Sorry, forgive, thank you.

[碇 シンジン 27,431]

Can one word make you feel better? If it does why is that? 

 

 

 

I want to say sorry to people every time I feel that I did something wrong or something that made other people to work unnecessarily. It makes me feel better after I've said that.

 

I want to forgive all things that happened to me but some of them are harder than others, because I don't want to hold a grudge. It just makes me feel angry if I do.

 

I don't usually say thank you because I feel it kind of awkward maybe because I think that I should've handled this myself not needing others help me. But I truly appreciate if someone helps me I just feel I don't deserve it.

 

 

 

 

Ok it lagged and made 2 threads sorry about that. I hope you can forgive thank you.

Edited September 9, 2014 by ooBrony

[Darker 1,351]

Why, it seems you're not in a good mood now. That makes your friends sad. I am sad.

[lelouch. 625]

I forgive readily whether the other person apologises or not. If its something that cant be forgiven, i ask the other person for justice. If he or she is still unreasonable, i quickly make a whole plan to destroy them. Then i feel sorry for them and forgive them anyways

 

If i dont say thank you to someone who has helped me or complimented me, i feel like a total jerk. I try my best to thank people.

 

I say sorry to a person i feel like I've offended big time. I feel aweful if it seems I've ruined someones day, or even a minute for that matter. Apologising can calm down a situation whuch might have otherwise escalated. It also calms down the sadness in me.

 

i dont care if the other person doesnt say thank you if i help them. If i know i helped, thats good enough for me. But a thank you never hurts, and encourages me to help that person again. But i dont really help for a thank you in return.

 

i sometimes find it hard to carry out these things because i have pride issues, but 99% of the time i kick my pride to one side and do what i mentioned above.

[Skyfall 14]

I dont really understand this topic =S 

[Rainblow H. Ash 5,091]

A mod should merge the two copies so that my response in the other topic doesn't get wasted in case this topic catches on, ha ha.

[Bright Bastion 241]

Whenever I make a mistake I feel sorry for it, but sometimes it doesn't always work the other way around. It just seems that I'm so caught up in what I'm doing and then something happens to interrupt and i get angry. I'm bad at holding grudges too, I may say stuff like I'll haunt you to your grave but more often then not I'm completely square with them the next day if not a couple hours later. This mostly only happens at work, I seem to hold grudges aganst my family forever though, I'm trying to be more lenient with them since you know, they are my family, the effort just seems so tedious some times.

[ghostfacekiller39 23,860]

Often, if they mean it, no, always, and no for me

[Passion 3,484]

Often,

If they mean it,

No,

Rarely,

No.

 

Questions? None? Cool~ Have fun!

[Invincible 2,091]

@@ooBrony, I have to say you make some of the more interesting topics on this section.

 

Yes; i was taught to be polite and proper, and whenever i feel the need to thank someone or apologize to them i do it sincerely. Similarly, i expect to be thanked for my efforts or apologized to when hurt, but not if the other person is being completely dishonest about it. Either way, i'm quick to forgive other people - holding grudges is juvenile and meaningless. I believe in giving other people second chances and i'm very patient; it usually takes a lot to cause me to turn on someone.

[Hashi 323]

Can you put an eugh option in for each one?

I'm outwardly polite and the model of manners

But inside I would happily **********************************************************************************

shush

depends how im feeling

[Spirk Burkham 93]

there aren't a lot of things that can cheer me up

and they are all me.

there aren't a lot of things that can get me down

and they are all me.

[Handsome Changeling 1,851]

I would prefer if they have the common courtesy to say thank you or sorry but with me I only apologise if it is more serious because, well I am stubborn like that, I will say thanks to anything that you would say thanks to it is just saying sorry is something that can't be overused or else it is a false apology so it means nothing.

[Pinkamena-Pills 6,839]

Yes. I rather not truly hurt others,that is not why i exist. If i feel i have done something to truly hurt someone or my friends i will certainly voice my regret and apologize. 

 

If they mean it,sure. A simple and sincere "im sorry" can go along way to heal wounds. 

 

If they mean it then yes,forgiveness is important as we all make mistakes and if we can never be forgiven for those mistakes then we cannot grow...tho some things are harder to forgive than others. 

 

Rarely. Im just not use to praise honestly,i just blush/squee silently or something. 

 

Sure,if they mean it,a simple "thank you" can go a long way in making someone happy. 

[The Crimson Cross 7,532]

Generally that kind of thing should be common courtesy, more of the fact that the other person is acknowledging that you've gone out of your way to do something for them.

As for forgiveness and praise, honestly, I dish out what I'd like in return. Of course I'd want to be forgiven in whatever situation so. When it comes to forgive and forget, you can forgive easily, but the forgetting or moving on from it is the hard thing.

I've seen some people before that just don't forget and keep bringing up people's past mistakes.

That, isn't forgiveness I'd say,

[Magical Anarchy 177]

In real life, I'm a terrible person.

I don't say sorry fhat often if I've "hurt" someone, because I don't "hurt" someone unless they are an asshole. I don't forgive, which sounds childish after my previous statement, but that's just how I am. Finally, I don't really feel better if the person who "hurt" me says sorry unless I can truely see that it's genuine. Other than fhat, nope!

[ARagY 1,152]

It's very hard for me to say sorry to some people when I'm hurt.. Even when I feel sorry about something I've done wrong, I feel like sorry won't fix it and thus don't say it or I talk myself into thinking I'm in the right so that I don't feel as guilty. When people apologise to me, I used to have been more trusting, but now I sort of doubt intentions. So I typically distance myself until I'm sure they meant it. 

 

If someone were to praise me I'd feel be happy they did but at the same time I don't feel a response is necessary except in really professional situations. A simple nod is what I typically give, I don't bother to speak my gratitude, but that's probably cultural. 

 

And If I do feel good if someone else says thank you, but I don't make a response past that because I don't feel it justifies one. 

[Mlpfan185 1,763]

Something was here.Something was here.Something was here.Something was here.

Edited October 9, 2018 by NONAME

[Mitchell 45]

People that say thank you or your welcome gives me the impression that they're kind and respectful and it makes me feel better. Much better than not saying anything at all and possibly leaving me with the false impression that they probably don't care. Every time I help somebody and get no response, it always leaves me wondering why they didn't acknowledge it. Some may still appreciate what I do for them, but It's always nice to get some recognition every now and then.

 

When I know somebody that truly appreciates what I've done for them, It gives me the confidence and motivation to continue helping others as much as I can.

[Snow Frostflame 3,568]

-Yes

-If They meant it

-No

-Yes

-Yes

 

nothing much more for me to say

[Something Floaty 1,334]

I always graciously accept an apology when it is offered, but that's only to their face. I get my revenge much later, once the incident has faded and been forgotten. Then, my intricate and long-reaching tapestry of vengeance and rage is unfurled, not only returning whatever insult or inconvenience was visited upon me, but compounding it and not only thoroughly tearing down the mental and emotional stability of my target, but also disgracing them, and their families, for a thousand generations. 

Edited September 10, 2014 by Something Floaty

[Rainboom Dash 1,056]

I thank and apologize as much as I can. Forgiveness will depend on what happened though. If they're genuinely sorry I'll take it.

[Felix 1,363]

Yes

If they mean it

Depends

Yes

I wasn't really sure what this was asking but I said yes anyway

 

I have to say though. Apologies aren't always easy. You can say you really mean something but even then they still don't believe you because the grudge is so strong. I've been in that situation before. It's not fun. You can be as sorry as you want and mean it as much as you do but it just doesn't work.

[catnet 9,356]

I always say sorry if I've hurt someone, and still do it even when I haven't! I feel bad even thinking about someone being hurt by me, and saying sorry is the least I can do.

 

If they mean it, then yep. If they say sorry just to placate me for the time being, or never learn from their mistakes, then them saying sorry just gets aggravating.

 

I forgive people very easily, and often feel like what they did wasn't a big deal in the first place. If they have hurt my friends (not accidentally, I mean), though, forgiveness won't come as easily, whether I want to forgive them or not.  :okiedokielokie:

 

I do, yup; it feels awkward if I don't say thank you after receiving help or kindness.

 

Yep~ :3

[Pastel 7,630]

1. Yes! I actually feel bad if I feel I hurt someone but I didn't say "sorry" to them.

 

2. It depends, most of the time yes, if they mean it.

 

3. Again it depends, there are some things that can't be forgiven easily. I don't have an example right now.

 

4. Yes, I try not to forget about it.

 

5. Sure.

Edited June 10, 2015 by Blobulle

[LittleMac 3,085]

For me, it's all yes

 

1. Yeah. If I know that I've hurt someone in even a tiny way, I will apologise

 

2. Of course, it shows how our friendship is genuine. If either of us crosses the line, then we have to be ready to confess and admit to it. I find I'm usually the one apologising though XD

 

3. Yeah, almost too easily... I don't wanna derail the thread so I'll drop it...

 

4. Yup, I just see it as basic manners :/

 

5. Yep, it makes me feel as if I actually made a difference