What is your deal-breaker when it comes to relationships?

[Venomous 18,859]

What are yours?

 

1. Drug use & drug abuse.

 

2. Drinks alcohol (moderately or heavily).

 

3. Smoking (moderately or addicted).

 

4. Criminal history/prison sentence.

 

5. Abusive or using me.

 

6. A "two-timing" history.

 

7. Racist, prejudice, or hates animals.

 

8. Can't accept that I'm into anime, video games, MLP: FiM, etc.

 

9. Can't look past my Panic Disorder, Depression, and Bipolar Disorder.

 

10. Have children.

[Geek0zoid 1,468]

Romantic relationships?

 

1. Alcohol abuse. There's no reason why someone my age should be drinking. It's terrible.

 

2. Smoking cigarettes. Worse than drinking. Causes nothing but problems down the road.

[Moonlight 7,286]

If they insult me in any way, and they're not joking, that's a signal that I want nothing to do with them. I'm not a fan of drugs, smoking, or alcohol, as well but I'm a bit more relaxed on those. 

[Standard User 2,127]

1) Any drugs and/or alcohol. Big nope right there.

 

2) Vapid personality.

 

3) Not being Robert Downey Jr.

[Delernil 952]

1. Likes me

 

2. Wants a relationship

 

3. Is a human being

[Scootalove 10,689]

1. Abusing each other

 

2. Excessive use of drugs and alcohol

 

If this were to happen to me, I wouldn't want to be with someone like that.

[Ruddboy Olaf 10,628]

I'm not really a relationship kind of guy,cause I am frightened of them.

 

But,here's some deal breakers for me.

 

• If they get addicted to drugs or alcohol.
• They cheat on me.
• They're a wannabe gangsta.
• They're just using me.
• They're a mean person.
• They're too demanding.

That's really all I can think of.

Edited January 25, 2014 by DeadGuyBehindtheDesk

[Venomous 18,859]

1. Likes me

2. Wants a relationship

3. Is a human being

That's a deal breaker? Those seem like good things, though :/

[Delernil 952]

That's a deal breaker? Those seem like good things, though :/

I don't want relationships lol. Just a more fun way to say it than 'I've never really been a romance person.'

[Geek0zoid 1,468]

Oh, a few more things.

 

3. If they act like a jerk on purpose. I act like a total jackass around my friends, but they know I'm just playing. If they are just being me just to make me feel terrible, that's a breaker

 

4. Abuse me. Whether it's physically or emotionally, if they abuse me, it's done faster than they can say "I can change"

 

5. Two-timing. If you don't want to be with me, break up with me.

Edited January 25, 2014 by Geek0zoid Steven

[Smarts 1,622]

Considering I hate relationships and people in general, I won't ever know the meaning of one. None of this will apply to me in my lifetime. But, my biggest deal-breakers are:

 

• Any use of drugs.
• Treating me like trash
• Using me to get back at someone else
• Using me to get stuff from me
• Wannabes
• They are to much of a jerk
• Acting like they like me when they actually don't
• Cheating on me

Edited January 25, 2014 by SmartyPants

[Venomous 18,859]

I don't want relationships lol. Just a more fun way to say it than 'I've never really been a romance person.'

OOHH! Haha I'm sorry I didn't understand at first.

[Deesinn 393]

1. Drug use & drug abuse.

2. Drinks alcohol (moderately or heavily) I don't care, either way it's a no no.

3. Smoking (moderately or addicted) I don't care, either way it's a no no.

4. Criminal history/Prison sentence.

5. Abusive.

6. A "two-timing" history.

Someponies tough to please

 

As long as you're not a meth head or whatever, then I don't care. You gotta look real fine, and you gotta be fun.

[Fluttershyfan94 5,742]

1. Smoking, not really I'm sure one would stop smoking if I asked. Since indirect smoking are not good for you and having asthma I wouldn't want to be around a smoker.

2. Drug use unless it would be dropped, I wouldn't care much about alcohol use.

3. Dishonesty.

4. Mean.

 

There probably are more things but can't think of any.

[)O( Scarlet )O( 1,259]

1. Drug use & drug abuse.

 

2. Drinks alcohol (moderately or heavily) I don't care, either way it's a no no.

 

3. Smoking (moderately or addicted) I don't care, either way it's a no no.

 

4. Criminal history/Prison sentence.

 

5. Abusive or using me.

 

6. A "two-timing" history.

 

Pretty much the same love *kisses*

@,

 

Also love, check your pms please 

[Discordian 6,015]

I'm a highly tolerant person. There's not much that could make me want to break up with someone, at least not right away. I kinda believe in trying to make a relationship work so long as both sides want to make it work. People make mistakes and there are accidents and so long as such things don't continue and become a problem I say it's not worth holding against someone.

 

I'm also a highly loyal person myself and I would do what I could to make sure I didn't do anything shameful for my significant other.

 

I'm a "long-term" type of guy. I don't much care for investing my time into a relationship if it has no potential to be something I'll have for a long time, maybe until the end of my days if things work well enough.

[Malinter 3,064]

Children.

 

At the moment my anxiety makes me terrified at the prospect of being a father.

[)O( Scarlet )O( 1,259]

Children.

 

At the moment my anxiety makes me terrified at the prospect of being a father.

 

I was a father, all be it a terrible one, but that is due to my disabilities I think

[Guest]

1. too much partying/drinking/drugs

2. smoking isn't my thing either

3. too cocky

4. mean/likes to fight

5. closed mindedness

[)O( Scarlet )O( 1,259]

1. Drug use & drug abuse.

 

2. Drinks alcohol (moderately or heavily) I don't care, either way it's a no no.

 

3. Smoking (moderately or addicted) I don't care, either way it's a no no.

 

4. Criminal history/Prison sentence.

 

5. Abusive or using me.

 

6. A "two-timing" history.

 

7. Racist, prejudice, or hates animals.

 

8. Can't accept that I'm a pegasister.

 

9. Can't look past my Schizophrenia, panic disorder, or depression.

 

there's one more thing to add to this list love

10. Lying/Liars

[Inactive01 5,299]

I think there's so many obvious ones already provided by lots of people on this thread. Here's some of my peculiar ones:

1. Don't share the same religion, no relationship. It wouldn't work.
2. If the person doesn't like classical music or if I don't feel they appreciate it enough, that's another deal breaker. I wanna teach my kids classical music! 

I think those are the two biggest ones really.

[Delernil 952]

It's good I don't want a relationship. I'd never meet any of your standards.

[SomariFeyWright 776]

If there is a single part of my personality you can't accept... I don't even know why I was friends with you to begin with.

 

Also to add:

- Homophobic

- Feminazi

- Anti-feminist

- Anti-brony

- Things being anonymously mean over the internet is funny

- Beliebers (I'm sure there's an exception or two out there, but to still be supporting the kid implies some degree of ignorance and denial)

 

And don't even TRY to tell me I'm not allowed to feminine. Because I swear to god, I will never look at you again.

 

((Probably more, may edit this later. Probably won't.))

[Acchan 232]

A deal breaker would be:

1) Them serving another god.

2) Them being a felon. (there are exceptions to this rule- not many but a few)

3) Them being a drug addict

4) Beliebers (I have not found a exception to this. At all. If you're a DUDE into Justin Beiber... just... no.)

5) Racism (and other forms of prejudice)

6) Stupidity

7) Abusiveness

[Onylex 2,837]

1. Likes me

 

2. Wants a relationship

 

3. Is a human being

lol what?

 

ON TOPIC:

• superficial
• Unrealistic standers
• Self abusive
• verbally or physically abusive
• Doesn't accept me for me