Are there any family members you hate with a burning passion?

[Moonlight 7,285]

Well?

 

Personally, it's one of my older cousins, why?

• He saw I was watching ponies and said that they need to be shot without giving the show a damn chance.
• He called one of my favorite actors a f*ggot. (Neil Patrick Harris, I know he's gay, but I despise that word.)
• He assumes that girls who wear boy clothing are lesbians and are ugly or fat.
• He wanting to know why the hell I was on Facebook all day when I literally just opened the app just to see if my friends were on.
• He makes fun of me for being vegetarian.
• I was watching Bleach during Easter and he went on a religious rant about how I shouldn't watch ghost stuff on Easter. 

And there are a multiple of other things. My parents, grandmother, and MAYBE my sister are the only family members I give a shit about. But even my sister is starting to piss me off. I dislike my brother since he hates everything I like, (Pokemon, Portal, among other things).

 

How about you all? Anyone in your family?

 

 

[Demirari 454]

  A family member that I despise is one of my cousins on my mother's side of the family. He's just a brat and annoying to be around. Quite rude and so unclean. Doesn't close the door when going to the bathroom nor wash his hands after he's done, just horrible. (I have a OCD for cleanness XD) Cries alot and judges others for things when he does those things. Quite stupid and calls all of his classmates morons. Just generally horrible to be around with.

Edited July 21, 2013 by Demirari

[Champion RD92 8,658]

 

• He saw I was watching ponies and said that they need to be shot without giving the show a damn chance.

 

I swear...if he said Rainbow Dash needs to be shot...

 

 

But anyway, I don't really hate any of my family members, although one of my little cousins who is like 12 is a little douchebag.

[Dark Horn 430]

My sister isn't nearly as bad, despite the fact that she's not exactly the brightest crayon in the box. I mean, she's older than me, and she gave up and threw away Portal after not being able to solve the first level. She's a jerk... but to be honest the person I hate the most in my family is my mother, even though I don't hate her that much.

 

My mother is just really annoying, hates ponies, squeals a lot at the tiniest things, she's arrogant, brags about everything she does, and she's incapable of seeing things from another point of view.

 

But, as I said, I don't hate her that much, she just really ticks me off, all the time.

[Moonlight 7,285]

 

 

I swear...if he said Rainbow Dash needs to be shot...

 

 

It was the Sleepless In Ponyville episode when Scootaloo was on her scooter while falling asleep. So, technically, no to Rainbow Dash being shot. 

[NothingIsEverything 1,239]

I hate my Uncle and my Aunt and my two cousins because my Uncle and my Aunt just mooch off my Grandmother (as they live with her as well) and they don't respect her and they always force her to babysit my cousins. And my cousins, good God how I hate them. They are the wild little pair of brats ever. And its all because of my Aunt and Uncle's lack of discipline. I always dread going to my Grandmother's house because I dispise everyone. The only one I love is my Grandmother, the rest can go fuck themselves.

[Shiki 5,855]

My mother.

 

She's the #1 person on my "hate" list. Reasons have been described on many occasions on the forums, but just to sum things up:

• On Welfare only because she's lazy
• Couldn't/Can't keep her pants on
• Is as obnoxious and simple-minded as a middle school girl
• Buys luxuries before paying for necessities
• Has the worst parenting skills I've ever seen in real life (equal to those reality TV show mothers)
• Basically abuses the fact that she's my mother, by making me go over to her house to help her do chores and watch her kids (of course so she can go the casino with her husband or something) and whatnot, even though I don't live with her, nor does she even have custody of me
• Disrespects me more than... I don't even know what to compare it to, because I've never felt so looked down upon (by someone who isn't better than me, at that)
• Is in the cheapest duplex thing ever to exist, even though the rights to live in it were supposed to be for her parents (family member used to live there, then died)
• Complains about the kids that she had and raised (she has no right to complain, as she shouldn't have had kids if she didn't want to raise them correctly)

Etc.

 

Everything about her is the kind of thing that I would list off in a person that I hate. I have a hard time coming up with anything positive to say about her. The only thing I can really say is; she's got... lots of energy? (which is kind of a bad thing, because it fuels her disgusting ways)

 

I try not to think about her.

 

There's a few other members of my family that I do not think highly of, but cannot say I hate. Every one treats me rather nicely, because I try to treat every one nicely. They have nothing against me, so they don't act badly around me. Perhaps if I saw some of their darker sides, I might hate them, but as of right now, I cannot say I hate any one else.

Edited July 21, 2013 by Kirino

[MichaelxXxTrixie 433]

The only family members I really hate are ones that are usually distant and everyone in my family really has kind-of excommunicated them. Other than that I really don't like my mothers dad (Grandpa) for the reason he's always trying to start stuff with my dad and he is a religious bigot. 

[Rainbow Skywalker 642]

Meh.  I hate all of my family.  I know it sounds bad to most of society, family is supposed to be one of those things that you automatically love, but all of my family is very annoying, embarrassing, and they're all conformists as far as I can tell.  

 

Why should I hate them?  Well most of them teased me when I was young, over things that young children do normally.  They also force us to get together every 6  months or so for whatever occasion, and they can't stand my musical tastes.  I prefer rock, and every dang one of them like hip hop.  I just can't understand them.

[MLPForums Phanact 1,374]

I just stay away from my family as much as possible. I love them all, but I don't like them. Although, I dislike all people to a certain degree. I usually stay in my room until it's meal time, eat my food and converse with them as nicely as I can and then return to my safe haven. I'm close with my mother but not so much with my father or brother. I'm also someone who prefers to be alone, rather than with people. 

 

I have nothing in common with my family, I like gaming, MLP and Dubstep while they prefer hip-hop, sports and are all Catholics. I must note however, they've never teased or bullied me etc. and they've always been supportive of everything (including bronyism) so I can't complain.

[Vay 175]

Since I've pretty much cut off all contact with my brother because of years of abuse, yeah him. He's not a nice person in the slightest and still has little regret for what he did to me. And despite me having cut off contact with him he stalks me online even though I have blocked him on a lot of websites, he still keeps finding me and it is seriously scary sometimes. I am actually quite happy it is very difficult to get into our flat apartment because I wouldn't put it past him to find my address and harass me.

[Thrashy 2,800]

Um...can't say I hate any family members whom I still associate with, really. Each of them annoys me at times, but that's kind of a side-effect of any family relationship (or any relationship, period). I think there'd have to be something really wrong with me for me to hate them as they are.

 

I do hate my aunt, who completely excommunicated my family one Christmas. She's always been a bit of a psychopath, so no one was really all that surprised, but the kicker is that my little sis and I used to be very close with our cousin, whom I guess she told to stay away from us. In that regard, I guess I've grown to hate my cousin as well. After all, what kind of grown man allows his mother to dictate whom he is or isn't allowed to associate with? A coward, that's what kind. But what really seals the coffin for me, as far as they're concerned, is the fact that neither of them bothered to show up to the hospital when my grandma was on her deathbed. Loathsome, loathsome people. I suspect drugs, honestly, but I can't prove anything one way or the other.

 

I guess the only other family member I can say that I hate is my biological dad. Which I guess is to be expected, because how can you love a man who belittled you on a constant basis, physically abused you upon occasion, and tore the family apart with his online addictions just before walking out on us to chase some young biker bimbo? Yeah, it's pretty difficult not to have some hard feelings there. Guy's six feet under now, so I guess the joke's on him. Still, I'm filled with an inexplicable sense of regret that I never really attempted to reach out to him before he died. Not that I had any earthly reason to do so, but I often wonder what he'd have thought of me as I am now.

 

But that's all neither here nor there. The family I've still got is the family I love, so I'm pretty content, all things considered.

[Akemi Homura 7,680]

Little kids are little kids, so I'll omit them no matter how fussy, bratty, whiny, and rotten they are. Then again, they won't learn anything if they're raised poorly.

 

Actually, I come from a country where thievery, bribery, jealousy, marital problems, and poverty are very common and expressed rather aggressively - thus it makes sense for my own family to be plagued by them. Any of them either take advantage of someone's naivete or plan to take them down solely based on their own envy. During social gatherings, it seems fairly tranquil on the outside and although I try to enjoy myself, there are always sad undertones in it.

 

Realize that this has been going on for twenty years now. I was originally scared of the prospect of having a family that knew nothing but disdain and conflict, covering it up with lies and sugarcoating it with false praise. Then as I grew older (early teens until a few months ago), I began feeling resentment and anger. How could any child live like this and be raised this way?

 

I see things differently now, however. If I was given the ability to think positively and assert my ideals, then maybe I can change the whole ordeal for the better. No one has to grow up living in the strife that their own family members created, and none of my own relatives need to feel the turbulence. It's true that, living away in Canada for as long as I have, I feel estranged from all of them. I am experiencing a journey for the ages - my own travels - and perhaps now my biggest test is just beyond the horizon.

 

So, when the time comes, I'll save them all.

[Zygen 6,066]

Eh, not really, I have a large family and don't see alot of them, but really I don't have a burning hate towards any family members.

 

The closest I have is my stepdad and me's relationship, because we both bump heads due to both being kinda stubborn, I also don't like how much he ye'lls and how no matter how obviously wrong he is he still thinks hes right.

 

Plus he can get annoying with his sarcasm, which is pretty crazy when I'm a sarcastic person myself.

 

Still I don't hate him exactly, we just have a shaky relationship.

 

None of my other family members have done anything that has caused me to hate them, unless you count split seconds.

[Scootadress 361]

My sister because she's a person that likes shit her own way and not considerate of others. She's just so annoying..

 

This is NOT the person I hate most.

My aunts. They knowingly didn't care about my great grandparents so much they let them starve and filthy for DAYS when my Grandma (normal caretaker. ) Takes days off for a vacation. She cried so long. Then, they have the balls to knowingly ask for shit from great-grandpa. They are unfit to take care of themselves, why wouldn't they? They are there for cash.

 

Not only this, but they disrespect family. No one deserts family like they did.

[Scootalove 10,689]

I hate my dad so much. I hate him for reasons like lying to me, not caring about me, never buying anything useful for me, and abandoning me when I needed him the most. He is lucky that he isn't dead weight or a slacker.

[Nobody Special 210]

One person I hate with more than a burning passion is my sister. She thinks she's perfect, is a complete smart plot, thinks she knows what she's doing no matter what it is, constantly is picking on me and I cannot do anything about it because she will bruise herself to get me in trouble, my mom believes her over me, is constantly lying her plot off, and she never shuts the f*ck up. I would be happy to see her gone forever, and have thought of making that a reality. Never harmed her severely, although I have my fair share of punches landed on her. She may be older, but I'm bigger, a lot bigger. She is starting to learn her place, and more importantly, I'm not afraid to get in trouble in exchange for a few blows to the face.

[Winterbass 763]

My parents. I've had nothing but fights with them. My mother told me she never wanted a son and my father said that I was "a worthless piece of waste that should've died during birth."

 

You can probably guess why I hate them. There hasn't been anything good that came from them, there isn't a single moment I can remember that was even slightly enjoyable.

[Shanks 10,816]

There are several people mostly on my Dad's side of the family that I personally cannot wait to see burn in hell. My Dad went through kidney failure twice, the first time my Mom gave him one of her kidneys but a family member promised him and backed out at the last minute. But wait ladies and gents it gets worse, before the second time my Dad went through kidney failure after the kidney my Mom gave him failed after 8 years my parents got divorced and my Dad lived with my grandmother (his mother for a while). After my grandmother passed away which was a few years or so later they sold the house from under him and left him without a place to go. One of my aunts (his older sister) did offer to let him stay with her but her asshole abusive husband said no.

 

So I had to step up and help him by moving out of my apartment and buying a house with him for both of us to live in which we along with my Mom who moved in with us after she lost our old home of 20+ years have been living in since. My Dad finally passed away last year after his body finally gave out after a few years of a steep decline in his health and it is just me and my Mom. My Mom may have divorced him for a lot of very complicated and private reasons but they still cared about and watched out for each other unlike many members of his so called "family".

[Foreigner And Lover 207]

I hate the entirety of my extended family. Mostly because they are either bigoted bible thumping Catholic morons who hate my Mormon relatives or bigoted bible thumping Mormon morons who hate my Catholic relatives.. Also, my mom drinks a lot and thinks that she's part of the CIA.

Edited July 22, 2013 by Foreigner and Lover

[Derpamena Diane Pie 13]

Well, when I was little, a few of my cousins were going to visit for the very first time. One of my cousins was named XXXXX. We made friends and started playing with each other. I only lasted an hour with her. She was so annoying. She had to cause drama every single chance she got. For example: we were playing pirates when she started whining. "I DON'T WANT TO PLAY THIS GAME!!" I asked her what game she wanted to play. She wanted to play Barbie even though I didn't have any Barbie dolls. After a while of calling me names things got a bit more ugly. The name calling turned to insults and the insults turned into hatred. Though I find my sister annoying, I don't hate her. Hate is a pretty strong word

[Sylentmana 271]

We all have that one family member we greatly dislike.  They seem bound and determined to make us miserable growing up.  Fortunately, you can eventually move away and forever deny them access to your life.  That's what I did, at least.

[James 302]

Yeah, all of them, every single one. I feel like a complete stranger in my family, they're all just not nice people, to put it very, very lightly.

[Xievie 498]

Reading the posts on this topic made me a bit sad.

I love my family. I look up to a lot of them, no matter how much they embarrass me in public.

None of them are abusive or anything. 

 

If I had to choose the one I disliked the most, it might be my little cousin, but she can't help it. Unfortunately, she has autism, and that's why I understand her. Though, she does bug me a lot, which might anger me a bit regardless.

[Shanks 10,816]

If I had to choose the one I disliked the most, it might be my little cousin, but she can't help it. Unfortunately, she has autism, and that's why I understand her. Though, she does bug me a lot, which might anger me a bit regardless.

No matter how much you love someone they will always get on your nerves every now and then, I have Autism too so I have gotten on even my most understanding and compassionate family members nerves many times through no fault of my own. It wasn't easy but I did eventually advance to the point where I can for the most part pass for "normal" but what really is normal anyway? I am especially grateful to my Mom, Dad and brother who had to put up with me more than anyone else, they had to put up with my tantrums, unpredictable mood swings my disturbing rage mode moments in high school and all of the therapies and interventions I had to go throughout the years.