I hate it when people say guys can't be friends with girls

[Creepermin3 16]

This is a bit of a pet peeve of mine but come on 2 of my best friends are female, and we have a lot of fun together when we all hang out either just us or with my other friend, the only reason people think this is because they think that all males are just sex obsessed animals who wanna have sex with every women they see, uuuuhhh that just gets me so mad, what do you guys think?

Edited December 23, 2017 by Creepermin3

[Feather Scribbles 194]

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I agree with your statement, but during teenage years, hormone levels are rising and well,... Let's just say that it is best that when teen biys and teen girls are around each other, adult supervision is required.

[Here No Longer 5,270]

I agree, it's a downright sexist claim that also assumes everyone is heterosexual.

[Creepermin3 16]

exactly thank you, although for the record I am heterosexual! I also agree with feather scribbles to an extent, it's just that some people have more self control than others

13 minutes ago, Creepermin3 said:

 

 

Edited December 23, 2017 by Creepermin3

[Feather Scribbles 194]

4 minutes ago, Creepermin3 said:

exactly thank you! I also agree with feather scribbles to an extent, it's just that some people have more self control than others

 

I agree with you there. But it isn't a case of looking at a guy and immediately determining if he is a "good guy" or a "bad guy". Often, precautions must be taken. Just in case. You never know.

[Will Guide 21,326]

@Creepermin3

Not all us guys are into women like that. I may be gay, but the idea of men not being allowed to at least make friends with women is absurd! 

We're all humans, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race. So we should all have the potential to be friends, even if some friendships fail.

[Creepermin3 16]

1 minute ago, Feather Scribbles said:

I agree with you there. But it isn't a case of looking at a guy and immediately determining if he is a "good guy" or a "bad guy". Often, precautions must be taken. Just in case. You never know.

now I agree 100% friend 

[Victoria Sponge 1,014]

I think generally guys get on better with guys and vice versa, just natural because there's trends for males to like different things to females. Doesn't mean they can't be friends, I myself have quite a few male friends and only one is more than a friend, but that's why it's probably frowned upon by some people, because its rarer to see.

[Feather Scribbles 194]

Just now, Creepermin3 said:

now I agree 100% friend 

Yup, it's just a case of getting to know the person and seeing if they're trustworthy or not.

But when it comes to certain things (sports, wrestling, camping trips), I believe that mixing both/all genders would always be a bad idea.

[Octavia_Melody2 187]

From a personal experience, as a hetero male, having female friends has always been awkward and difficult for me.I'm not saying I don't respect them as a person, but it's weird for me to have friends I'm physically attracted to.

[Creepermin3 16]

1 minute ago, WiiGuy2014 said:

@Creepermin3

Not all us guys are into women like that. I may be gay, but the idea of men not being allowed to at least make friends with women is absurd! 

We're all humans, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race. So we should all have the potential to be friends, even if some friendships fail.

EXACTLEY!

[SparklingSwirls 21,263]

Yeah, it should be acceptable for people to be friends with whichever gender they want.

Though personally I find it difficult to be friends with guys since I usually end up crushing on them and then they don't like me back  

[Octavia_Melody2 187]

7 minutes ago, SparkliciousSwirls said:

 

Though personally I find it difficult to be friends with guys since I usually end up crushing on them and then they don't like me back  

Same here, except w/ girls.

[SparklingSwirls 21,263]

1 minute ago, Octavia_Melody2 said:

Same here, except w/ girls.

Seems like people are always talking about how guys have problems with girls, but no one talks about girls having problems with guys...

I guess it's just because a lot of these sites have a more male-dominated user base  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Octavia_Melody2 187]

6 minutes ago, SparkliciousSwirls said:

Seems like people are always talking about how guys have problems with girls, but no one talks about girls having problems with guys...

I guess it's just because a lot of these sites have a more male-dominated user base  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Yeah, I guess that's true.

[Sovereign Leader Rarity 12,000]

Personally, you should socialize with whoever you want to. Nobody other than you should have the right to impede your choices or your decisions on the matter. I for one, find it to be far easier interacting with the opposing gender rather than my own. 

People just need to mind their own business sometimes, not everything is about sex or romantic relationships. Assuming that that's the case is narrow-minded and borderline offensive in some cases.

[Prospekt 10,984]

I think it's incredibly sexist to refuse to befriend someone just because they are male or female. Let character be the deciding factor.

As for myself, I'm a heterosexual male whose best friend is a girl and while I do admit I have crushed on her a bit, I have never allowed it to get in the way of our friendship.

[Techno Universal 2,575]

Yeah honestly I'm currently a teen who has a few female friends. Like I feel a little awkward with them but I often feel a real deep connection with them as they want to be my friend simply because of how they have a lot in common with me. Plus mentality I'm actually half female to so I have the ability to think like girls so I can understand them very well. So really it's normal to have a few opisit sex friends here and there!

[Square 69]

Women good for love of all type. Crotch love, heart love, all love good for all.

 

Many say, "No,no that not good, stop, it must be the pelvis love not the 'you a good person' love!"

You say "No, you wrong, eat my pant."

 

Good life philosophy.

[Creepermin3 16]

1 minute ago, Square said:

Women good for love of all type. Crotch love, heart love, all love good for all.

 

Many say, "No,no that not good, stop, it must be the pelvis love not the 'you a good person' love!"

You say "No, you wrong, eat my pant."

 

Good life philosophy.

I'm not sure I get what your saying

[Octavia_Melody2 187]

7 minutes ago, Creepermin3 said:

I'm not sure I get what your saying

He's trying to be funny. It's an attempt at satire.

[Creepermin3 16]

oh gotcha hahahaha XD

[Narcissus 352]

Different people connect differently. Some people are all about getting into someone's pants, but it's narrow-minded to assume that's the case with everyone. I've had many acquaintances I've hung out with and believe it or not (gasp!) we weren't doing it with each other. Go figure.  

[CheeryFox 23,811]

It really is a stupid statement. It's not the females that say that - it's dumb-ass guys. 

[Olly 1,008]

I've never had any 'real' friendship with a girl. guys make great friends but I've never had a positive relationship with any girl now that I think about it