Introversion

[Random User 249]

A nice little article, very accurate. I was surprised by how much I actually identified with this.

 

http://carlkingdom.com/10-myths-about-introverts

Oh yeah here's the source, but for say of easiness I'll quote the article here as well.

 

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.

This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.

 

Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.

Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

 

Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.

Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.

 

Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.

On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.

 

Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.

Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.

 

Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.

Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.

 

Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.

Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

 

Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.

Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.

 

Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.

Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.

 

Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.

A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.

 

So do you guys identify with any of these or no?

[NeverNeverland 1,940]

Yes. I identify with all of this.

[Jadefire 2,798]

I identify with pretty much all of them, except I'm also pretty shy on top of it. =(

[Bugz 159]

Most of this sounds too familiar...

[Doctor XFizzle 8,669]

I'm not telling you if I'm introverted or not. Leave me alone.

[Pinkie D Pie 1,036]

Pretty much sums up me...

[Chigens and Kay 3,832]

Hmm.

 

Only about like maybe 6 of those.

 

Does that make me one?

[Akemi Homura 7,680]

Those myths are so not true, especially #4. I honour my friends and family like they're my own blood. I wouldn't know what I'd do without them.

 

#10 is the one I find to be most annoying. While it's possible that they can acquire skills which would give them the persona of an extrovert, it doesn't exactly mean they're "more" extroverted. Just something they've learned to do over time. In fact, I was extremely shy back then but after hanging around the crowd (much to my displeasure) I learned how to communicate with people and have fun on just about any topic being discussed, yet it would never allow me to become the center of attention because I prefer to engage in worthwhile discussions or keep to myself, as it were.

[Raiyny Day 71]

Fully, 100% introverted and happy

[Krystal 1,468]

Wow. That is just amazing how well that painted me. I fit every one of those exactly.

Edited June 21, 2012 by Jarrettlicious

[LowfatEnvelope 335]

I can most definitely identify to most (if not all) of this.

Edited June 21, 2012 by LowfatEnvelope

[SrFrog 927]

Just a quick look at that and I instantly recognized all of those as being very true. Yeah, it's not like I entirely dislike company but it's really hard to explain.

[Victoria and Co. 782]

Celestia, that IS me...

 

But... I still act like an extrovert...

[NavelColt 22,882]

I'm an introvert I'm quiet, but I'm not shy.

[Lady Rarity Pony 4,892]

I care little about adding a silly label to myself.

[Fox 5,330]

I wouldn't want to be an introvert. I'm going to be different from others, but I don't have to act like someone who I don't think I am. I act the way I am, and is.

[Prince Lightning Da Cute 619]

Yea, im pretty sure im introverted but im prone to change that due to my enviroment

[Nikodemos 25]

Well, I have to admit I fit into nearly all of these.

[Aureity 3,055]

I identify with 100% of every one of those points. :L

[Random User 249]

Hmm.

 

Only about like maybe 6 of those.

 

Does that make me one?

 

I personally don't think a person necessarily HAS to be either introverted or extroverted. I believe sometimes it just depends on a person's mood.

[Mint Petal 258]

Yeah, I fit quite a few things on this list. I generally don't like being around people, and I like being alone, just doing my own thing. I don't know why many of my family members say it's a bad thing.

Edited June 21, 2012 by Mint Petal

[be my waifu 2,842]

I've actually read this article before, and I remember going, wow... that's me to a tee

 

Seems like everyone here is an introvert...

[HomuraBL 851]

Yeah, I can tell I'm most of these.

[moneyshredderofdeath 414]

The introvert traits describe me very accurately:

 

 

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.

This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.

 

Definitely me. I don't have a huge range of interests, but I certainly enjoy blabbering on about my pets.

 

Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.

Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

 

I'd say I'm considerably shy, however I can interact with people when I need to.

 

Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.

Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.

 

Very much me in regards to trouble fitting in.

 

Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.

On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.

 

My friends are generally few, yeah. I have a general paranoia about people so it's rare for me.

 

Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.

Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.

 

Yeah sounds about right. I like going outside but prefer brevity, and "complications that are involved in public activities" sound like ceremonies and stuff. Can't stand 'em.

 

Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.

Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.

 

Mhm, I tend to find it necessary to share any info I may have.

 

Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.

Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

 

Absolutely.

 

Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.

Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.

 

Probably not quite me as the other traits are, but still pretty similar to me.

 

Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.

Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.

 

Noise is indeed a big no-no to me, a lot of it irritates me.

 

Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.

A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.

 

Makes sense; I'd never see myself able to become very outgoing. Doing so would put a lot of unneeded stress on me.

 

[Whiteshade 1,426]

I'm an introvert and I only fit half the descriptions, if not less. I don't think an accurate description for myself is possible under a binary classification system.

Edited June 21, 2012 by Whiteshade