Being a sufferer of BPD I do feel often out of place, but one simple thing helped me, stopped caring about what other people thought about me / expected from me, when you truly live for yourself and help those out who you want to help out or who deserve it then things become much better, the way I see it im here once, i play by my rules, live my life, i do what makes me happy and comfortable, materialisticly though i dont have much but I am much happier with this attitude, I dislike it that people are made to feel down because society says they aren't normal