general Who's in a relationship?

[MissDashie 275]

Yay! I just saw this thread after my dream guy asked me out earlier today, so I guess I can put 'In a Relationship'! 

 

I know it doesn't really count as a relationship until you've been on a few dates, but darnit I'm breaking the rules so I can say in a relationship with this guy!!!!! 

[JustAnotherBrony 90]

I'm in love with my wifi if that counts? 

[Midnight Scribbler 1,705]

*sigh* Still nope. Nothing going on here, just me and my beloved laptop.

[~Master~ Button Mash 2,307]

Single.

 

Not necessarily by choice…unless shyness/avoidant tendencies are a choice.

 

I probably wouldn't have to be. There's a girl who I like and I'm 99% sure likes me back, but I'm too much of a little bitch to make a move. Why? See above...

[HoopHoof 137]

I'm in love with my wifi if that counts? 

Everyone uses Wi-fi all the time......I think you'll need to find a new love my friend....she sleeps around too much

[Lightning Bliss 1,674]

Everyone uses Wi-fi all the time......I think you'll need to find a new love my friend....she sleeps around too much

 OMG thats a good one lol!

 

My relationship soon gonna change to marriage in a month from yesterday!!! *Flutters in the air* so excited!

[Nulln 755]

Single.  Haven't found the right one.  I attract a lot of weirdos and old people for some reason.  I would love to have someone into pokemon and animals and a lot of the stuff I like.  I've never really had anyone I had a lot in common with, and I think I'm gonna hold off dating until I find someone like that.  

[Twila Starshimmer 172]

I have a boyfriend who has been with me since April of 2012. We were best friends at first and it naturally evolved.

 

He's not that into MLP just yet, but I'm working on it! 

[Golurk 468]

Single, and not actively looking to change that. I have other priorities right now that, in the now, take precedence. I honestly think being in a relationship right now would be detrimental to what I'm currently doing with my life. I'd like to change that, but it doesn't look like I'll be able to for another few years.

 

That said, if something happens on its own, I won't object. 

[RainbowCupcakelol 26]

well, i am in  a relationship with a boy from my school. we are very close, we WERE best friends but then something snapped and we started liking each other....

[Doge 34]

We, members of the cult of Doge don't need a silly mortal thing. We have Doge to make us happy.

[Cygnus 60]

Today is our 7-month mark! I found myself a sweet, animal-loving mathman.

[Wingnut 6,999]

I continue to monitor posts here and two of the newest have caught my eye.

 

 

 

well, i am in a relationship with a boy from my school. we are very close, we WERE best friends but then something snapped and we started liking each other....

 

Well, geez, you're best friends with a member of the opposite sex and then, without warning, something snaps. Don't you just hate it when that happens? 

 

But all kidding aside, I think that's very cool. Depending on the situation, why not take things a step further with your best friend? That old saying about once in the friendzone, always in the friendzone is a myth after all.

 

Best of luck to you guys.

 

 

 

We, members of the cult of Doge don't need a silly mortal thing. We have Doge to make us happy.

 

But is it safe to cuddle with Doge on a cold winter night? He looks warm and fluffy. But that look in his eyes tells me he might bite my nose off if I get too close!

[Red Diamond 549]

I've been a single ever since my ex dumped me for another guy two years ago.

We were together for three goddamn years, and then, she just called it quits via a TEXT MESSAGE. 

I never got any explanations or closure, either.

Haven't been able to find anyone new as of yet, and, to be honest, it's not even that high on my

priorities list right now.

 

I know that feel.

 

I've had several girlfriends in my life time, 2 this year, but they dumped me so... I'm forever alone.

[Throwaway19573639385 764]

I thought it would never happen, but I finally found an amazing guy I really love. After so many failed relationships, I feel like this one is something special, more special than any relationship I've ever had with anyone. The love I feel for him is real and it's so strong that it always manages to get me through the day just by thinking about him. He's funny, sweet, nice, open-minded. We have similar interests but not too many, which keeps things fresh and interesting.

 

Although he has had many downs, and still has sometimes. I'll always be here for him, whether the relationship will last forever, or breaks some time in the future (Which I honestly think never will). No matter what I'll still be there for him, maybe not as a partner, but as a good friend. And even though he says he doesn't want to be treated special, I'll always treat him like that because I love him so much.

 

I love you Twili Strike, you're the only one I've ever loved so much that it actually hurts.

Edited February 9, 2014 by Winterbass

[Skylar 1,641]

I am currently single. 

 

Why? I don't know Just haven't been lucky enough to meet somepony yet  

 

Has it's perks though I guess, though I do long to have a relationship with someone  

[MissDashie 275]

I am currently single. 

 

Why? I don't know Just haven't been lucky enough to meet somepony yet

 

Has it's perks though I guess, though I do long to have a relationship with someone

 

Oooh, who is it Skylar? Do tell! 

[Lightning Bliss 1,674]

I am currently single. 

 

Why? I don't know Just haven't been lucky enough to meet somepony yet

 

Has it's perks though I guess, though I do long to have a relationship with someone

You just gotta hang in there Skysky, when it happends, you will just know it! Sometimes you have to go through a few relationships to find that perfect somebody. I went through 2 online relationships, before I found my third one, which turned into my fiance soon to be husband. I know online relationships don't always work, but I think I can use myself as living proof that it can still happen hehe.

[Skylar 1,641]

I didn't really mean anyone in particular  

 

I seem to make alot of friends here but never seem to get anywhere with that side of things

Edited November 26, 2013 by Skylar

[Neon Fire 473]

I'm single, and I'm pretty okay with that, actually. From what I've seen, teenage guys are bastards.

Sometimes I have like a moment where I think-

"You know what? I feel like having a boyfriend."

But then I realise the guy I want probably doesn't exist, and I just go about being awesome...

 

XD This is me as well.  That always happens or they're way younger than me o.o

[Antismurf9001 1,271]

I know online relationships don't always work...

 

Well, to be fair, nonline (heh heh, that was a terrible pun...) relationships don't always work either, and 1/3 odds are pretty good from what I've gathered.  (Of course, those may not be, and very likely are not, the typical odds, but still.)

 

By the way, congrats and I wish the best for you and your fiance!

[SC_coolguy44 32]

I've been single my entire life. It does upset me quite a bit sometimes, but there's not really much I can do about it as I'm not a very appealing person, and I'm not at all attractive by any stretch of the word.

 

I do get lonely often, and I do find the single life to be terribly drab and not very pleasant, but some people just get dealt a poor deck, and some don't get to have what they want. So now I'm just trying to do the best I can to keep my mind off it and get on with my life.

Hey man, the exact same thing happened to me. I'm 22 and never had a relationship. I'm feeling really lonely and depressed because of this. I am also very awkward and suck at starting conversations, and don't think anyone would date me because of this. Each time I asked someone out, I got rejected. The most recent time I got screwed over, it felt like she was leading me on to start a relationship, then it went downhill.

[Wade Barrett 111]

Oh God, my experience in a relationship. I apologise in advance because i'm going to ramble, but with it still being fresh in my mind, it helps further bury it in the dirt.

 

I'm 21. Coming out of a relationship that lasted 7 years (Yep, my best years. Since I was 14. Young love doesn't really transition well through the ages.). It was long distance and online, mostly started through roleplaying (My poor RP kids, having to go through the divorce...), we'd met twice (for a combined time of a month) over the course of it. In the end, we broke up because.....well, I don't know. We first broke up roughly two years ago, got back together after a day. Broke up again a year ago, got back together after a week, and four months ago we broke up permanently. She said it was because of the distance, because she just didn't love me anymore. Hearing those words after SEVEN years makes you kind of want to walk outside and shoot something.

 

I loved her to bits, really wanted to patch things up, and honestly did try and repair something to the point where we could still be friends (I still believe her to be a halfway decent person who deserves a happy life and deserves a good man. It's just that even if I never saw her again, it'd be too soon.) and still did until I found out that she quickly picked up a new fellah about a month after we broke up (After she'd given me the whole sob story of "We can't do long distance", when this guy is a fair distance from her. And how she said "I can't find anyone else after you", "You were my soulmate" etc;etc;) and was insulting me behind my back. Saying she was hostile to me and making me out to be the worst boyfriend on Earth (Yes, we had our arguments. Yes, I will admit sometimes I got out of hand in them. But there would be times when she would snap at me, insult me and generally bite my head off when I just logged on and asked how she was. Probably should've read the signs there and then.) So needless to say, I may be having trust issues for a good while. And if I see a person who plays a guitar (As her new bf does), then I may just use their guts to make my own strings AND PLAY ALOUD THE SONG OF MY PEOPLE.

 

That being said, best of luck to everyone in an actual solid relationship. Just...for fucks sake, cherish it.

 

 

At the same time, though, if you're not in a relationship? Don't sweat it, fellah's. My Dad rushed into his first relationship, got married, and the thing fell apart. His second marriage (to my Mom) and he's perfectly happy, and they'll be celebrating 25 years together next April. These things take time, and it is better to live your life and not try and force yourself into a relationship,, then it is to worry about not finding love and leaping onto the first available person. Because that's the sure-fire way to get introduced to the pain of love, and trust me: It's painful.

Coming out of this relationship, i'm happier for the first time i've been in a long time. I've got several plans on the table, and i'm hoping to get some money together to travel the world on my own. So being single definitely has its perks.

[Ianpiersonjdavis 513]

I am not in a relationship for a few reasons;

 

-Social Anxiety.

 

-Lack of romantic experience with the opposite gender and the fear of saying/doing the wrong thing.

 

-My difficulty in being able to trust others after various past backstabbings.

[SC_coolguy44 32]

I am not in a relationship for a few reasons;

 

-Social Anxiety.

 

-Lack of romantic experience with the opposite gender and the fear of saying/doing the wrong thing.

 

 

That's the same with me. I don't know how to fit in socially/start conversations. I get really nervous around people and if there's a girl I like, I act even more shy/awkward then I already do. I have never been in a relationship (as I said in my previous post) and that drives me insane. Honestly, nobody judge me for saying this, I am jealous of anyone who is in/has been in a relationship (talking about the healthy ones).