mega thread What is your sexuality ?

[Envy 6,144]

I consider myself neither of these anymore.

 

I now utterly hate even the thought of me being in a relationship, having sex, or even nominally associating myself with any orientation.

 

Doesn't matter what gender, what context, etc. I hate the thought of being with any of them. :3

 

My first thought was "Aw... How depressing", but I really wish I could feel the same way as you do. It would make things so much simpler...

 

Enjoy it while it lasts.

[Piodx 49]

I am Straight myself, and i do respect anyone who's bisexual, homosexual, or pansexual, actually i have got some friends that are bisexual or gay, they are pretty damn cool. 

 

Fun fact is, being myself a guy i act in a pretty femenine way xD

[Middnight Snack 24]

So I've been looking at this thread for quite a while now, and I'm surprised at the amount of people hating to be in relationships. I used to be like that, thinking that it would all be more simple. That was until I meat a select group of people that have changed my life for the better. They really expressed their sexual feelings to me, then I to them. I think just being honest to some people really helps.

[Agent153 50]

Too be honest that is something difficult to answer. I am a heterosexual but I am not agaist the idea that somewhere down the line I end up in a homosexual relationship. So to put things simple, straight but somewhat leaning on the fence.

[~Lawful Sturdy Wing~ 522]

I am heterosexual and completely comfortable being a male, my wonderful, loving and perfect girlfriend or six years is also heterosexual. 

[Equity 61]

I don't even know, man. Probably the most accurate way of putting it is straight with a playful, bi-curious side when the mood strikes :3

[Gone for good 1,593]

You see, I'm straight but in all brutal honesty I totally have those wacky bi moments that outside of the moment I really want to forget such thoughts went through my head.

[Coco Pommel 669]

I'd have to admit, at the moment, in the realm of relationships, I would prefer to have a boyfriend over a girlfriend. Perhaps that is because I'm surrounded by such wonderful queers these days. :3 But what I've come to realize and embrace is that sexuality can change and fluctuate. It isn't always something that remains in one place forever. Like, for me, whenever I see or think about a cute guy/girl, my mind is on that person and that particular gender. At that moment, you could say I'm either straight or gay or whatever. Of course, I can think about multiple attractive people of mixed genders at one time, but I think all of you know what I mean. Really, I'd prefer to look at myself as my own person and not to identify under any sexual label, but living in a world where I can actually do that and no one would feel the need to label me would be wonderful, but it probably won't happen in my lifetime.

[Hansel 1,512]

I'd have to admit, at the moment, in the realm of relationships, I would prefer to have a boyfriend over a girlfriend. Perhaps that is because I'm surrounded by such wonderful queers these days. :3 But what I've come to realize and embrace is that sexuality can change and fluctuate. It isn't always something that remains in one place forever. Like, for me, whenever I see or think about a cute guy/girl, my mind is on that person and that particular gender. At that moment, you could say I'm either straight or gay or whatever. Of course, I can think about multiple attractive people of mixed genders at one time, but I think all of you know what I mean. Really, I'd prefer to look at myself as my own person and not to identify under any sexual label, but living in a world where I can actually do that and no one would feel the need to label me would be wonderful, but it probably won't happen in my lifetime.

 

This is similar to how I feel.

I think that partly the reason why people view sexuality as something that's so complicated is because we've broken it up into so many labels. I don't believe it's really meant to be arbitrarily broken up like this, it's a fluid thing can shift and change.

 

I've spoken to a lot of people who are confused about their sexuality and feel that they don't know what they are, yet they're able to describe their feelings perfectly. The only issue is, a label for their feelings doesn't exists, so they reject how they feel and find one that's "close enough for now", or continue to claim that they're "confused". You don't have to wait for someone to invent a label for your feelings to be okay, and if your feelings don't stay consistent one-hundred percent of the time, it doesn't mean you're "confused". 

Edited January 22, 2013 by Hansel

[Dev 251]

Well, I'm bisexual. I've only told my mother, the rest of my family would probably hate me. I'm attracted to both sexes, but I only pursue relationships with females. A relationship with another guy is out of the question for me, but not because I'm homophobic, it's just the way I am. And besides, when I hopefully have kids, I WILL want them to be related to me. It's just a Dev thing.

[Coco Pommel 669]

This is similar to how I feel.

I think that partly the reason why people view sexuality as something that's so complicated is because we've broken it up into so many labels. I don't believe it's really meant to be arbitrarily broken up like this, it's a fluid thing can shift and change.

 

I've spoken to a lot of people who are confused about their sexuality and feel that they don't know what they are, yet they're able to describe their feelings perfectly. The only issue is, a label for their feelings doesn't exists, so they reject how they feel and find one that's "close enough for now", or continue to claim that they're "confused". You don't have to wait for someone to invent a label for your feelings to be okay, and if your feelings don't stay consistent one-hundred percent of the time, it doesn't mean you're "confused". 

I completely agree. And I hate the word "confused" because of how negatively so many people use it. I refuse to associate confusion with sexuality (and gender identity). The only way I've seen the concept of confusion when associated with sexuality is through demeaning others or putting oneself down.

[Jadefire 2,797]

I think "I'm not gay, but $5 is $5" is my favorite quote on the matter, after seeing a couple of the posts on this page. x3

 

It doesn't apply to me, though. I'm a guy, and I like penis.

Edited January 23, 2013 by Jadefire

[~Lawful Jordo~ 2,066]

I am a heterosexual, though I am leaning more towards asexual. I much prefer to be single rather than be in a relationship. I've had sex with women before, and I have to honestly say it's kind of overrated. Don't get me wrong, it's nice and all, but it isn't really something I actively pursue. 

 

Relationships, sex and sexual things are pretty low on my priority list; but when I am sexual, I am attracted to women.

 

In the end however, I think it's dumb to judge someone on who they find attractive. I have homosexual, bisexual and heterosexual friends. They are all the same in my book.

I'm asexual. I find no interest or comfort in sex, it's just a mundane thing that happens everyday that's exploited by media giants, the porn industry, politics, and other institutions. (sigh) so overratted!

 

I am inclined to agree with you; while I am not 100% asexual, It is very low on my priority list. There is much more to life than sex, and I believe it is probably the most overrated act on the planet.

Edited January 23, 2013 by Eljordo

[StormzInvader 127]

I am straight. I don't have a girlfriend yet though because I don't know how to approach them ladies... yet. I don't have anything against homosexuals or bisexuals or anything. I think everyone is just fine to me.

[Pinkazoid 3,493]

I'm most likely bi. At first I thought I was just trying to seek some sort of attention, or just some weird phase I was going through xD

 

I'm really more lenient towards guys, however I'm not the type to seek people just for their gender x3

[concertoldham 140]

I have a certain organized chaos to answering this question.

 

I love guys, but I occasionally am attracted to some girls.

 

I am "by definition" bisexual, but honestly it's like I'm attracted to: 90% male and 10% female.

 

I don't think I would pursue a romantic relationship with a girl because it would be a weird relationship balance (I'm kinda feminine).

 

Though I wouldn't put it past me to have a girl who's a "friend with benefits"  

 

So I'm almost homosexual.    almost.

[Jemboi 127]

 

Hey guys! I'm a gay brony and was wondering if there are any other gay bronies here as well. http://mlpforums.com/public/style_emoticons/#EMO_DIR#/cool.png

Hi there. Gay brony here. Nice to meet ya. I'm sure there are plenty of us around here. The brony fandom seems to have every age and walk of life. That's why we're awesome. Hehe.

[MiStErUnMeRry 328]

I would say I'm straight but lets face it...if Will smith or David Tennant wanted me I would turn gay in a heart beat, no questions or process needed.

[Leatherbehlt 465]

I'm bisexual. I wouldn't date a man or anything like that, but male furries, ponies, and humanized male ponies... I think I'll stop there before I get kicked off the site for going too into detail.

[Creamy Arty 6,252]

Funny story... not really, but it was interesting to me and the few involved.

 

 

I have two friends, both whom I've known for over 10 years. They're both vocal about their heterosexuality, not in a vulgar way, but they make it clear whenever they find a woman attractive (one of them couldn't stop staring at my autographed picture of Tara Strong that's now hanging on the wall). One of them commented on a singer, athlete, or something the other day, calling her "cute." I agreed. He pointed out that my agreement with his descriptor of "cute" was the first thing he's heard me say in 10 or so years that was remotely indicative of my sexuality.

 

I never realized that I was so quiet about it.

[Equity 61]

Funny story... not really, but it was interesting to me and the few involved.

 

 

I have two friends, both whom I've known for over 10 years. They're both vocal about their heterosexuality, not in a vulgar way, but they make it clear whenever they find a woman attractive (one of them couldn't stop staring at my autographed picture of Tara Strong that's now hanging on the wall). One of them commented on a singer, athlete, or something the other day, calling her "cute." I agreed. He pointed out that my agreement with his descriptor of "cute" was the first thing he's heard me say in 10 or so years that was remotely indicative of my sexuality.

 

I never realized that I was so quiet about it.

Ha, I'm kind of the same way. I don't really get the whole "checking out girls" thing and in fact, whenever my friends would point out girls in high school I'd just be like, "okay, I get it," y'know? I just didn't really do that kind of stuff. One friend jokingly assumed I was gay because of it.

 

I dunno, I've just never seen people like that. I'm honestly more interested in what a person has to say, and what they're like. Good looks are just the icing on the cake, really

[ZLTavs 87]

Heterosexual master race reporting in.

 

Nah I'm just screwing with you, I'm straight but I don't hold anything against the other types sexuality at all, in fact I support equal rights for all.

[XXVYNIKK 145]

It's been a while since I found this thread, but I change my vote. Got into it and know m absolute answer as of right now. Changed my vote to Pansexual. Funny how i went to Hetero, to Bi, to Pan. Just needed to find myself out.

[Shaky Novel 72]

I'm unsure. Sometimes I think I'm homosexual, but the fact that I'm still a teenager tells me that it's a good idea to not jump to conclusions. And honestly I don't really care either. I can't decide who I'll fall in love with. 

[Appleja©k 31]

Bi. You only live one, why limit the fun? Bwahaha

 

Girls are more pleasing on the eyes though, of course.

Excatly my reason for being bi. Bisexuals have more fun. But still haven't really "Came out" yet, only one who knows is my friend, and she's bi to.