general Ever got the feeling someone hated you from the start?

[kageyuki 59]

so I go to this one live stream every day well theres this woman I'm friends with there she has a daughter wellI got to meet her the other day well it was like this

 

friend : meet my daughter ( username )

 

me : hello ( username ) your mom is very nice

 

girl : I know 

 

nothing

 

me :   um nice to meet you

 

nothing

 

friend : my daughter likes clowns too

 

girl :  not happy ones I only like creepy ones 

 

me :  o oh um thats cool creepy things are not my cup of tea tho sorry I just like happy ones 

 

girl : i understand that i just dont like things that are to happy its creepy

 

friend very true daughter

me : ......  

 

maybe I'm just over thinking but what do you guys think? and has anything like this ever happed to you? if so what did you do?

 

 

 

[MuttonYolk 63]

Could just be an angsty teen, reluctant to meet her mom's friends. It happens to the best of us. 

[Dreambiscuit 11,213]

Could just be an angsty teen, reluctant to meet her mom's friends. It happens to the best of us. 

This sounds like exactly the case. Don't worry about it, it's all fine. 

[Light of Night 332]

It has happened to me before, with myself in both positions as yourself and the girl.  It's just awkwardness, at least from what I can discern from the text.

[Guest]

I'm the type of person that gets loved or hated when I first meet someone. So yeah, happened to me quite a lot.

[They call me Loyalty 1,954]

Most males on my school used to hate with passion, while women were agressive in other ways. And one of the teachers looked at me like saying "I'm  gonna getcha"

Kinda funny, because I was seven at the time.

[Kyoshi Frost Wolf 42,202]

I sometimes get paranoid about this after making a first impression on people. I always think I make terrible first impressions and thus make people dislike me right away. :| Pretty sure that is just me worrying too much as always.

[KatonRyu 1,036]

In this case it seems more awkward than actually being hated. I don't actually think full-on hatred is very likely for a first meeting, especially if you had no knowledge of the person beforehand. I do know it's possible to instantly dislike someone since I know several people I didn't like from the start, and I'm sure people have had the same with me. Again, though, this doesn't look like any actual dislike or hatred, just awkwardness.

[stripper 252]

Someone hated me as soon as he knew as was a brony

[Midnight Solace 5,134]

Most definitely. in fact, almost everyone I meet seems to dislike me. Only when I reveal something interesting about myself, or show them my art, then they seem to like me more.

[Here No Longer 5,286]

I don't think people hate me at first, but they more than likely don't like me. But yet again, I can just never tell what other people are thinking most of the time.

[Stone Cold Steve Jobs 22,504]

Sure. The issue is I don’t really give a damn what other people think about me.

[Cash In 23,089]

I am pretty sure that a lot of people have disliked me from the beginning. Although, I more so get the impression that most people that I meet, believe that I'm too strange for them. 

[TBD 17,272]

I do get that vibe from some people and I hope vice versa too. 

[DJ_Vinyl.Scratch_3 202]

I feel there is this vibe between two people to where if you like them instantly they will like you, but if you hate them right away, they will hate you too . 

[Discordian 6,020]

I dunno about that but I have certainly hated someone as soon as I've met them. Usually customers who you can just tell are scumbags and assholes as soon as they walk in the door. They keep proving me right too so it's adding to the stereotype programming in my head.

[Starlighty 1,049]

Yep.. my mom husband hated my whole family from the start... >.> doesn’t matter to me though he an alcoholic who needs  major help.

[Lucky Bolt 35,238]

Yep, and surprisingly from a lot of my extended family members. I don't care though, it's just the way it is. 

[Kyoshi Frost Wolf 42,202]

Most people. I am a grade-A social fuck up so either people hate me from the beginning or eventually down the line. At least we have common ground.

[Flutterstep 47,324]

More people hate me than like me so I already assume so, as to not be disappointed in the future. 

[Mirage 24,777]

@Kyoshi @Lucky Bolt @Flutterstep @TBD Well I love you guys! *group squeeze* 

 

But I'm pretty talented in getting people to hate me.

 

[Odyssey 5,719]

I get that feeling a lot, even on this site and other places to be honest. Anxiety kind of messes my thoughts like that. 

[Kion 7,407]

I can guarantee you   that more than half of the people at my old school hate me. A few at my new school to.

[Oblivion 20,282]

YEAH, that lady during lawn care than kept coming out screaming at me to blow off her sidewalk when I was not even half done mowing her lawn yet! 

[Clawdeen 21,157]

Oh I’m sure people have. I mean I’ve disliked coworkers I’ve first met. In the end I was right to dislike those individuals.