the thing I planned to do.

 

On that note, I'm really stubborn.

 

I'm also really lazy and a huge procastinator. I avoid doing things until the last minute and if I'm able to I usually never get around to it, that's one of the reasons why people (my parents) push me so hard but well ya know.

[Lisa 5,553]

I'm generally dumb.

I feel as though I'm too pessimistic. 

I procrastinate too much.

I'm lazy. (Ties in with procrastination).

I have horrible memory.

[King 5,625]

Sometimes I suck at reading the situation before me which results in me responding in an inappropriate way

I tend to have bouts of laziness

I have a habit of just not caring about most things or people, though that's not true in every circumstance.

[Redhatbrony 59]

My biggest flaws are:

 

I'm not very self confident.

I tend to question myself in regular bases, but find no answers.

I change myself quite often and find it especially difficult to say who I really am.

I try many things, but haven't the motivation to be great in something.

I don't think much about the future.

I dislike my father and am very distant to by family.

I am so emotically controlled, that I am not be able to cry in normal matters.

I suppresed my bad feelings, but don't want to be in this way.

I can't simply live my wishes.

Edited May 21, 2016 by Redhatbrony

[Dynamo Pad 11,476]

Some of my personal flaws are:

 

- I take things too seriously at times

- I lack some confidence

- I'm lazy to the point of procrastinating until the last minute

- I lack motivation at times

- I don't speak up for myself

- I don't have the best memory at times

[Phanact 333]

 

This thread is for a little self reflection about yourself. Review yourself, maybe give your self some constructive criticism on how to improve yourself without having to completely change who you are because hey, there's no changing that.

 

For me, I feel like my social quirks get the best of me. I inturrupt people in conversations, I talk really loud, and I do stuff that may come across as annoying to stuff. I will also sometimes say stuff irrational

be it joking or not. I mostly end up regretting it later. I also get angry with some people

way to easily or let others annoy me easier. This last one was more common when I was a social hermit though, and it improved when I started making friends and stuff.

 

Another flaw I have is that I tend to be way to critical on things, sometimes in kind of a toxic way. Like, my sister will be fangirling over something I don't care about and if it annoys me enough, I will just start bashing it without thought or saying irrational things about it. Most of the things I say aren't even serious critique just stuff you'd find in the YouTube comments.

 

 

I can tend to be a bitch to people. I'm willing to be rude if the situation calls for it. 

I also don't realize the reprocussions of the things I do socially, such as ignore people sometimes, especially if I find it difficult to hold a conversation with said person

 

I dunno, I'm not a nice person really.

[gamecubeguy214 2,512]

It's hard for me to pay attention to some lessons. My science teacher told us that we were going to have a debate about whether or not parents should genetically engineer their children, and he even told us tips for arguing. Ha! Take that parents! My teacher told us how to argue and now I'm gonna beat you two every time! I was taking notes on his tips, but it was kind of hard to process everything that he was saying..

[Midnight Solace 5,132]

I'm shy, I guess. It's really hard for me to express myself these days.

[Prospekt 11,021]

I'm paranoid and overly anxious. Not to ridiculous, debilitating extremes, but I can't say it's easy being me. I'm also very critical of myself.