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Well I have no idea what sexuality I was when I posted on here probably bi 50/50 but I have thought about pansexual maybe I don't know don't like labels. Reason why is not so much that I believe in the idea of it which is that bi people are excluding nonbinary and transgender which simply is not true haha more because I learned that pansexuals have pansexual dragons and dragons are nice. 

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That is a challenging question. I suppose I would be classified as what many consider a "bisexual" who leans more toward biological females? So close to a lesbian, but not quite.

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14 hours ago, BlankFlank777 said:

I'm a guy who likes girls. What does that make me?

Straight, if you exclusively like girls.

 

1 hour ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

That is a challenging question. I suppose I would be classified as what many consider a "bisexual" who leans more toward biological females? So close to a lesbian, but not quite.

TF do you mean "biological females"? That term is usually used by transphobes to refer to people who were assigned female at birth, usually in reference to trans men (I'm a cis man, btw).

4 hours ago, Treeglow Flicker said:

Still bisexual here. :nom:   

Same.

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1 hour ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

That is a challenging question. I suppose I would be classified as what many consider a "bisexual" who leans more toward biological females? So close to a lesbian, but not quite.

excuse me but what do you mean by that?

do you mean that you like people born as a female and dont like people who transition to be a woman (even if they pass as a cis female)?

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12 minutes ago, Sherbie-kun said:

excuse me but what do you mean by that?

do you mean that you like people born as a female and dont like people who transition to be a woman (even if they pass as a cis female)?

I am merely being specific.

I am not interested sexually in people who would transition into female. I find that unattractive.

Realistically though, despite being bisexual and leaning toward the lesbian perspective, I actually try to avoid engaging with those of the same gender as myself and I actually don't wish to be this way if that makes sense?


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9 minutes ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

I am merely being specific.

I am not interested sexually in people who would transition into female. I find that unattractive.

Realistically though, despite being bisexual and leaning toward the lesbian perspective, I actually try to avoid engaging with those of the same gender as myself and I actually don't wish to be this way if that makes sense?

I mean also what about people who have already transitioned and pass as a cis female?

and oh? what makes you avoid engaging with other females?

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1 minute ago, Sherbie-kun said:

I mean also what about people who have already transitioned and pass as a cis female?

and oh? what makes you avoid engaging with other females?

I wish to be heterosexual. That is my desire.

And I do not believe I would engage with anyone who is transgender in any capacity on a romantic or sexual level. It isn't for me, however, I will still gladly be friendly with such a person and treat them as I would anyone else, I just would not be interested in sexual endeavors with them.


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1 minute ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

I wish to be heterosexual. That is my desire.

There's nothing wrong with liking people of the same gender.

Why don't you want to be lesbian?

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1 minute ago, Cyclone1066 said:

No just because you aren't attracted to a group of people doesn't mean you hate them or have a phobia.

 

1 minute ago, Lucky Bolt said:

They never said they were a transphobe...

I looked up this word "transphobe":

 

(plural transphobes)

A person who fears or has a negative perception of trans people and/or transsexuality/transgenderism.

 

I have no fear of such people, nor do I wish negative harm to come of them.

2 minutes ago, Misscellanio said:

There's nothing wrong with liking people of the same gender.

Why don't you want to be lesbian?

I do not feel right about these attractions. It makes me uncomfortable, I feel improper that I am attracted to those of the same gender as myself. It is something I have struggled with my entire life, but I continue to resist because it is not the life I want. I have been to many therapists regarding this issue.

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3 minutes ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

I wish to be heterosexual. That is my desire.

And I do not believe I would engage with anyone who is transgender in any capacity on a romantic or sexual level. It isn't for me, however, I will still gladly be friendly with such a person and treat them as I would anyone else, I just would not be interested in sexual endeavors with them.

ah, i see, was just a little confused thats all

however why do you desire to be hetrosexual? like being lesbian is who you are, you could live like a hetrosexual, however that's just not who you are

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1 minute ago, Sherbie-kun said:

ah, i see, was just a little confused thats all

however why do you desire to be hetrosexual? like being lesbian is who you are, you could live like a hetrosexual, however that's just not who you are

My English is limited, but I shall try to explain best as I can:

 

There is a feeling inside of me that says what I feel is wrong. It is something that does not go away, and I can not see myself being able to live like that.


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6 minutes ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

 

I do not feel right about these attractions. It makes me uncomfortable, I feel improper that I am attracted to those of the same gender as myself. It is something I have struggled with my entire life, but I continue to resist because it is not the life I want. I have been to many therapists regarding this issue.

Well I mean I feel that if you resist that you're attracted to the same sex in the future you might feel like you're lying to yourself and living falsely cuz your true desire is to be with a woman. Personally I think you maybe haven't explored enough and are trying to resist something that you might not have to. 

And by explore I don't mean go out and physically engage with a woman, I mean like online research or something etc. 


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5 minutes ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

 

I looked up this word "transphobe":

 

(plural transphobes)

A person who fears or has a negative perception of trans people and/or transsexuality/transgenderism.

 

I have no fear of such people, nor do I wish negative harm to come of them.

I do not feel right about these attractions. It makes me uncomfortable, I feel improper that I am attracted to those of the same gender as myself. It is something I have struggled with my entire life, but I continue to resist because it is not the life I want. I have been to many therapists regarding this issue.

You're answer seemed flimsy, is all.

Why is being "not the life you want"? Usually, that kind of shit is a result of conservative-religious indoctrination, after one is taught all their lives that gays land lesbians are "gonna burn in Hell for all eternity" just for being who they are. Just accept who you are, there's nothing wrong with it.

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1 minute ago, Misscellanio said:

Well I mean I feel that if you resist that you're attracted to the same sex in the future you might feel like you're lying to yourself and living falsely cuz your true desire is to be with a woman. Personally I think you maybe haven't explored enough and are trying to resist something that you might not have to. 

And by explore I don't mean go out and physically engage with a woman, I mean like online research or something etc. 

That is a bit difficult regardless, in my country it is not something you just go out and tell people. I have to use a VPN to just use the internet freely for example.

1 minute ago, 陈博学 (Trần Bác Học) said:

You're answer seemed flimsy, is all.

Why is being "not the life you want"? Usually, that kind of shit is a result of conservative-religious indoctrination, after one is taught all their lives that gays land lesbians are "gonna burn in Hell for all eternity" just for being who they are. Just accept who you are, there's nothing wrong with it.

I am not from a religious family.


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3 minutes ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

My English is limited, but I shall try to explain best as I can:

 

There is a feeling inside of me that says what I feel is wrong. It is something that does not go away, and I can not see myself being able to live like that.

It's not wrong. Anyone who tells you otherwise does not have your best interest at heart.

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Just now, 陈博学 (Trần Bác Học) said:

It's not wrong. Anyone who tells you otherwise does not have your best interest at heart.

But the one who feels this way is myself?

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2 minutes ago, Rarity Gemstones said:

That is a bit difficult regardless, in my country it is not something you just go out and tell people.

I think that might be the reason why you might feel that's it's wrong for you. 

It's not at all. 


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