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It seems I always miss my train, or when I'm finally get on, I just jump right off of it.

It's been like that for my whole life tbh. I ether waiting for the right moment and miss my chance or just can't maintain a good relationship for long.

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I think I will be alone for the rest of my life. but it's ok, I guess.

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I’m single becouse , I think I’m just bad flirting or something becouse it’s been about 4 years or so , not sure how long but I am still searching and not giving up ^^ just as long as I get to know someone for a while and gain some trust lol :3


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Lots of reasons, but mostly because I choose to stay single. Besides, I need to focus on my own life before even thinking about pursuing a relationship.


At first I rejected the zero, but that was because I simply didn't understand it. Now I do.

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A lot of reasons. To sum it up; because I'm me :derp: But even if by some miracle (or curse, from the other person's perspective) someone someday likes me that much, my insecurities and such would probably keep us from dating.


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Surprised I haven't given any sort of answer here yet.

There are a lot of reasons, but, I think the biggest ones are the fact that I don't socialize a whole lot, and when I do, I tend to be quite a bit socially awkward. In addition to that, when I was younger and first started trying to find love, I pretty much always felt like I had to have a girlfriend, even if I never knew WHY, often ending up with more crushes than relationships, and this was well before I got into a relationship I would consider truly meaningful. Not to mention my multiple failed relationships, including one big one that really affected me.

Decided to spoiler my relationship stories because although they are relevant to why I'm still currently single, they're long, and not everyone wants to read them. Warning, wall of text ahead:

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Having thought about the last relationship I mentioned in the spoiler above more recently, I do feel like I made a lot of mistakes and wasn't the best boyfriend at all to her, and I do own up to that. Its been a long enough time for me to have been through all the stages of grief, and I'm past the point of being angry at myself and/or her for our mistakes, finally at peace with the fact that that relationship was a bit of a disaster 3 years after it all happened, and have been able to let go of her for the most part. That said, it all happened to abruptly that I still feel a bit of pain thinking about her sometimes, and I do really want to just chat with her one last time and apologize for the entire mess I caused. Maybe also explain to her my side of the story and get her perspective too. I talked about that last relationship with one of my friends on here recently, so its all very fresh in my mind still, but that talk did make me feel like it would be the right thing to talk to my ex-girlfriend should we ever meet again and try to clear things up.

Aside from that, these days, I try to avoid even talking about relationships as much as possible, since it is a depressing thing for me.

TL;DR I am terrible at socializing, I felt pressured by some unknown force to get into a relationship, lots of rejection and/or huge lack of courage followed by desperation, been through 3 relationships that screwed me up in one way or another, and a strong desire to right my wrongs with the last relationship I was in. Relationships and love are difficult.

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Life is stressfull enough as it is, the world is dying right now anyway with all the crap going on and I'm not social either and likely never find a girl anyway, so why even trying?


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My own life is already a handful to be dealing with relationship.


                 

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I’m not good enough for anybody.


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