How do you feel being the new guy?

[Invincible 2,091]

After recently earning my bachelor's, I found my way into a nice entry-level position in a firm that i like, and am going to start working quid pro quo, none of the low-wage student position i had to do till now. Real work.

As much as i'm happy with my accomplishments, i really did enjoy a good laugh or a nice group of colleagues to chat with as i work. I guess i'm a little nervous moving away to work with a team, which i know no one of.

How about you? How do you feel being the new guy / girl?

[Usual Crypty 4,753]

I'm usually ok with it. Just need a time to watch new people to understand what model of behavior is better to become a part of a team the best way.

Most people are nervous cuz think that colleagues are expecting a lot from them. Just know that everyone understands that you need to learn about new work place and don't be afraid to ask questions.

Trixie wishes you good luck on new job!

[man dude man 555]

Its extremely difficult, the psychological over thoughts, the anxiety, I think its harder than most of anything im asked to do at the job, or at the place im trying to blend in at. One, I dont, two, trying makes it even more obvious that I dont... Im much more comfortable around 1-4 people, even then I am trying to be mute, unless its someone I have known for an extensive amount of time, or if I am trying to earn the persons trust... it helps when I am intoxicated lol, but this isnt something that helps the situation partaking in an activity, a job, or a class.... i have tried anxiety medicine but it doesnt really do anything for me.. anyways congratulations getting a new job...

[TBD 17,254]

Well for one, a bit cautious since I want to make sure the "older" workers will  not  try to take advantage of me just because  I'm new. Then as I got comfortable i would start putting myself with  the others and go from there.

Edited April 1, 2017 by TBD

[Dreambiscuit 9,623]

I Hate being the new girl. It literally used to make me sick to my stomach. I hate being the scratching post for the higher-up who just like to flex their power trips. Normally I like to blend in and not attract too much attention unless it's by excellence at what I do, I hate to fail at anything when I'm learning a new job and screwing up is an unfortunate inevitability when starting out. After I've settled in and can work with confidence, I'm fine. But until then, no thanks. 

[Midnight Solace 5,132]

I still feel like the new guy at school after many years, because nobody really knows me.

[Phosphor 11,528]

Ok I guess. I get much better as I settle in and get to know my coworkers.

[EpicEnergy 23,175]

I'm usually nervous at first whenever I'm the new guy.

[Lucky Bolt 35,062]

I'm shy and nervous, also very awkward. It takes me a bit to warm up. 

[Splashee 28,563]

First impression is so important. I hate how much energy it takes to be the new guy.

[Stone Cold Steve Jobs 22,440]

I just focus on doing my thing and learning as much as I can so i can perform more efficiently.

[ExplosionMare 18,062]

I always get really nervous at first but eventually I begin to understand the place I’m in and what I’m doing pretty soon

[Here No Longer 5,276]

As one of the shyest, most socially awkward people I know, I must say it's miserable being the new... person. It's not only stressful, it's panic-inducing to be expected to know all the ropes before you've even gotten the chance to learn them.

Edited January 24, 2020 by Angel_Dust

[TheRockASaurus Rex 50,719]

I feel nervous and bloody scared to be the new guy.

It's really can make your anxiety play up.

[CatCat 1,118]

Whenever I join a new group (wether is be a new school, etc) I usually sit back and watch and figure things out before truly getting involved