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There is a lot more to Halloween than just trick or treating y'all. There is dressing up, carving Jack'o Laterns, watching scary movies, decorating your home, going to haunted houses if that is your thing, pumpkin patches, Halloween parties, the list is as big as your imagination

I will never be too old for Halloween, never ever ever. It is my favorite holiday, me and boyfriend even choose to exchange presents on Halloween instead of Christmas

Getting punched in the throat by a boxer puppy, he popped up off the grooming table to try and play with the brush and jabbed me right in the throat, talk about sucktastic, not to mention I work in a glass box and there were people watching as I gasped for air and tried to remain calm. Working with animals is not glorious at all peeps, it's rather ruff work (see what I did there?)

I am slightly lactose intolerant, I can small amounts of cheese without being sick, but oh god if I drink straight up milk I will be sick as a dog and in horrible distress. Also sour cream, yogurt and I get belgh after ice cream too but I fucking love ice cream

Thinking I could keep up drinking with Army Veterans at a bachelor party, (yep I am a girl, yes I did get to go to a bachelor party)* shudders at that hang over*, once upon a time many moons ago when I was a teenager I snuck out of my parents house to go skinny dipping with some friends. Yep, that is about it, and I am considered the wildest out of my group of friends lol

I am in college so I guess that may make my answer different from a majority of these since the enviroment is different. I am really interactive in class discussions depending on the day, I have made a handful of friends in college and I usually eat with them on days I have lunch at campus. I have found when you get to college people are more loose about having conversations with anyone and the focus is completely geared towards school as you near the end of your degree. I am mostly quiet though because I am just sort of burnt out on school

Part of the expierence of reading a comic is holding it in your hands feeling the paper, the smell, getting to thumb through the pages, buying it adds another level of expierence you can't get online

Germany, I want to go eat the food, partake in the beer, and see the historical things, and my roommate who was stationed in Germany for two years says it is a blast and the culture is really fascinating. After that Canada, no real reason, just because it's Canada Then Ireland, then Japan

Actually nobody can effectively multitask, the way our mind's perception works we can only hold so much attention to one item at a time. The reason women are percived to be better at multiple tasks at once has to do with women are on average placed in caregiver roles and take on multiple responsibilities at once. Girls are usually better at liberal arts, such as English, Literature, History etc because of the socialization we receive as children, take a look at little girls toys next time you are in a store, do you see anything like puzzles or legos or any toy that engages analytical thinking needed for the maths and sciences? You probably won't and if you do you are at a very progressive toy store. Now go look at the little boy section, there are legos and connector sets, play chemistry sets etc. You don't see a toy kitchen, unless it involves a grill and you won't see many toys that have to do with building relationships or toys that encourage roles in nurturing. Boys are falling behind in national test scores because of our education system, about 50 years ago it would have been girls, it has to do with learning style and how we are socialized with our gender to learn. The classroom isn't set up probably in our society to blend learning styles, part of that is our society's idea of gender isfixed and innate, which is gross misconception, gender is fluid and changing, and reflects the society you grew up in. A really interesting book on this is called Raising Cain So women and men are not innately less or more intellegent, it has to do with our socialization process and what we are "taught" to be better at by our enviroment, caregivers, and authority figures as well as the media

http://budgetbytes.blogspot.com/2012/08/spicy-noodles-204-recipe-102-serving.html DRAGON NOODLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously, my favorite quick, easy, and cheap meal, throw some meat and veggies in and boom it is a full and balanced meal.

I am sorry for your loss Skullbuster, I understand how hard it is too loose a grand parent, I was very close to my grandmother and my greatgrandparents. I lost my grandmother in a car accident where I watched her die, 7 months later I lost my great grandmother to a slow sickness that had been eating away at her for over a year, she was delirious by the time she passed and she asked for me on her death bed and I just couldn't go, I couldn't have the last memory of this strong kind giving woman as sick and frail and helpless. I recently lost my greatgrandfather about 5 months ago, I felt so guilty after my greatgrandmother passed away I didn't visit him as much because being in that house was too painful for me, all my fresh woulds were agitated by the museum of memories that house held. I know it's hard to erase the guilt, the pain, the numbing, but you shouldn't beat yourself up, when we are young we aren't fully aware of our actions because we lack the experince and self awarness something those older than us realize. I am certain your grandmother knew how much you loved her and how important she was to you, and I am certain she wouldn't want you beating yourself up or feeling guilt or shame in her memory. Grieiving is a long process, for me its been a 8 year journey since my grandmother and greatgrandmother passed and I still continue to heal those wounds and find ways to honor their memories. I still ache at the thought they won't be here to watch me graduate college, see the first home me and my boyfriend buy togehter, they won't be present at my wedding. But I know I carry them in my heart, and there memories with me. If you ever need to talk pm me Skullbuster

Sorry Bronium, *offers muffin and hugs* also cool username I am.running.on very little sleep, I had to pull an all nighter to finish a paper for a gender communications class so A) riding on the sleep deprivation train and (. Still in critically analyzing society mode because of paper. Also I get my feathers ruffled at the idea of "women's logic". I have heard that term used waaayy too often in my small rural home town as a way to imply women are lesser, lack intelligence, and are inherently different, so when not in the right thinking mode I forget most people aren't using it to mean those things, that it is just a joke. *goes to make morning tea for alloted caffeine intake of the day*

Excuse me, but "fuck women's logic" implies that women are different or use a seperate logic processe than men do, well we don't. I think.in the same manner a man does, me being a woman doesn't make me process the world any different in my actual logic orocess, the conclusion I reach though is different though not because I as a woman am inherently different but because of the gender I was socalized to have by my enviroment and society. Also fun fact, there is a culture (can't remember where, too lazy to go get textbook right now to cite reference"). Where men are expected to wear jewlwrry and make themseleves attractive to women by wearing nice fabrics and such. Also running on three and a half hours sleep Weeee Also.dominatrixs don't go around slapping people for fun, most people.in. the bdsm.community keep.their roles quiet in public. Just because someone is into kink doesn't mean they are unable to control themselves and they let it bleed out everywhere in their life. This woman was just a rude ignorant Ho ho who probably just likes to do stuff like that for attention or she just has the iq of a mouse on crack

@Motion Spark lol I'm actually quite awful at noticing when men or women are paying attention to me. Boyfriend will point it out for me, because I"m clueless and once I realize it sometimes it makes me super self conscious, not because of how I am dressed but because of my self esteem issues also do to some trauma in my background I can sometimes be scared of men so when I realize unwanted attention it isn't because I am frowning at them because I chose to dress a certain way but because I have learned to fear men I don't know and be weary of them. I realize when I am showing a bit of cleavage and I realize the reactions that go with it, the only reaction that matters to me is my boyfriend's, and even though I know he loves me in my geeky tshirts, hair thrown back, blue jeans and boots, I want to be able to be soft, clean, put together and feminine at times by wearing skirts with tights, blazers and slightly low cut undershirts. It makes me feel good about me and keeps things fresh for us both. I think women are also largely taught that reaction, that oh gosh you are leering at me so you must be objectifying me as a sex object. As a woman who is also attracted to other women I never see myself when checking out another girl, as objectifying her but appreciating her beauty and my attraction to her. I'm not gwaking or looking because all I see is her cleavage but because I find her beautiful or cute, or attractive in some manner and that first bit of skin gets included in that attention.

A lot of it has to do with some of them want attention but only from certain people, that this is also how society tells you to dress if you want to be feminine and accepted as a female, and some of them probably just don't realize what they are doing. I love to dress up, but more often than not I cover almost everything, because of my own insecurities with my body, how every clevage shows, and a lot of it has to do with how women's clothes fit me and the fact I'm busty. I also will show small amounts of cleveage when out with the boyfriend, not because I am trying to attract anyone else's attention, but to draw my boyfriend's attention to me and so he sees me as sexy and attractive and feminine. Women are constantly bombarded to dress this way, look this way, show some skin it's sexy, and go to a women's clothing aisle and you will be hard pressed to not find a top that doesn't reveal some clevage or skin of some sort, (hence why I always buy tshirts in the men's section) To be feminine and a female according to the media, which we do learn to imitate as a way to construct gender identity, is to show skin, dress slightly provactive, but not too much or your a slut and will be rejected, don't cover too much or your a prude and will also be rejected. I think that is why you see so many women who show a little skin and then feel self concious about it, because they don't know how else to express themselves, they don't know how to construct this idea of feminine in any other way

My perfect date, hmmm, *scratches head* I think last weekend I had my perfect date, which was I came home from work feeling blah, bf told me to go put on something that would make me feel better and that we were going on an adventure. I got cleaned up and dressed up, and he took me on an adventure, we listened to one of the cds he got me for Halloween and he surprised me by taking me to a local bar that is also a micro brew and has awesome calazones. We just talked and enjoyed each others company, had a couple of beers, ate dinner and then he bought me a slager of my favorite house brew at the bar to take home. I always love dates that are relaxed and at ease. Our first date was like that too after I got done being a nervous wreck Also side note, sleezy hotel dates with your special somepony can be fun

I always loved The Baroness and Cobra Commander in the original cartoon and especially in the IDW comics. The Baroness because she is so fascinating to me and at times seems conflicted. Cobra Commander because he is always so rigid and will get to his goal no matter the means to get there

Have you looked into getting a bearded dragon? They don't smell, they don't make a lot of noise, and they are a reptile that enjoys being held and they get a decent size. They do have an upstart costs, but bringing home any animal does. It isn't cheap taking care of an animal and you need to make sure you can provide it with all of.its needs. Even reptiles need to see a vet for annual checkups, also if you are looking into a reptile check and see if vets in your area do exotics I would encourage you too look at bearded dragons though, you usually find them when they are babies, so they are small, about the size of a gecko, but they do get bigger and you need to look at a bigger habitat for them to grow in. They are very calm and usually don't mind being handled, when they get to be adults they will happily ride around on the front of your shirt and are very chill.

Ditto about the maybe asking too soon for her number bit. Do you know her name? What year she is? Did you ask other personal information before asking her for her number? If not then you may have spooked her, if so than maybe she is just very shy or super cautious, I almost NEVER gave my number out to anyone when I was still single, I would give out Im info and I would instant message with them for awhile and then move on to my number later. I'm also prone to fits of paranoia and live in a constant state of anxiety, but it still holds true for many girls that they aren't big on giving out a number too soon. If you see her again talk to her, make it casual, get to know her, and if it gets brought up apologize for asking too fast, if it doesn't get brought up then don't worry about it. If she is a freshman too she is also adjusting to college life, and as Solarwind pointed out she may not be in to guys. But she could still be an awesome friend. You should pat yourself on the back though for giving it a go, it takes a lot of courage, just next time maybe ease up a little and go with the flow. You'll get the hang of it

I would dress up as Luna . I think she would be fun to do and brainstorm up ideas for. Either her or Applejack. Too bad i already have my costume this year

You need to go to your RA of the dorm hall. that is what they are there for. I suggest talking to him first about the money, if he blows it off then for sure take it to the RA. This isn't just some poster, this guy vandalized your shit and was belligerent with you. Most RA's are trained to mediate roommate disputes or at least can direct you in the right place. If worse.comes. to worse they will reassign roommates for you. Also being drunk is not an excuse to be an asshole, I have been belligerently drunk off my ass before many a time and I never broke anything, got in a fight or destroyed someones property. He is using it as an excuse for his behaviour. As well as y'all had an agreement, the room was divided down the middle, part of living in the dorms is you have to have the maturity level to realize another person lived there and may put up shit you don't want to see. I would ask for a roommate change, if this is how this guy acts when he drinks then you don't want to spend the rest of the semester with him probably, not to mention he got butthurt over a poster when you have made great efforts to be respectable to him for everything else.

You don't look 12 at all, I would guess without knowing you were 17 or 18. When i was a teen people thought I was a lot older than I was. I would go to resturants when I was 16 and waiters would ask me if I would like a drink, they thought I was 21!! Now that I am in my 20's it has evened out for the most part, although people still sometimes think.I am a bit older I am 22 people still think I am around 25, a bit damaging to the ego, part of it is because my boyfriend is 30 so people assume I am closer to his age.