Unrequited Love

[RainbowDashiscool 309]

Do you have a huge crush on someone? and you think there the one but there married/in a relationship?,If so please tell me if you have a huge crush on someone and you think there the one but they are married or in a relationship does it break you're heart?

 

Tell me about mine in messages please.

[CheeryFox 23,821]

None for me. But crushes are cute. And methinks it would be wise to ask somepony if they had a mate first, if you have not - should you want to know them a bit better in that sense. 

[SFyr 1,982]

Well, my first major crush was on a girl named Carly. Tall, southern girl that was rather smart and pretty. My awkward-as-heck 15 year old self liked her a lot for whatever reason, though I barely managed to talk to her at all.

I 'did' find out she had a BF, which made me sad, but she didn't notice me anyways really, and I wasn't confident enough to talk to her. The not mattering at all to her hurt more than her having a BF though, where I wanted to man up and work to be something to her but couldn't bring myself to, nor believe I could. 

I ended up like, as the year ended, leaving a drawing/note in her locker basically saying I thought she was a great person, and she has a lot of capability to do great things for herself, and the people around her.

 

Barely saw/talked to her after that, though later on I found out she liked it, and that it meant a lot to her or something.

Edited August 5, 2014 by SFyr

[UserNotFound 964]

I've had it happen, never a married man but often one with a girlfriend...

 

And more recently I've had it happen to me, someone asked me out and I had to explain to them I'm in a relationship >_< it's awkward on that end too

[KitsuneSoul108 102]

Yeah,i have a crush on someone. But she is in a relationship with someone else...

[RainbowDashiscool 309]

Well, my first major crush was on a girl named Carly. Tall, southern girl that was rather smart and pretty. My awkward-as-heck 15 year old self liked her a lot for whatever reason, though I barely managed to talk to her at all.

I 'did' find out she had a BF, which made me sad, but she didn't notice me anyways really, and I wasn't confident enough to talk to her. The not mattering at all to her hurt more than her having a BF though, where I wanted to man up and work to be something to her but couldn't bring myself to, nor believe I could. 

I ended up like, as the year ended, leaving a drawing/note in her locker basically saying I thought she was a great person, and she has a lot of capability to do great things for herself, and the people around her.

 

Barely saw/talked to her after that, though later on I found out she liked it, and that it meant a lot to her or something.

We'll I have a huge crush on one guy I never felt this way too any of my crushes and my boyfriend,But I found out there married I know it's werid that a younger/older people just have crushes on younger/older girl's or guy's but I'm 16 in a half and the guy I have a huge crush on is older then me and hes married he more looks like he's around 20 year's old but when I found out he was married that made me heart broken...

[SFyr 1,982]

We'll I have a huge crush on one guy I never felt this way too any of my crushes and my boyfriend,But I found out there married I know it's werid that a younger/older people just have crushes on younger/older girl's or guy's but I'm 16 in a half and the guy I have a huge crush on is older then me and hes married he more looks like he's around 20 year's old but when I found out he was married that made me heart broken...

Well, there were girls in my high school who's BFs were like... 25 or a little more, I think. THAT, is a bit more wierd, I think. My current GF is 17, and I'm 20.

Still... that's pretty sad to hear.  Great people being taken is sometimes a hard blow to suffer.

[Mlpfan185 1,763]

Something was here.Something was here.Something was here.Something was here.

Edited October 9, 2018 by NONAME

[Mephala 2,633]

If you think they are ''the one'' at 16 and a half, you're probably incorrect. Don't jump into something hardly knowing what is going on, and remember your hormones are a huge factor in attraction, not just the genuine kind.
Also, it seems you have a boyfriend. Is it fair to do that to him?

Edited August 7, 2014 by Cirrostratus

[Shanks 10,816]

Yes I do have a crush on someone who is already taken yeah it is a bummer but it just wasn't meant to be and that lucky guy better treat her right or he is going to have me to answer to. She is a very compassionate person with a very positive attitude and a strong sense of justice without being preachy or judgmental. We have a great deal in common as a matter of fact I introduced her to ponies, evidently her favorite in Pinkie Pie which is no surprise to me though she also likes Applejack though probably not as much as I do. I may not be able to have her as a lover but I still like having her as a friend and I will find a lucky lady someday and make her very very happy.

[(MARVEL) Blue Blood 991]

Yeah, I kinda do. I say kinda because I'm not sure if I really do have a crush on her. We're both Type 1 diabetics, are going into our Junior year in high school, and according to her in a text message, she likes talking to me, which I also like doing.
However, I've been in this situation where I think a girl I like and shows compassion towards me may be the one, but in reality, she was just being friendly and I was taking it the wrong way. It hurts, and because of that, I'm not going to worry about dating or getting a girlfriend, despite the fact that I do want one. I'm just gonna be friends with her, and maybe we can do something together sometime.

[iceestarz 5,764]

Ehhh. I haven't really had any crushes for a couple years. I'm just not all that interested in dating right now. Not to mention the last boyfriend I had was a huge mess.

 

Basically he was dating this chick for like 3-4 years, broke up with her and then used me as a rebound. And he was always hanging out with his ex. I wouldn't have really cared if it wasn't like a serious ex-girlfriend, but she was so it was way different. So of course I wasn't cool with him always hanging out with her. Arguing back and forth and we broke up, and then the next day he hooked up with said girl. I was heart broken.

 

So no. I haven't had that issue. Although it's really awkward when guys ask me out and I have to tell them I'm not interested in dating anyone...

[Snow Frostflame 3,568]

oh yes mate pull up a chair and listen to my past

 

there was this one girl in my freshmen year I had a crush on but because of her religion I couldn't be with her so I was content being a close friend of her

 

my sophomore year found another girl who seemed very friendly I was a new student at that school she came up to me shook my hand and introduced herself to me I became her friend and slowly fell for her one of my other friends I made asked her out it felt worse than a stab in the heart felt like a stab in the heart plus a back stab with both blades twisted in I still loved her but I couldn't bother to ever look at her face again the last time I saw her face is when she was kissing my friend *sigh*

 

oh just remembered something in my Junior year there was this one girl she was a loner me and my sister had kept a close eye on her because she talked to no one and she ate lunch by herself then I found out she was a Pegasister so my friend and my sister went up to talk to her me being shy stayed back until I decided to join them we had a great conversation and I started to fall for her had many dreams about us being together then many months later I asked her made it seem like I was just being curious if she was single she mentioned she had a boyfriend out of school unlike the other two I mentioned I still talk to her as of having a crush on her to this day meh kinda...

 

I don't bother for love though the only thing on my mind is graduating and starting my new life

Edited August 7, 2014 by PonygamesFluttershy

[LightningMana 146]

 

 

I don't bother for love though the only thing on my mind is graduating and starting my new life

 

 

Quoting for wisdom~ o3o 

 

Best thing for that age~

[ARagY 1,152]

I have before, but i was the one who initiated the relationship between her and her bf (one of my friends) because i wanted her to be happy. It made me feel a litlte sad but I got over it.

Edited August 8, 2014 by ARagY

[NotoriousSMALL 1,984]

I did but then she broke up with her boyfriend and i got her on the rebound but she wasnt really for me and we ended up drifting apart and then we broke up. 

[Null_account 144]

I did. In Fourth grade. :3 On a guy named Ian. He actually liked me back though. And he still likes me. :3. I still like him, but as a pretty good friend.

[Bronyette 835]

Wow. This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Like SPOT on. :/ and I wasn't sure how to talk to anyone about it. No one has to answer me, but maybe PM me if you know what I should do.

 

-not necessary info, read at your own risk-

 

I've had a crush on this guy for YEARS now. We used to go to highschool together, and he would sit by me everyday at lunch to talk to me, since I was a mute and didn't really have any friends. He was always so kind and understanding of the fact that I didn't talk. He'd always say goofy things to try to make me smile, which of course he succeeded, and that's when I got the first hint of a crush on him. He had a girlfriend though at the time, and he was a year older so I thought he'd never like me. So his senior year he and his girlfriend broke up, just right before prom sign ups started. So he didn't have anyone to go to prom with. We were texting for a while and he asked me out to be his prom date. We went and had a decent time. It happens that he asked one of my closer guy friends (whom had a crush on me at the time) to ask me out. The guy friend told him that I said no, even though he never mentioned anything to me. So the year ended and he moved away to college.

 

Years pass, he says I'm still cute. Finds out he has a girlfriend. Dies.

 

-rambling over. TL;DR version-

 

Guy I have liked for a super long time has a girlfriend and I have a feeling he still likes me. It sucks. I can't get over it. We are still friends so I can't just ignore him. And really, I don't think I want to. Plus, I know he'd never leave his current girlfriend for me. :/

 

Also, for fun. I painted him a rainbow dash painting and it's hanging over his bed. XD

Edited August 8, 2014 by Bronyette

[GhostPony750 959]

I'm not looking for a relationship, but a tons of girls do. o_O I'm kinda trying to avoid them all.

[Shadowed Watcher 183]

I'd have to say, yeah I got a crush. There's this girl I'd met in 9th grade, about 6 years ago actually it'd be now. Anyways, in school (and still now) i couldn't talk to people. I didn't have friends unless they kept pushing, well they kept pushing, and i made a few, but thats not the point. There was this SUPER shy girl, (now back then I was just 13 and believe it or not, I didn't have any hormones going yet lol) so she sat with me at lunch we ate lunch together, neither of us ever talked, but one day she worked up the courage and asked me out, me being unable to say no said yeah, okay. So next day I start to panic, cuz idk what to do about relationships and stuff, so I ask her friend to break up with her for me, now I admit, that was REALLY a dick move on my part, and I'm surprised later she still wanted to be my friend. So we break up. And over some time I start having these weird feelings in my head and chest, turns out I like her. (I've only asked one girl out, and she said no, so believe me when I say I'm a little skittish to approach people and ask 'em out). So We talk, hang out a few times, a lot of texting, all this time I'm thinking, gah I really do like her. Well we move. about 300 miles south of where she lived. BOOM. Thats over. I text her for awhile but things drift apart, cuz somethings mentally wrong with me like that. So then I'm in 11-12th grade in the big city, and I take this creative writing class both years, cuz I love writing. And turns out I'm good at poetry. I wrote a few poems about her, one of which I had framed and still sits in my room to this day. Well I see her posts on facebook all the time, and she's always in or out of relationships, and I just sit there thinking, damn I wish I had the courage to say hello at least, I'd even move up there to be with her. So yeah, I got a crush, and I'm bucking stupid about it and can't even talk to her cuz my brain is poo.

[RainbowDashiscool 309]

I'd have to say, yeah I got a crush. There's this girl I'd met in 9th grade, about 6 years ago actually it'd be now. Anyways, in school (and still now) i couldn't talk to people. I didn't have friends unless they kept pushing, well they kept pushing, and i made a few, but thats not the point. There was this SUPER shy girl, (now back then I was just 13 and believe it or not, I didn't have any hormones going yet lol) so she sat with me at lunch we ate lunch together, neither of us ever talked, but one day she worked up the courage and asked me out, me being unable to say no said yeah, okay. So next day I start to panic, cuz idk what to do about relationships and stuff, so I ask her friend to break up with her for me, now I admit, that was REALLY a dick move on my part, and I'm surprised later she still wanted to be my friend. So we break up. And over some time I start having these weird feelings in my head and chest, turns out I like her. (I've only asked one girl out, and she said no, so believe me when I say I'm a little skittish to approach people and ask 'em out). So We talk, hang out a few times, a lot of texting, all this time I'm thinking, gah I really do like her. Well we move. about 300 miles south of where she lived. BOOM. Thats over. I text her for awhile but things drift apart, cuz somethings mentally wrong with me like that. So then I'm in 11-12th grade in the big city, and I take this creative writing class both years, cuz I love writing. And turns out I'm good at poetry. I wrote a few poems about her, one of which I had framed and still sits in my room to this day. Well I see her posts on facebook all the time, and she's always in or out of relationships, and I just sit there thinking, damn I wish I had the courage to say hello at least, I'd even move up there to be with her. So yeah, I got a crush, and I'm bucking stupid about it and can't even talk to her cuz my brain is poo.

Wow,First of all I never had any crushes when I was 13 year's old maybe  but there was some people who crushed on me in my past and I bet you maybe two of them still have a crush on me.

 

The first person who had a crush on me was in my kindergarden when he and I was kindergardeners but then,I remember that I took a graduation photo with him maybe it was probably around 2004 but then I became into different classes and I haven't seen him since then me and my family moved about when I was starting in 3rd grade at my past school.

 

Another person had a crush on me and this was since elementary too half of middle school maybe,We'll I did not really relize he had a crush on me but me and him once played house and I'm glad one of the school workers made something up too get us too stop playing house under the tree she said this: "Get out of the tree,Theres snakes there" she made that up and actually the snakes are only on ground where I live and this is where I now live when me and my family moved in the past here.He started too backstab me he told me this when I came back too school after I was done being homeschooled for a day or while or so here is what he said: "I'm the bands drummer now" so I actually guess I did not get mad at him at the time so I asked my classmate/my crush/Lead singer he created the band and he told me I'm still the drummer in his band but when I grew up I started too get mad at the kid who use too be in the band but had too be in a different classroom so are other classmate came into the band.

 

 

This one seems too still have a crush on me,He had a crush on me since I was a kid he was adopted but I first met him while I came too his house from his adopted sister who is my friend.I remember he did try too bring me too places he wanted too show me only with him though that's what he wanted and I did not relize he had a crush on me at that time but he moved and my mom seen him and got his phone number but my mom lost it but my mom said that he asked her too tell me if I have a boyfriend.My mom is not living here since she left when I was 12 year's old she never helped me with my homework in the past and she hurted my family including me and then she came here back and forth since people/freaks kept on accusing her and stuff so my mom finally moved too somewhere else.

[SCS 7,537]

I've never had any serious crush on anyone who is married due to my age. 
 
I have had crushes on people before who were already in a relationship or otherwise uninterested, and it did hurt to varying degrees. Such things become increasingly difficult to bother me, though. Just because I like a girl doesn't mean she suddenly becomes my entire life. If she doesn't like me back, so what? There are many women out there. 
 
If I like someone, I might try to get together with them. Sure, it might hurt if it doesn't work out, but I'll get over it and move on. I always do. Life is too awesome to spend it dwelling on things that didn't go exactly how I wished they did. Besides, for most situations I'd rather try and fail than never try and wonder what may or may not have happened. 
 
I do have a crush on someone right now. No idea if she's interested or not, but everything I said above applies to this situation, too, so it's cool.

 

Life has its ups and downs. Sometimes things work out from my perspective, sometimes they don't. However, I often end up being able to get something positive out of even the worst situations I've gone through, such as a life lesson or a fortified moral fiber.

[Malinter 3,064]

I never have to be honest... though thats probably because though my teenage years I was really into videogames.

Edited August 9, 2014 by Shire Pony Malinter

[Creamy Arty 6,252]

Over my formative teenage years I developed a few crushes here and there. Nothing too serious except for one. I'd say it's been about 8 years though since I've been smitten with anybody. Physical encounters, shall we say, are all I've had for a long time now and all I've cared about, and even that has waned over time.

 

As Shimada Kanbei told the water priestess in Samurai 7, "My heart dried up long ago."

 

 

Recent events have sparked something in me though. Rekindled old, natural longings for my affections returned. Maybe I'll seek somebody out soon, maybe it's just a passing fancy which will flee me as quickly as it came. I'm banking on the latter. Time will tell.

[ScaleWrangler 122]

Ive had a crush on somepony amazing but she's always been with another guy .. also doesnt help she lives miles away